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My BGF and I hang out all the time and I feel like I can tell him anything. Lately though, I’ve been feeling like I want to be more than “just friends.”

 

We joke around a lot and most of the time it ends up having something to do with us going out. Sometimes I think he likes me back but others I feel like all he wants is to be friends and he’s just joking around.

 

I’m so confused! What should I do?

 

HIS ANSWER: "Try to spend a little more time with him, maybe even just the two of you, so you can get a better idea of his feelings. If that doesn't work, you can talk to his friends about it to see if they know, or maybe even ask him yourself. A confident girl who isn't afraid to say what she's feeling is rarely a bad thing."

 

DECODED: If you can’t tell from how he acts when it’s just the two of you, you may have to ask. Don’t be shy!

 

YOUR MOVE: Invite him over to play some Wii. Just be casual about it and see if sparks fly. If that goes well, tell him you had a good time and would love to hang out again. If he agrees, go to the movies or do something else a little less buddy-buddy.

BY MADDIE BROWN ON 12/30/2010 11:16:00 AM

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My friend used to sit next to a boy but at the time didn't like him. He used to flirt with her. Now that they don't sit next to each other, my friend realized that she likes him, but they stopped talking. He flirts with other girls. They were in a class group, and things were ok- They sometimes jokingly fought and flirted. now that it is over, he hasn't kept up with her and they barely talk but he continues to flirt with many other girls. They sometimes look at each other straight in the eyes, and sometimes she gets the feeling that he likes her. She really does like him and want him to like her back again but she's too shy to say anything or talk to him. What should my friend do?




Hey! she's got to get over that shyness and talk to him again Smile  
Helen S.

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by pumpkinerin on 1/9/2011 4:25:42 PM

 
 



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OK I used to have this BGF and we were soo close.
When we were on FB, I sent him a link to this song and all of a sudden he logged off on me. Later that night he was on again I said hey and all of a sudden he logged. I sent him 2 messages asking him what was up, and still nothing. Then the next day he wasn't in school. Then the next day. It went for about 2 WEEKS. When he was finally back at school I asked him what was up on what he did, he just said "I don't use FB that much anymore." Then he was gone again, for the entire week. I'm so confused about this? Did I do something wrong?




Hey! sorry about your problem! whatever is going on in this dude's life is not your fault.  best you can do is give him some space and be there for him. good luck!
Helen S.

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by xLoveIsLikeex on 1/9/2011 3:00:55 PM

 
 

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me and my BFG used to hang out ALL the time! he wasnt even my BFG he was my bffl but now we dont talk and now on msn we talk n he made a paper city n told me and showed me a pic (it is brill) but doesnt talk to me in school n now on msn we are making a story up for it now like we would do when we were really really close and now i want to start hanging with him again but how do i ask him or should i or is it still to akward to?




Hey chica! You should go ahead and ask him to start hanging out again. Since you guys talk a good bit, it won't be awkward to hang out! 
Marly Z.

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by insideoutkid on 1/8/2011 5:22:32 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! thanx so much!!! My guy friend has done this before though (lied, said he would or wouldn't do something and did it anyway) but if he apologizes I will give him one more chance and just be casual friends and not so close until I feel like I can really trust him again. Thanx again mod!!!

 

Hey girlie. Anytime!

Elizabeth P.

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by Peace*Love*Converse on 1/8/2011 12:45:14 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD my bgf asked me to the Winter Formal! Smile I really like him... but here's the confusing part: idk if we're "going out" or if its just one friendly date? and also, would it ruin our friendship if i kissed him?

 

Hey girlie. I guess you will find out when you go together! I think if you feel like things are going well--see if he tries to kiss you!

Elizabeth P.

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by diver_girl on 1/7/2011 11:47:14 PM

 
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