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My brother lost his sight



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Two months ago, my nine-year-old brother has had a tumor removed from his brain. He seems to be doing really well, the only problem is that his eyesight is extremely bad. He really can't see things and when he looks for something, it takes him forever to find it.

 

It's hard not to get frustrated, especially with all that is going on in my life right now. He’s going to learn Braille, and I want to learn it too so I can read his books to him if he has trouble (my mom and dad are too stressed to learn). Do you have any suggestions for how I can help my brother?


Hey Chica,


I’m sorry to hear that your brother and family has had to go through this. But I am extremely happy to hear that he’s doing really well. It’s great that you want to help your brother by learning Braille. Here a few tips to help him adjust even more.    

Be patient


It’s totally normal that you get a little frustrated when your brother has trouble finding things, but imagine how frustrated and upset it makes him feel. It’s an even bigger change for him, so a little patience from you would be a big help to him. If you feel yourself getting frustrated or annoyed, take a deep breath and see if there’s a way you can help the situation.

Be sensitive


It sounds like you love and care about your brother a lot. But there are kids out there who may understand him as well, and it’s possible he will get picked on for being a bit different. 
 

So it’s important that you make sure your brother knows he can come to you if he ever needs to talk about what he’s going through. Also, say positive things to encourage him and keep his self-esteem high while he adjusts to being blind.    

Be the same big sister you’ve always been


While it’s important to be sensitive and patient, it’s also important to be the fun big sister every kid wants. Ask the Braille instructor if he/she can suggest any fun games or activities you can do with your brother.  

 

You might also want to encourage your rents to get on the Braille bandwagon. It’s important that your whole family supports your brother during this difficult transition and years to come.

Good luck girlie!

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Its ok , i had a brain tumour once when i was 10. Its not nice at all but you are so brave and caring about him and you help him read and maybe you could talk to your parents
about it but if they are too stressed , its best not to
say anything , GOOD LUCK and i hope you Brother gets his
eye sight better and i have high hopes for him Smile x

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by xxDannyxx on 3/30/2011 10:46:05 PM

 
 

I'm so sorry sweetie, this must be really hard for you. Im sure that you ever want to talk to anyone, your friends are there for you. And the school conceleur is also there to help you. Be brave for him. He looks up to you and if he sees that you are upset, he might start feeling worse emotionally.

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by CatieD on 1/20/2011 3:52:01 PM

 
 

That is really sad mm BFF's cousin has Batten's Disease and he can't see anything at all. It's really sad to think about anything like that.

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by nerdisthewurd26 on 1/14/2011 3:43:07 PM

 
 

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Hey girl, The best thing would be to talk to him directly, in a one-on-one convo.  If that doesn't feel right yet, consider if there is another adult you can talk to that you trust.  Think of someone who would be supportive but also could keep it confidential (a counselor would be great if you don't know someone).  They can help you think through the best way to handle the situation and approach your dad.  No matter what, if you do approach him, make sure he knows you love him and support him no matter what.  xoxo

Marie H.

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by emandemf on 1/10/2011 10:46:07 PM

 
 

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