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How do I get my friend back?

 
 

My BFF doesn't like it when I hang out with my friend Laura. She always gets jealous and says mean things about her. But I like Laura and I want to keep being her friend.

 

My BFF has no right to tell me who to hang out with, so I stayed away from her. Now Laura and I are best friends and have way more in common than I had with my ex-BFF, but I still miss her. I’m afraid she doesn’t want anything to do with me because I ditched her. How can we start being friends again?

 

You’re right: Your BFF was not acting like a BFF. She should be welcoming to the other people in your life. But she also may have felt threatened by your new friendship and did not handle it the right way.

 

Your ex-bestie might miss you too, but feels rejected. Try being honest with her and let her know that you didn’t like the ‘tude she was giving Laura, but that you wish all three of you could be friends. Or at least that you could regain your old friendship.

 

Just be straight with your friends, and try not to expect them to read your mind. You might find that you’re more on the same page than you think.
 
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BY LINDSEY SILKEN ON 12/3/2010 7:00:00 AM

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Hey, Me and my best friend amie have been friends since grade 8 and I about two years ago I gave my bff a number so a guy that would leave me alone, so she started talking to him, and they started dating, she would talk to me for months then she would talk to me, then we got in a fight over something that I didn't want to do, they save and I started talk for a week after and I haven't heard from here since and that was like 5-6 months ago and we are friends of facebook, when ever I said her a message telling her how I fell about is going on, or tell her I miss her and would like to talk to her I don't get a msg back, what should I do.

by princess90 on 6/7/2011 11:18:38 PM

 
 

oh im so sorry this happend to me once i have a friend named zohre but now i dont know if she is my friend any more... :[ she told my worst enimey [melissa] that i put a phone in melissas jacket so she would look like she stole it! when she only told her that After the fact we found my friends phone in her pocket. i hate them well i still got friends that know i didnt do it!

by mozilla10 on 4/5/2011 5:38:56 PM

 
 

mod mod mod! i have been friends with sophia for a long time and last summer i made a new friend named brooklyn and we became really good friends fast. but at this after school activity me, brooklyn and sophia where in the same group, and i found out sophia and brooklyn didn't like each other at all. sophia had another friend there and brooklyn didn't so i was with brooklyn more, but i was sophia some of the time too. now when ever i'm at one of there houses there always telling me what they don't like about each other and tell me they don't now why i'm friends with the other. me and brooklyn have more in common than me and sophia, so i like brooklyn better, but i wish they would like each other more. is there any thing i can do to get them to stop being mean to each other?

 

 

Hey chica! I'd definately talk to each of them separately, and let them know that while you respect their opinion, you don't want to hear about how bad the other person is. Let them know that you're going to be friends with  both of them, regardless of what the other thinks.

xxx

Becca G.

by GemstoneOnyx on 4/3/2011 7:20:30 PM

 
 

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I was best friends with this girl named chloe last year. Now she has a friend named angie. Angie seems nice. But now I don't think she wants to be my friend any more. She is stuck like glue to angie and they wisper about things at the lunch table(It feels like they are talking about me sometimes). And yesterday I thought I'd sit down by angie then she moved and directed to another table leaving me alone. Chloe said that angie is perfectly nice and would never do anything to be mean. Now CHloe claims I gave her a dirty glare but I don't recall.... I feel very confused and I don't know what to think.




Hey girl, that def sounds confusing. Let her know that you really don't understand what she's accusing you of, but you've never done anything like that. You think they're great and just hope you all can be friends. Be friendly and genuine and remember in this case the way to play is the more, the merrier.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by 25noodles on 3/3/2011 9:12:30 PM

 
 



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well my friends keep fighting and im always in the middle of it Frown every time they say mean things and do something bad well (this sounds really stupid) but i worry if they are good friends or not.you see i was always told to always have good friends because they infuence who you are and how you act- but now im really really worrie dabout whether mine are good or not Frown not that they are not amazing and they dont fight very often and they are usually amazing but times like this when they fight make me question things :/ its really stressing me out. people have said tho when i ahve said this to my mum and sister that every group of friends have fighs and every friend says mean stuff to each other cause. what do i do ?please please help! <3 xxxxxxxxxxxx




