HIS ANSWER: Start a conversation with him. Make it real by starting with a question he can respond to so you can get things moving. After you’ve talked for a few minutes, THEN you can start subtly flirting, but don’t go overboard. Be yourself, and don’t sound desperate. That’s a total turnoff.

DECODED: Guys have had enough of girls coming on too strong. Confidence is key, but so is keeping things real and just being yourself.

YOUR MOVE: Dress cute and go for it! Approach him and ask what he did last weekend, what he’s doing for the holidays or his favorite sport to play. Let him know you’re interested by giving him attention, but don’t make yourself sound desperate by laying on the flirtations too thick. Keep it cool, flirt just a little bit and see where things go…