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My brother lost his sight



Two months ago, my nine-year-old brother has had a tumor removed from his brain. He seems to be doing really well, the only problem is that his eyesight is extremely bad. He really can't see things and when he looks for something, it takes him forever to find it.

 

It's hard not to get frustrated, especially with all that is going on in my life right now. He’s going to learn Braille, and I want to learn it too so I can read his books to him if he has trouble (my mom and dad are too stressed to learn). Do you have any suggestions for how I can help my brother?


Hey Chica,


I’m sorry to hear that your brother and family has had to go through this. But I am extremely happy to hear that he’s doing really well. It’s great that you want to help your brother by learning Braille. Here a few tips to help him adjust even more.    

Be patient


It’s totally normal that you get a little frustrated when your brother has trouble finding things, but imagine how frustrated and upset it makes him feel. It’s an even bigger change for him, so a little patience from you would be a big help to him. If you feel yourself getting frustrated or annoyed, take a deep breath and see if there’s a way you can help the situation.

Be sensitive


It sounds like you love and care about your brother a lot. But there are kids out there who may understand him as well, and it’s possible he will get picked on for being a bit different. 
 

So it’s important that you make sure your brother knows he can come to you if he ever needs to talk about what he’s going through. Also, say positive things to encourage him and keep his self-esteem high while he adjusts to being blind.    

Be the same big sister you’ve always been


While it’s important to be sensitive and patient, it’s also important to be the fun big sister every kid wants. Ask the Braille instructor if he/she can suggest any fun games or activities you can do with your brother.  

 

You might also want to encourage your rents to get on the Braille bandwagon. It’s important that your whole family supports your brother during this difficult transition and years to come.

Good luck girlie!

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BY TYLER JENKINS ON 12/6/2010 7:00:00 AM

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Its ok , i had a brain tumour once when i was 10. Its not nice at all but you are so brave and caring about him and you help him read and maybe you could talk to your parents
about it but if they are too stressed , its best not to
say anything , GOOD LUCK and i hope you Brother gets his
eye sight better and i have high hopes for him Smile x

by xxDannyxx on 3/30/2011 10:46:05 PM

 
 

I'm so sorry sweetie, this must be really hard for you. Im sure that you ever want to talk to anyone, your friends are there for you. And the school conceleur is also there to help you. Be brave for him. He looks up to you and if he sees that you are upset, he might start feeling worse emotionally.

by CatieD on 1/20/2011 3:52:01 PM

 
 

That is really sad mm BFF's cousin has Batten's Disease and he can't see anything at all. It's really sad to think about anything like that.

by nerdisthewurd26 on 1/14/2011 3:43:07 PM

 
 

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Hey girl, The best thing would be to talk to him directly, in a one-on-one convo.  If that doesn't feel right yet, consider if there is another adult you can talk to that you trust.  Think of someone who would be supportive but also could keep it confidential (a counselor would be great if you don't know someone).  They can help you think through the best way to handle the situation and approach your dad.  No matter what, if you do approach him, make sure he knows you love him and support him no matter what.  xoxo

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by emandemf on 1/10/2011 10:46:07 PM

 
 

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by frizzheadgal on 12/15/2010 8:00:06 PM

 
 

That is very sad. God bless and I hope everything gets bttr

by samigurl on 12/10/2010 7:25:11 PM

 
 

i'm so sorry about that.

by aqua girl on 12/7/2010 9:13:28 PM

 
 

Aww, I'm so sorry about your brother girlie. I find it so brave and thoughtful of you though to learn Braille along with your brother so you can read to him(: I'm sure he looks up to you and he will love you for doing this thing for him. Good luck!<3

by michipie205 on 12/7/2010 9:00:51 PM

 
 

Awww! I am so sorry its very good to know that there are people in this world who are willing to learn somthing for a family member... good luck! Smile

by birds!swim!12345 on 12/7/2010 8:54:29 PM

 
 

awww
i know u'll be okay girl

by oreolover123 on 12/7/2010 5:06:12 PM

 
 

so srry bout ur brother, but dude u rock how much u care n dedicated

by kellyton on 12/6/2010 8:43:54 PM

 
 

O wow...I'm SO sorry. My bro almost lost sight completely in his right eye to Coats' Disease. He had to get a lot of surgeries done, but the doctors were amazing and now it's almost completely gone! Well, good luck hun!

by singing4life! on 12/6/2010 8:39:49 PM

 
 

aww I hope everything works out with the Braille learning!

by istylista on 12/6/2010 8:38:35 PM

 
 

Hey Girl, that must be so tough! It will be hard for him to cope for a while, but with a super dedicated sis like you, it'll be that much easier for him!
I just finished reading a book about a bling guy. I't called "His Eyes". It might be worth reading it, seing how diff people deal with being blind. Good Luck! Smile

by JustinBieberROX! on 12/6/2010 6:15:53 PM

 
 

Awwwwwww
Girlie if you need help, chack out my profile. I have a group called FEARLESS FEMALES, and it is a group for girls who are interested in christianity or already christian. Help God lead the way, and gain support from your fellow girlies.

FEARLESS FEMALES!

by pondhouse on 12/6/2010 6:03:24 PM

 
 

Im so sorry;( GLs advice sounds like it will help alot!!!!!!:-[

by jazmine ann on 12/6/2010 5:06:49 PM

 
 

im sorry i would be really frustrated;( if i was you but take gls advice it sounds really good!

by jazmine ann on 12/6/2010 5:04:12 PM

 
 

ohmagod im sooooo sorry girlie.....u will get through it. i think its awesome that u wanna help him out.....u r such a good sister and such an inspiration!

by josoccer5 on 12/6/2010 4:53:15 PM

 
 

ohh i am sorry girl...Frown... you can always hlep him though..i think it is a great advise from girlslife ;)

by sunshine96 on 12/6/2010 3:34:02 PM

 
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