Hey babe,

Just because your friends can't seem to agree with one another doesn't mean they're bad friends for you - it just means they have stuff to work out between themselves! Try reading these articles about friend fights... I think they might really help <3


Lauren C.

by taylorswiftxx on 2/21/2011 7:11:37 PM

 
 

MOD!!!! Please help me!!! So this is what happened: My friend 'A' wanted to know if my friend 'B' had facebook so she wanted to know her e-mail. My friend 'B' told me her e-mail and to not tell anyone and only send her school stuff, so I only send her school stuff and explained to friend 'A' that I can't tell her because it's secret.But every time I sent her an e-mail it gets disabled so i don't think it's real.) Friend 'B''s bff told friend 'A' that friend 'B' has facebook. But friend 'B' told me she doesn't have facebook so I told friend 'A' she doesn't have facebook. But friend 'A' thinks i am lying and I told her I wasn't lying. And now she thinks that friend 'B' or her bff is lying, but friend'B' might actually be lying to me!!! help!!

 

Hey girl! Sounds like a tricky situation. Has Friend A tried to look Friend B up on facebook? If not she should and if she can't find her then she's probably not on there. As far as the e-mail goes you can't help that your e-mails are returned and you should probably tell Friend A that you're not sure it's even a real e-mail. If Friend A really wants her e-mail or facebook that badly she should ask Friend B herself. No need to put you in the middle of it all!

Caitlin F.

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by kmn21 on 1/15/2011 3:23:17 PM

 
 

MOD! MOD! MOD! okay so like in september/oct or so in 2010. My friend went to this girls house that i told her to be aware of. but she went anyway and spent the nite. Well i found out that they both got drunk and i was really diapointed, and so mad! So i told her that i never wanted to talk to her again. But now her parents wont allow her to go to that girls house anymore and my friend got grounded (ps shes 14) i told all my friends about it (not using the names) and they said i did the right thing. But my mom thinks im overreacting a bit. But idk what to do because it IS a NEW year. So should i start talkin to her again, say sorry or just dont even talk to her. and she did it only once. so idk??? and im a year younger than her too

 

Hey girlie. I think saying that you would never talk to her again is a bit harsh. It gets harder to say "no" for some people. Try talking to her and asking why she did it so maybe you can help her if she is having a hard time. Don't rule her out--be a better friend than that.

Elizabeth P.

by Japarican on 1/7/2011 11:57:08 PM

 
 

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One of my friends passed away this morning of lung failure. We were not bffs or anything, but she was a great person and I really miss her. I feel so terrible and no one else seems to care about her. I can't stop crying, and thinking why it was her. She was so sweet and kind. What can I do to remember her and feel better?
Thanks,
Ellee




Hey girl, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. What happened is awful and you have every right to feel the way you do. Talk to your parents. Write a letter to her and make a scrapbook of your memories together. Just because she's gone doesn't mean you have to forget her; what you should do is focus on the good, know she's in a better place and celebrate the memories you did have and the impact such a wonderful girl had on your life. Stay strong, girl. You'll be OK.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by elleeroses on 1/4/2011 10:20:48 PM

 
 

MOD MOD! Okay heres my story. I have always wanted to be the kind of person who could turn around at any momment and have someone to talk too. i got in a fight with one of the girls in my grade who is apparently "popular". and she is in 3/5 of the "popular" groups. and i feel like i cant be in a group that she's in. I feel like shes ruining my chances of getting into one of those groups. and theres no chance of making it right with her, it was too big of a fight. So for now im stuck with the "losers" and i hate it. How can i make more friends (like everyone in my grade is in a "group") or get into one of the groups? and i cant join any clubs, my scedule is too full.

