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My BFF ignores me in public

 

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My “best friend” will act like a good friend when we talk online, but when I see her in public, she acts live we've never met. I'll try to talk to her face-to-face, but she won't even acknowledge my presence. It's been going on for about a month now, and I've done all I can to forget her, but it hurts. What can I do?

I'm not gonna lie, girl: Losing a friend is really hard, and it hurts even more when it's your bestie that you've gotta cut free.

Hang with a different crowd
 
Think of it like a bad breakup with a guy. Surround yourself with other true friends and let them help you get your mind off of things. Once you're having fun with your new girls, you'll begin to realize that you're doing A-OK without your old BFF.

Cut the cord
 
Just like with a breakup, you need to make the split absolute. If she won't talk to you face-to-face, send her an email expressing your feelings. Tell her that you've loved being her friend, but you can't take the split personality friendship she's currently throwing your way. Sometimes, you gotta say buh-bye.

Still feelin' blue?
 
If you're dwelling on your old amiga, consider this: Was she really a good friend to you? What about your relationship with her made your life better? If it helps, make a list of pros and cons. I bet the negatives will outweigh the positives.

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my bff has a boyfriend but he likes me too.he tried to kiss me and i almost fell in to it now i am afraid to tell her about it what should i do

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by dedegirl on 2/6/2011 4:56:49 PM

 
 

@kmn21
When you get Jenny alone (after school, before school, etc) talk with her in private (or with another one of your friends- perhaps, Alina?) Tell her that you value her friendship (and some other great things about her) but that you dont really enjoy when she gets jealous of Stephanie. Tell her your sorry.
Also, if its possible, maybe you could find a new group of girls who you think Jenny could get along with better then you and your girls.
Remember be polite and put yourself in Jenny's shoes.
Good Luck!
PS. if you need more advice checkout my profile!

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by sockmonkey49 on 2/6/2011 1:01:14 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
My BGF and I were close, but when he got a new gf, it all changed. We never talk anymore and I feel awkward around him. I miss him alot. What should I do?




hey! start chattin' again and ask him to hang out as friends sometime Smile 
Helen S.

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by skatetime on 2/5/2011 3:40:42 PM

 
 

Mod! Me and my bff are in a fight, because i asked her if she wanted to do something afterschool n she said no i have softball , i was like awwww. And then she said sorry and i said uh huh sureee. Jokingly and then she was like everything i say u think im lying.. Out of anger i was like fine, then u dont have to talk to me. Then she told our good friend that she hated me and that i never was her reall bff. Should i just not be friends with her??? Or how do i fix this????? Thanks




Hey girlie, you guys should sit down and talk it out 
Paige T.

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by Tayincali on 2/5/2011 9:19:34 AM

 
 

my edvice to you is to tell her how you feel either through email or whatever (don't say it on facebook)or tell her that you need to talk to her and pull her aside...because if you don't do something she will never stop...

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by 17Ella on 2/1/2011 8:15:32 PM

 
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