MOD!i need your help. my bff has a crush on my bgf. she used 2 sort of like him and now she has fallen head over heels for him. the problem is that i just found out that he and one of my really good friends like each other, but they just hadn't told me until yesterday. my bff doesn't know this and she is really convinced that my bgf likes her. the truth is that he thinks she is a wack-job, and only was nice to her because she is my friend. what do i do? i don't want to hurt my bff's feelings, what do i say? do i try to make her like someone else, or casually say that my bgf just isn't the one for her. i want to be a good friend, HELP!

 

This is a sticky situation since you don't want to hurt your bff's feelings. I would be upfront with her and say that he likes someone else.It would hurt her feelings more to find out the your BGF likes someone else and you knew all along. It isn't fair to your friend to try to talk her into liking someone else and she will like whoever she likes.Just don't tell her that your BGF is only nice to her because of you.  Good Luck!

danielle D.