 

Hey girl, One thing that might help is to try not to see people as only "losers" or "populars."  I know, it's hard, because it seems like school just works that way.  But seeing beyond that will not only make you stand out (in a good way!) but it will make it so much easier to make friends.  Instead of trying to fit into this group or that one, try to be friendly with everyone you meet.  Say hello, smile, and strike up a convo people that seem nice in your classes.  If you are a positive person with everyone (including people you don't think you get along with), you will attract friends.  Check out this article for more tips:  http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/08/17/i-want-more-confidence.aspx.  Good luck!  Smile

Marie H.

by Purplgirl15 on 1/3/2011 9:14:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!! my friend lives in a high crime neighborhood so my parents dont feel comfterable picking her up or letting me go over her house. Shes a trouble maker too so my parents dont want her to come over. She lies too.should i ditch her? i feel bad cause someone said well y shuld u invite hannah to the concert if she never invites u over. help!!!

 

hey girl! if she's a trouble maker, she may be best to stay away from! maybe not completely, especially if she's still a good friend and a nice girl, but based on what you've said it may be better to keep her as a friend but not a really close one. hope this helps!

Caitlin F.

by gymnastinthe<3 on 12/30/2010 12:14:46 PM

 
 

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i think i'm becoming a third wheel. (B) is my best friend, and (L) is one of my friends but also her best friend. B recently transferred to a different school but they are still best friends. Whenever B and i are alone shes always nice to me but whenever L comes over, its like im not even there even if theyre at my house. once B came over to my house and we decided to call L. "We" talked for 2 hours. (by we i mean the two of them talked and every 5 min. i bumped into the conversation.) L's mom had to use the phone so they decided to get on the computer. They got on facebook and talked from about 9:00 to 12:30pm. they finally stopped talking when i told B that my mom probably wouldnt like us to be on the internet that late at night. Another time, we were all chatting on our email and L said "maybe we could all three way on our phones". i thought they meant w/ me but it was with someone else. i just dont like how they left me w/out anyone to talk to. i feel left out. Help!




Hey darling! Don't worry, because GL's got you covered. You can find some great advice on your situation here: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/03/15/left-out-BFFs.aspx 

 
Jessica W.

by brittany3997 on 12/29/2010 8:58:16 AM

 
 

MOD* so i was going out with this guy but my "best friend" thought i was cheating on him with one of my guy friends. so she conviced him to break up with me and got pissed at me for "cheating" but i wasnt... a couple of weeks later me an the guy started going out and she got pissed even more saying thaat she liked him and i betrayed her but i knew she didnt like him. she told me selfish an hasnt talked to me for 5 months... we were friends for four years and i miss her ... how do i get her to talk to me again??

 

Hey girl, If you want to try to get back to being friends, find a way to reach out.  It's up to you what the best way may be - it could be a phone call, an e-mail, or even a letter.  Let her know how you feel - that you are sorry things went badly between the two of you and that you miss her friendship.  Hopefully she will be ready to give it another try too.  xoxo

Marie H.

by shygirl4ever on 12/27/2010 9:11:35 PM

 
 

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Me and my best friend recently got into a fight and it went kinda deep... We aren't exactly completely seperated and we are still talking and everything but it isnt very stable right now. If i say something wrong that SORT OF sounds like it could have two meanings i get told off. How do I deal with this?

 

Hey girlie. That's hard. Maybe it's best to take some time away from one another for a little while. It's best to talk when you have settled down and are not acting off of emotion.

Elizabeth P.

by Chrissy207 on 12/27/2010 12:36:08 PM

 
 

Mod!

Hey girl, I am so sorry to hear that your mom does not see all your friends as equals.  This is a really sensitive subject, so I would recommend talking to another adult you trust (like a counselor at school, or a teacher) who can help you through it and give you guidance, if you don't want to talk to your mom directly.  xoxo

Marie H.

by moosempepper on 12/20/2010 11:11:20 PM

 
 

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hi soo im dating this guy who is ssoooo sweet and nice but is a little chubby....now dont get me wrong i do not care about his appearence but the problem is my friend saw him on facebook and she made a mean comment about how he is chubby. I really dont care what she thinks im happy to be with him but it bothered me becuz shes my friend and she should be happy for me and she is also a hipocrit becuz she says dont jugde a book by its cover and yet she said that plz help im a little hurt by it all. thankz




