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Will asking out my BGF ruin our friendship?


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Most of my best friends are guys. There’s this one boy, though, that I really, really like. If I tell him that I like him, would that totally ruin our friendship?

HIS ANSWER: It might, but it could create a relationship. A relationship is all about sacrifice for the things—and people—you want to love. If it takes a friend to create a perfect relationship, what's stopping you?

DECODED: Be brave and go after what ya want! If he really doesn’t think of you that way, yeah, things could be awkward for a li’l while. But if he’s a real friend, he’ll stick by you no matter what.

YOUR MOVE: Get your bud alone, take a deep breath and go for it. You don’t have to tell him you love him, but do tell him that you’d like to maybe go for pizza sometime, just the two of you. Be cute ‘n’ flirty and he’ll get the picture. And if he doesn’t? Call it a date.

BY GL ON 1/25/2011 7:00:00 AM

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moderator!!! please help me out!!!
so i have 2 questions!
1. well at my school, every one likes hugs. even when they arent in a relationship! i am not the hugging type so i feel awkward when friends hug me. I wouldnt mind if i havent seen this person in a long time, but i see them everyday... maybe even last period.
2. also, i feel really nervous when my basketball coach talks to me. i think is because was on his basketball team, so there was a lot of yelling. and since i was the best player, i alway get yelled at. he wants to come to one of my basketball games for a different team, but i dont want him to yell at me when i am not even playing for him... but ovverall i dont want him to go at all. no one else seems nervous around him, so why do i? and how do i prevent the weird butterfly feeling?
respond ASAP PLEASE! Laughing




Hey girlie. Unfortunately, the butterfly feeling is apart of life--But you can talk yourself out of being super nervous. First of all, if you don't like the hugs, then maybe just tell your friends that. Or you can try to embrace them! I used to not be into hugging but then I tried to be really enthusiastic about it and ended up liking them a lot! But do what you are comfortable with. As for your coach, I don't think he will yell at you if he is no longer your coach.I think he just wants to see you play because you are talented! Don't be nervous--just play your best.  
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by kmn21 on 1/25/2011 7:44:14 PM

 
 

MOD MOD...
I really like my bgf and don't know if i should tell him or not. I want to know if he likes me first but everytime i try he doesn't answer fully, he kind of goes around the question. How can i find out he he likes me back without telling him that i like him?




Hey girlie. I would say try to hang out with one on one before professing your feelings for him. Then if you feel that you two have a connection then tell him that you think you may have feelings for him and wouldn't remind exploring them with him. I know it's hard, but if you feel that he may feel the same way, it's worth a try!  
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by annamarie97 on 1/25/2011 7:42:44 PM

 
 

MOD...I really like my bgf but i don't know how to tell him or if i should tell him. How can i find out if he likes me back without blurting it out? He says really sweet things to me and he is really nice but i just dont know.




Hey girlie. I wouldn't rush things. Try spending time with him alone and see if you two connect. If you think you both do, then just tell him that you think you two may be good as more than friends. I know it's hard, but sometimes, it's best to say what you need to say. 
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by annamarie97 on 1/25/2011 7:38:36 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
Today i told my friend who i was going with to the vday dance. Then she said that she had a "dream" about the guy I was going with. When i asked her what it was about she said ask him. Then my other friend said it was about them kissing on the beach. If my dat knows about the dream, what should i do? Talk it out? Or just cancel? I NEED HELP ASAP CUZ I AM FREAKING OUT!!!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!




Hey girlie. I wouldn't talk about it--could be a bit awkward! Just go and have fun at the dance and forget about the dream : ) 
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by paramoregurl on 1/25/2011 7:09:05 PM

 
 

Mod! Mod! Mod! Mod! Mod!
Ok so my BGF, Let's call him bob. He is constatly flirting with me, he also invited me to go to prom with him. And today my friend we'll call her sue, went to talk to him and see how he felt about me. He kinda said he's gonna think about asking me out. Then he ignored me for the rest of school. And now he's texting me. And asking who I like. Ummm I'm a LITTLE CONFUSED. Please decode. Thanks (:




Hey girlie. I think he is into you. He was just embarrassed after your friend asked him if he liked you because he wasn't sure how you felt. But I think he definitely into you! Do you like him, too?! 
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by kiera1245 on 1/25/2011 6:51:14 PM

 
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