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I'm too pushy with guys



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Every time I have a crush, I sort of try to force my friendship on him. I don't mean to be pushy, it just sort of happens.
 
First and foremost, you’ve got the right idea, but you’re going all wrong about it. You are definitely to be commended for not being timid when it comes to talking to guys that you have the hots for. However, you should never force a friendship, especially on a guy that you’re crushing on.
 
By forcing yourself on the guy, you could be pushing him farther away from you. You also might be giving him the wrong impression about your feelings toward him and he may just keep you in the “friend” zone.
 
Try and get to know him, but allow the connection to happen at its own pace. Give your crush a chance to show you whether he likes you back the way that you like him. By doing this, you will also gain better foresight about whether he has an interest in you as more than just a friend.
 
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So I've been dating this guy for a week now and I'm leaving tomorrow to go to Hawaii for a week. I trust him completely but that's what I'm worried about. I'm scared that he will cheat or break up with me when I come back. Is there any advice that could put my mind at ease?
~Missing You




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by hollygirl88 on 12/7/2010 7:17:01 PM

 
 

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I was on the phone with my bf the other night and he told me he missed me, so I said "I miss you, too." and he said "Love you, too." so I was like "What..." and he was like "Wait, did you say that...?" and I told him no, that I had said I missed him, too and he was like "Oh! Okay." and totally fine with it, so I said "I'll say it eventually... Just not yet." It has been driving me crazy and I feel really bad that he thought I said it when I didn't! I'm now questioning if I do love him... We have been dating almost three months, but have known each other for almost five. I know it would be normal not to love him by now, or TO love him, if I did, but I just feel really weird about this whole situation. I still like him a whole lot, more than any other guy I've liked, and I've felt 100% comfortable around him since the night we've met... I just feel really weird! Why do I feel so weird about this and how do I stop! Thanks.




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by RainbowStar on 12/7/2010 6:46:37 PM

 
 

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Okay so I used to be in love with my bestfriends older brother. Well, they moved (she's still my bestie!) And im crushin on this guy who goes to my school and i just got the guts to talk to him and we really hit it off! we're close now! but now im going to see my bestie and her older brother! But i see the guy @ school everyday!!! I'm so confused. His bday is when im going to see them and i already got him a gift but i dont want him to get the wrong idea. my besties older brother is in 9th grade and im in seventh but the guy @ school is in 8th if that helps at all! Thanssomuch! -kt




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by ktbug13 on 12/7/2010 6:24:36 PM

 
 

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i like this guy and he told me he liked me so i told him i like him also. but when we pass each other in the halls, we just maybe say hi but we never have an actual convo. im too shy and HE never comes up to me either. we text though, and its clear that we like each other but we just never talk at school! are we texting too much??? what should i do???????




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by dancenow on 12/7/2010 5:21:58 PM

 
 

MOD! How do I tell my mom i want to go to private school? Right now I'm in 8th grade and next year I want to go to a private school. The school is a Presbyterian school and I am one and my dad has been one forever. My brother just went to college and he went to a private Baptist University that costs $25000 a year. I don't want her to think I did it to copy him or anything. The school I want to transfer to is $12000 a year. I'm supposed to go to one of the best public high schools in the country next year, but I really want to go to this school. I also spend A LOT of money on clothes (like $20000 a year) and I would be wearing a uniform, so I would save money, but I don't know if she realizes that. How can I bring it up?




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by carolinerr on 12/7/2010 5:10:09 PM

 
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