Hey chica,

If you're feeling offended by what she said, you have every right to let her know about it. Don't get emotional or anything, but just calmly tell her that her comment about your BF upset you because you really care about him. Let her know you appreciate her honesty but sometimes she shouldn't say exactly what she's thinking, if it's going to be hurtful to someone. Tell her you depend on her to be supportive and be there for you, so it was disappointing when she said that. As long as you tell her in a mature and calm way, she won't get angry - but she should know that what she said wasn't ok!

Lauren C.

by mojo41 on 12/20/2010 6:19:47 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD Whenever I go to my cousin's house and her other side of the family is there she always hangs out with them and leaves me out...same if any of her friends are over. It makes me feel upset and unimportant. I've told her exactly how I feel before. She said she would do better but she continues to do the same thing!!

 

Hey girlie, I'm soo sorry you feel that way and it's not right for her to continue to do the same thing.  Ask her why she leaves you out?

Paige T.

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by NSNlover on 12/19/2010 6:50:43 PM

 
 

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Help! i had a big fight with my besst friend months ago and we went our seperate ways and she has been absolutely horrible to me since then and it sounds insane but i miss her we spent EVERY day together and shared EVERYTHING we were like attached at the hip and she has moved on but i still think she wants to be friends too and idk what to do anymore please help! i miss my bff Frown




Hey girlie,

I'm so sorry, I know exactly how you feel. It's tough to go from having a BFF that you spent that much time with to not having her at all - you're bound to miss her at least a little! But you can get through this! Instead of dwelling on it and remembering all the things you're missing out on, focus on what you have. You have great friends around you to hang out with and tons of ways to make yourself happy! Get involved in a new club/sport to meet new potential friends and try to move on too. Later, when you both are less emotional about things, you can always try to get back in touch and see if you can fix things. For now, just try to give her space and see what happens <3

Lauren C.

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by starshineteddy on 12/15/2010 6:16:53 PM

 
 

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I really, really, dislike my name. I've asked multiple times if I can legally change my name to something else, but my mom says not until I'm 12(which is another year from now.) Is there anything I can do to convince her? (My parents are divorced, but I live with my mom)
Thanks,
Katani K.




Hey girl, I think that's a pretty reasonable compromise; you couldn't do it yourself until you turn 18. Trust me, I used to go around wanting to change my name because no one could pronounce it. I'm glad my parents never let me; I've grown to like it now.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by FashionGurlie on 12/14/2010 11:26:50 PM

 
 

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One of my friends in school is nice when we are not doing classwork, but when we are she gets mad at me if i say anything at all! Like im not to good at math and if we are ever partners and i ask her for help she says: "You dont know anything" and rolls her eyes. And if i ever say anything about math she says: "You just want me to give you the answers." Idk what to do should i stay friends or just try to avoid her.?




Hey girlie. It sounds like maybe your friend just takes her school work pretty seriously and wants to do well with it. I would tell her that you don't want her to give you the answers, but are looking for some help so you can better understand it. Maybe she can tutor you after school and then during class you can find the answers together! Let me know how it turns out : )
Elizabeth P.

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by cheerfreak on 12/13/2010 10:27:59 PM

 
 

Mooooooodddd.
This girl hates me because of something that happend last year. She won't quit giggling with her friends (trying to make me feel Insicure), spreading rumors, and telling people I bullied her, when it's the other way around. I want her to quit with this catty behavior, but I don't know how to say it in a way where she won't twist it, or think it's getting to me. It's been going on for a year now, and I'm tired of it. Any suggestions?

 

Hey girlie, my advice is to try your best to ignore her and most definitely tell an adult. 

