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How to help my friend deal with divorce

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My BFF's parents are getting a divorce. I never thought it could have happened because her family seemed so amazingly perfect—her parents and two-year-old sib.

But my friend's mom called my parents and told them about their family problems. My friend's mom wanted my mom and me to be there for my friend and notice if anything about her behavior was unusual.

How can I help her overcome the pain?

Hey girl,

Divorce is a tough situation for anyone to go through. But it’s great that your friend has people in her life who care about her well being, including you.

Being there makes a big difference

Having your parents divorce can be a very lonely experience. While many girls and guys go through it, your friend might feel like no one understands or there’s no one she can talk to. Make sure she knows that you’re there for her, whether she wants to talk or needs a shoulder to cry on.

Keep things normal

Divorce is a major change, so try to keep things between you and your friend the same way they were before. Don’t feel like you have to ask if she’s OK 24/7. But do try to make fun plans like an awesome sleepover to get her mind off the ‘rents.

Be on the lookout

While it’s normal for your friend to be sad or upset, it’s important that she doesn’t become depressed or have a drastically negative change in behavior. If you notice any of that beginning to happen, let your mom or her mom know as soon as possible. By doing that, you will help your friend in the long run.

Good luck, doll.

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BY TYLER JENKINS ON 12/20/2010 9:07:00 PM

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My friend's brother committed suicide several years ago. She told me she really misses him. But ever since, her mom will abuse her and tell her really mean things. She will only do this to her and not to her brother. I told her that her mom needs medical help but she won't tell anyone. She has already ran away from home once and threatened her mom by saying she's going to call social services (which she wouldn't have done.) She told me her mom always screams how no one cares that her brother is dead. This really hurts her and she cries really hard over it. I really want her to tell someone about it but she won't do anything. She doesn't want me to help either. I really hate hearing what she has to go through. I feel helpless. How can I help without her getting mad at me?

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by 2cool2bark on 4/27/2011 3:57:28 PM

That sounds just like whats happening right now!I'm going through that right now,but the divorce is with my parents.I have..had 2 parents who seemed like that could never ever happen THEY WERE AMAZING!And I have a bro whose almost 2,like in 2 weeks..3/28!You're not the only person..your friend isn't the only person whose going through the same thing and I know your not the the only BFF going through this!My bff is doing GREAT I know your doing good!I mean you going on the internet for help!AWESOME JOB!Hope you and me can like pen pal or something!<3 Evelin!!!!

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by Evelin on 3/21/2011 4:35:53 PM

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so there is this girl that is in my classes. my friends and i were all pretty sure she didn't like us. Some how she found out who i liked without me actually telling her, then she told somebody! and it was suppose to be a secret and she knew that. i felt disrespected and she didn't even apologize. the next day 1 of my bffs were at their locker, and that girl looked sad so she asked her what was wrong. and the girl told her that she didn't like us. but then at lunch she sat with us, ignoring us completely but eavesdropping on our conversation. she also talks behind peoples backs A LOT. she did that to her "best friend" recently. What should i do?

Hey girlie, you should confront her and ask her why she is acting that way

Paige T.

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by ladybugluv on 3/5/2011 11:57:52 AM

MODMODMOD So I have ocd (obsessive compulsive disorder) and anxiety. i've been wanting to tell my best friend that i have to see a therapist and that i have problems at school. Its been tough for me these past couple of years and i thought telling her would be a good idea. If you have any suggestions about how to tell her that would be awesome. ps- I know im making it sound like a big deal, and it is to me. THANKS-;)

Hey girly! First of all, there's absolutely nothing wrong with seeing a therapist. It's wonderful that you're taking charge and trying to take care of your problems

I would tell your pal when no one else is around. And, let her know that it's a big deal for you that you're telling her. Make sure she knows that it's between the two of you. She's your friend, so she should be supportive of you.

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Becca G.

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by tvgirl247 on 2/27/2011 7:11:06 PM

hey, ive been through 2 divorces before, my dad and natural mum, and my dad and step mum, now hes getting divorced again! i wont lie, it hurts, A LOT, but you gotta talk cos otherwise you bottle it all up and do VERY stupid things! trust your friend to come to you and make sure she knows she can!!!!!

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by diddi on 2/8/2011 3:42:35 PM

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