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What's with the cold shoulder?


I was chatting online with this guy I really like. After awhile, I told him that I liked him and he said the he liked me too! It’s been a month since then and he’s pretty much been ignoring me ever since. Why would he say that he liked me and then completely ignore me?

HIS ANSWER: He might be too shy to ask you out on a date. I would try to bring up a conversation about going out on a later date.

DECODED: Aww, he likes you! Since he hasn’t made a move yet, though, the ball’s in your court, girlie.

YOUR MOVE: Get up the guts to ask him out. Invite him to come along with you and your gal and guy friends for a slice of pizza, to a movie, bowling—whatevs. If you’ve got a common interest—say you both love an indie band that’s coming to town—ask him if he’d like to get tickets for the show. Take the pressure off of him and you by keeping it casual.

BY GL ON 1/18/2011 7:00:00 AM

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A few months ago, I got some texts and chats from a guy from camp that I had a huge crush on. He said he liked me too and we videochatted for a while. He lives in Canada and we used to text and chat a lot, but suddenly, it all stopped. Before it had been because he lost his phone (he eventually replied) but then on Facebook, he wont even chat me back? What happened?!

 

Hey girl, 

I'm not sure what happened, but it could have something to do that the two of you live in different countries (assuming you live in the U.S.). If he knows that it's unlikely you'll see each other again — or at least in the near future — he might not want to pursue the relationship because that would be really tough. I'm really not sure, but there's probably a chance that he is sort of crushing on a girl from his school, or someone who lives near him. It may be better to become friends with guys who live near you, and one of those friendships could develop into a crush. Here's a short article about long-distance relationships: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/12/Long-distance-love.aspx.


 

OR... there's a chance he didn't get your chats. If this only happened once, sometimes I will get chats on Facebook when I didn't even think I was online, and it will show up later. If it happens all the time, it might be more likely that he has moved on. Good luck!

Vanessa J.

by meggierose13 on 1/22/2011 11:31:23 AM

 
 

This guy that I have been friends with since 7th grade he is super nice and I talk to him all the time. I like him and then something happens that he does and I hate him and it goes back and forth like that. I like him again and he likes me. I am worried that he might hurt me again

by swimmergirl1496 on 1/20/2011 5:06:07 PM

 
 

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I have really liked this guy since kinder. We've been in classes together, on the same soccer team, and friends since i can remember. ive never liked anyone else. i mite even love him. wen middle school came, we went to different schools but it was ok cuz we still had soccer. then i moved up leuages and im one of 2 girls on a team of 16. the guys r paverted and the coach (his DAD)is sexest. I hav no idea if he likes me, but my bff was chatting him on fb last week and she claims that he said he likes me. Heres the problem- were're growing steadily apart and with the new season coming up i need to decide between staying on the boys team, or switching to an all girls team and leave him. i dont know wat to do. i've been really upset about this. What should i do? stay or leave? how do i grow closer to him again, or tell him that i like him? Please help me. :\




I think you need to get closer to him and see if something will happen. If something does happen i believe you could move over to the girls team and still be with him. However whatever happens i strongly believe you should go to the girls team. I think its going to be much better for you. Good luck! xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by ekcarter on 1/19/2011 9:25:00 PM

 
 

MOD!!! OK so I really like this guy but one of my distant friends dated him recently and she broke up with him about a week ago, but SHE cried over it! I think he likes me too since he always invites me to work with his group!(: If he asks me out, I want to say yes but what if my distant friend gets mad? What do I do? Thanks!<3

 

Hey girlie,

Sometimes it's frustrating, but our friends should always come before a guy. Try talking to her about how you feel towards him. You never know, she may be totally cool with you guys hanging out, but you don't want to go behind her back and hurt her feelings. Make sure it's out in the open!

Clare W.

by SSD123 on 1/19/2011 4:10:49 PM

 
 

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I have a crush on this guy who has a gf. I DON'T want to steal him because I would hate that if it was me. so sometimes I feel he might like me too. I'm not positive but sometimes i'll catch him looking at me and when i try to talk to him he looks up and then looks away.( I do that too so that's why i thought that was a clue)anyways if he likes me then why wouldn't he ask me out because he recently got a new gf ???? -thanks

 

Hey chica,

He could very well be attracted to you, but he's probably really into the girl he's dating. Don't cut off a friendship, but don't do anything that would make his girlfriend mad. Just be patient, and he might be available soon!

Clare W.

by dreamlove98 on 1/19/2011 3:51:00 PM

 
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