Paige T.

by bexthespy007 on 12/12/2010 11:47:15 PM

 
 

One of my 3 best friends otheer wise known as sisters likes the guy that i have likes for about a year and a hlaf. I have known this guy simnce i was a baby, and she just met him 2 years ago. She was talking to him and she texted me that she liked him. I cried and she said she wants to go out wiht him not thinking bout my feelings. I cryed and cryed. He told me that he was going to dump his gf tomorrow and ask her out he said she was a ten. We played texting truth or dare and i confest i liked him alot he said sorry and asked how much i said 10 and he said sorry. then i told my friend tht i told himm and guess wht she said. DONT DO THT HE MIGHT NOT LIKE M,E IF HE KNOWS U LIKE HIM.I love her btut i couldnt take it I started teling her everything from she acts like i ahvent lked him for 2 years and thta i dont have aheart and she is making me cry and that i love him and all that. and she says this. Im sorry but i like him and he likes me back and u cant like him i said i liked him first




Hey girl. I'm sorry to hear that there is so much drama for you : (  I know you like him and it's hard to know that he likes your best friend. But do you really want to make your best friend not like a guy because you like him too? It's hard to just turn your feelings off when you really like someone. If you can, try to be the bigger person and say, I do like him and it will be hard to see you two together, but I want you both to be happy and if that means being together, then so be it. If you really feel like you can't do that, that tell her that you are really hurting and you need her to be a good friend and at least wait a while before dating him so you can get over it and move on to someone else. Good luck. Hope this helps. If not, write back and we can figure something else out, together. xoxo 
Elizabeth P.

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by Ilovesummerfun on 12/5/2010 5:51:15 PM

 
 

MOOOOOOOOOODDDDD PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!! my ex friend and my bffs are now bffs but im still my bestfriends bff to and i feel like she never has time for me anymore and i think my ex friend tries to get bak at me wit always doing soemthing wit my bff 2day she pretended to b my bff o tha phone txtin me but i knew it was hur and she called me a moron so i called my bff and asked her if she wanted to ome over but sh said she cudnt bcuz she was wit my ex friend so i called her bak a couple hours later and asked her if she wanted to go to skatin but she was already goin wit my exfriend she knos im not ok but i told her i was anyways so she wudnt feel bad but now im crying so hard shud i go skatin anyways and snag my bff away from her other one or just tell her i cnt do it anymore i cnt compete for her friendship im so hurt i just need help plz plz plz mod help me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girlie. Friendships are always hard. The hard part is that people get to choose who they want to be friends with, so if your ex friend and your bff want to be friends, you can't really stop them. You should probably have a talk with your bff about it, and tell her how you feel.

Marly Z.

by akenla on 12/4/2010 6:41:29 PM

 
 

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Ok, so this week at school we found out that two of my friends have been raped by the same teacher... I'm feeling very sad and blue for these girls, and I don't know what to say to them. What should I do????? Thanks!




Hey girlie, if that teacher isn't in jail then you need to talk to an adult at school. You need to get this man to take responsibility for what he's done. Just be especially nice to your friends and try not to treat them like they're damaged. 

Lauren T.

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by topchef88 on 12/4/2010 3:49:13 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! one of my really good guy freinds is going out with my best friend, carly. Carly does gymnastics and she is extremely devoted to it. she practices 16 hours a week and has meets every weekend. my guy freind andrew, texted me saying "i think im losing intrest in carly....i mean i love her to death, its just her gymnastics thing...i dont want her to quit because she loves it, but on the other hand she is NEVER free. what should i do, i feel like im losing intrest in her cuz i never see her and im not gonna see her bc she has meets all thu this weekend, next and the one after that. i dont know what to do about it" i told him i would think about it and get back to him ASAP. i realllllly want to help him wihtout breaking her. what should i say to him? thanks (ps i used fake names)




hey! Well, I think he might have to break up with her. He either has to decide to make an effort to be happy for the times he can see her, but if that's really not enough for him he can't just pretend it's ok when it's not. good luck!

