mod one of my friends always feel "excluded" in EVERYTHING. yesterday, my select chorus group was going to sing at some elm. schools. me and 4 of my best friends are on that bus, including my friend (lets call her H.). She ended up sitting alone because my other best friend wanted to sit with me, and she didnt talk AT ALL. its realy annoying how she feels left out, but i mean its not like we're going to randomly say "oh, so h, whats you're opinion about this?" she even gets her mom to call my mom. its like she feels left out and instead of trying to be included (by TALKING) she just gets mad at us. what should i do?

Hey girlie. Try being the bigger person and putting in the extra effort to include her. I know she may be over-reacting, but put yourself into her place. If you feel leftout you tend to make it seem more apparent then it actually is. Next time say, "Hey H, what are you up to this weekend? We should hang out." Be a good friend and help her feel included.