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please help me!
my crush has a close friend that is in his little group. however, a guy came back to our school who got suspended.Lets call him J. even though i never talk to my crush, I have noticed that it seems that my crush's friend is becoming friend with J and leaving my crush in the dust. I wanna help, but without looking like i was watching my crush's every move!!!
please respond as soon as possible!!!!
thank you!

In all honestly theres not a whole lot you can do to help your crush. He has to deal with his friend situation on his own. Sorry. xoxo kerra 

Mod!! I need help! I really like this guy and I want to ask him out. I'm not scared to or anything, I just don't know ANYTHING about about dating or what to do with him or what to talk about. I know people always say to be myself but it's hard for me even with new friends. I'm 14 and I think it should come naturally (I don't go to public school idk it that the reason). But can you give me the run down of dating and some advice? Thanks soooo much(:

Hey girlie! We have a great article on our website which can help you get that guy to ask you out (http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/09/29/get-him-to-ask-you-out.aspx). If you need advice on dating, we have that covered too with our "Dating 101" section (http://www.girlslife.com/category/dating-101.aspx). Good luck! 

MOD MOD MOD I thought maybe I could get a 'professional' opinion on this... haha ok, so I like this guy, and for a while i was pretty sure he liked me too, we would always talk, and he would say flirty things to me, but now he doesnt really do that stuff and he rarely talks to me on facebook anymore, i just got texting but im not sure how to tell him my number, what do you think is going on and what should i do? , thanks btw. =)

 

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So there is this girl I know named Miki that is totally OBSESSED with one of my best guy friends! She hates it when I talk to him or don't include her in every bit of my life or his. Shes one of my friends, but she has threatened me with hurtful words, and i cant take it anymore! I have asked my friend if he liked her but he replied,"Never, I'm not interested!!". And when Miki asked me if he liked her i told her the truth months ago, but she still believes that he is in love with her....*little crazy*....What should I do???? I want to remain good friends with both of them but it doesn't seem like that will work. Thanks!

 

Hey girlie, none of your friends should verbally threaten you. I don't think you should be MIKI friend anymore if so you need to confront her and tell her she needs to change or you guys can't be friends anymore

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is it bad to have a crush on a guy who has a girlfriend? like we text and talk and sometimes it seems like he likes me. i don't know what to do. i kinda wanna wait for them to break up and then really try to flirt with him. i really like him and he's nice and not as immature as most of the guys i know. also, he's a little younger than me but i don't really care about that. but then there's also another girl who i think likes him too. i want him to like me more than her but would if i try to flirt with him too much while he still has a gf and it pushes us apart? pleeease help me

 

Hey girlie. It's best not to mess with guys who have girlfriends. How would you feel if you were their girlfriend, and your boyfriend was texting another girl? Who's to say he wouldn't do the same thing to you if you two were dating? It's really best to move on at least until he is broken up with his girlfriend. You need to tell him that he cannot have best of both worlds (date his gf and then talk to you on the side)!

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I hope you can answer this, but I have a really good guy friend. I like him but im not so sure if he likes me, but he does want to right in my agenda and we text 24/7? Any signs to what you think? Do you think he likes me? But anyways everytime I tell him that we have homeowrk he always asks me for the answers and to take pictures of the hmwrk and send it to him. I don't do it...i mkae up excuses but I don't want to do that. I don't want to tell a teacher that to get him in trouble but what should I do.
With all the love and care
KatieBieber

Hey girlie. It's good that you don't give him the answers because in the long run, that will hurt him more than help him. Tell him that you don't feel comfortable giving him the answers but that maybe you can help tutor him so he can understand it for himself. That way when the test comes around, he will do well and not need to cheat. Tell him that you believe he is really smart and can do well on his own. Also, if you tutor him you will get to spend some one on one time with him which could build your relationship. Good luck! xoxo 

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i like this guy and he told me he liked me so i told him i like him also. but when we pass each other in the halls, we just maybe say hi but we never have an actual convo. im too shy and HE never comes up to me either. we text though, and its clear that we like each other but we just never talk at school! are we texting too much??? what should i do???????

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im feel so bad right now ( not the sick way) my friend and i were in the hall and she started messing around in a sing song voice "????? is a loser!" so playing back i said "??????? a great big fat jackass!" i know it was really harsh. right after that she said "whatd u say?" and i told her i didnt mean it i was just kidding. she did a little fake cry thng that she does. (shes very dramatic) and walked away (so did i) now im really afraid shes mad at me. which is a problem because im litterally gona be with her all day twm. what should say to get her to NOT be mad??????

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I was on the phone with my bf the other night and he told me he missed me, so I said "I miss you, too." and he said "Love you, too." so I was like "What..." and he was like "Wait, did you say that...?" and I told him no, that I had said I missed him, too and he was like "Oh! Okay." and totally fine with it, so I said "I'll say it eventually... Just not yet." It has been driving me crazy and I feel really bad that he thought I said it when I didn't! I'm now questioning if I do love him... We have been dating almost three months, but have known each other for almost five. I know it would be normal not to love him by now, or TO love him, if I did, but I just feel really weird about this whole situation. I still like him a whole lot, more than any other guy I've liked, and I've felt 100% comfortable around him since the night we've met... I just feel really weird! Why do I feel so weird about this and how do I stop! Thanks.

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i like this guy and he told me he liked me so i told him i like him also. but when we pass each other in the halls, we just maybe say hi but we never have an actual convo. im too shy and HE never comes up to me either. we text though, and its clear that we like each other but we just never talk at school! are we texting too much??? what should i do???????

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I have this guy friend and we met about a month ago. I've spent a lot of time thinking about it, and I'm pretty sure he likes me. I have his number and I text him sometimes but I don't want to be too pushy. He never texts me first, but if I text him first he always responds. Is he not texting me first because he needs more time to get to know me? And how often is it okay to text a guy first without being too pushy? Thanks!