Helen S.

by tay12zdot on 12/4/2010 3:20:52 PM

 
 

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hey, mod! I was wondering, (I'm new here), how long will my profile be moderated? Thanks! Laughing




hey! it should be ready in a week max, but probably sooner Smile 

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by NOWHEAT on 12/4/2010 2:42:26 PM

 
 

i kind of have the same problem only i would be the almost ex-bestie in the situation. My best friend, lets call her "megan" is starting to hang out with a bunch of girls in the grade above me. my other best freind notices too. Now, "Megan" just sometimes ditches us 4 her new freinds and doesn't even sit with us at lunch. But when the rest of her older freinds aren't around, she doesn't even notice how hurt me and my other BFF feel. Idk what to do, and i feel like i can't come right out and say "I want you to choose me over them" because that would sound really bratty and possesive. PLease help!Also, i was wondering how you submit entries to Girl talk?

by sarah4eva on 12/4/2010 10:28:07 AM

 
 

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ok i have the same problem except i never said mean things about this "Laura" my friend just stated hanging out with and and now we never see each other so i started hanging out with my new friends but its not the same so i told her i want to hang out with them and she should introduce us but she never did and never invites me to hang out, i don't want to dump her tho cause when we do hang out she is the best friend a girl could have and my new friends arent like close with me so ya but what do i do? i never have anyone to hang out with anymore.




Hey girlie, 

I think you should talk to your friend tell her that she is the best friend a girl can ask for and that you would like to hang out with her again. I know you asked already but I think if you tell her how great a friend she is to you I think she be more willing to make an effort to meet up and hang out. I hope this helps.  
Paige T.

by wednesday1408 on 12/4/2010 2:06:37 AM

 
 

same thing with me except i didn't say mean things about "Laura" and my friend never lets me hang out with them.

by wednesday1408 on 12/4/2010 2:01:43 AM

 
 

MOD!!!! please help. i am on the speech team and i was going to do a duet with a guy named peter. well our teacher gave us our speech and in it we had to kiss multiple times. i really wasnt comfortable with it but i didnt say anything. peter agreed to do it and then we left. later i went back and told the teacher i didnt want to do that speech and he said that was fine but when i told peter he freaked out. i know he likes me and was probably upset. but now hes going around school telling everyone i wanted to kiss him and that im lying to everyone. and hes calling me fat and ugly and stupid and a bunch of other nasty words. peter isnt very popular so i didnt expect people to believe him but they are believing him and im constantly getting teased and i have already had multiple friends believe him and ditch me. HELP!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girlie, I'm sorry to hear that Peter has been calling you all of those names. While you may be upset, it's best to try and let it go. You might want to talk to your friends though who have ditched you. Maybe they don't realize they did that. Or, if they have, you might want to look for better friends because if a friend ditches you over rumors, they don't seem like very good friends. And eventually the rumors will subside- as soon as some other rumor starts.

Marly Z.

by rightfield1 on 12/3/2010 10:26:18 PM

 
 

sumthin similar happened to me but it was a guy and the jerk was named laura
she didnt want me to be friends with him so i ditched her
she still hates me Frown

by iluvjustinb830 on 12/3/2010 7:12:02 PM

 
 

Girls do that. They want them to be your only friend.

by bff61 on 12/3/2010 6:06:09 PM

 
 

CALLING ALL CHRISTIAN GIRLS!!!!!!
I have decided to create a support group for christian girls going through tough times. I'm calling it FEARLESS FEMALES. If you wanna share stories, verses, or ask for advice from your fellow girlies, post it on my profile!

FEARLESS FEMALES!!!

by pondhouse on 12/3/2010 5:48:41 PM

 
 

I was welcomed into a circle of three BFFs and even though my "connection" moved away, the two other girls are still besties with me. Smile

by Emerald_Sparkles on 12/3/2010 8:48:46 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! I just found out that two of my friends have been raped by the same teacher in our school! I'm really freaked and I don't want to go back to school... (though he got arrested) I also don't know what to say to my friends!!! They are both sweet girls and fell into his trap without suspect! HELP!

 

Hey sista! Ask your mom about what would be the best way to mail them! She would know best : )
 


Elizabeth P.

by vintage456 on 12/3/2010 8:24:29 AM

 
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