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My BGF and I hang out all the time and I feel like I can tell him anything. Lately though, I’ve been feeling like I want to be more than “just friends.”

 

We joke around a lot and most of the time it ends up having something to do with us going out. Sometimes I think he likes me back but others I feel like all he wants is to be friends and he’s just joking around.

 

I’m so confused! What should I do?

 

HIS ANSWER: "Try to spend a little more time with him, maybe even just the two of you, so you can get a better idea of his feelings. If that doesn't work, you can talk to his friends about it to see if they know, or maybe even ask him yourself. A confident girl who isn't afraid to say what she's feeling is rarely a bad thing."

 

DECODED: If you can’t tell from how he acts when it’s just the two of you, you may have to ask. Don’t be shy!

 

YOUR MOVE: Invite him over to play some Wii. Just be casual about it and see if sparks fly. If that goes well, tell him you had a good time and would love to hang out again. If he agrees, go to the movies or do something else a little less buddy-buddy.

BY MADDIE BROWN ON 12/30/2010 11:16:00 AM

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MOD MOD MOD...Alright so Im falling for my BGF. He became my bgf only 4 months ago but now he texts me every night, is always calling me, and is always by me in the classes we have togather. Im not sure yet if he likes me but if he does there would be a problem cuz he liked my best friend 3 months ago and she liked him back. She ended up being the one to eventually tell him she wasnt that interested in a reltionship. The problem is that the other day she finally told me the reason shes been giving me the cold sholder is because she doesnt like how Im always talking to him. What should I do? I really like him...

 

Hey chica,

Tough situation! He's giving you a lot of signals, but would you really want to lose your best friend for him? Talk to your friend about your feelings for him. She may be angry at first, but she should understand that she turned him down, making him perfectly available! In the end, whatever she says, make sure that you're a good friend to her. Our girls come first!

Clare W.

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by marissal on 1/20/2011 1:19:47 PM

 
 

mom mom mom

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by socail butterfly on 1/19/2011 9:53:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD! I have a BGF who is always making me laugh. I have another who does the same.I kinda like them both. What should I do? I'm not sure if they like me back or not though.




Hey girl, choose the one you like most and put out hints you're interested in dating him. I wouldn't do that to both though in case they both like you back or find out you're doing it to the other too (then they'd just think you're a tease and playing both of them -- eck!). 

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by lrl12345 on 1/18/2011 11:10:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD
I have a little guy prob. Everytime I become best friends with a guy, I end up liking him. Later, I always find out that he likes me back. But just when things seem to be going great and he's about to ask me out, he does something stupid, like ask my best friend out, and breaks my heart. Then, we stop being friends and never talk again. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
Any advice?




Hey girl, I'd try hinting sooner you like him, especially if you're getting the vibes he likes you. Chances are he just didn't think you saw him in that light so he set his target on someone else. Show him you do.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by LottyDa on 1/18/2011 9:47:06 PM

 
 

That is what my sit. used to be, but then i discovered that guy friends last a lot longer then boy friends.

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by marvenmelvin1999 on 1/18/2011 6:51:54 PM

 
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