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I often hate life. I’m starting to really hate who I’ve become. The one thing I hate most is that everyone thinks I’m a whore. I have a lot of guys and always find myself talking to them about perverted stuff. One guy and I make bets, and then everyone is like, “She did what?” I want people to like me for the right reasons.

Dear Not a ‘Ho,

You wisely want to change your reputation. So do it! You can talk with guys, but don’t say or do things you might regret. Focus on finishing the school year on a strong note and getting to know more girls. What would make you feel good about yourself? What new qualities do you want to develop? Take time away from the guys to devote yourself to becoming smart and sensible. Volunteer work might also help you feel appreciated for the right reasons.
 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 2/12/2011 7:00:00 AM

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Im in 7th grade and I like a guy in 8th grade and he was said to have done inappropriate things with his ex. Everytime I see him he tends to stare at me and when I walk by him he always turns his head to watch me. Like when I went into Spanish class and he was just leaving he paused from getting stuff from his desk and caught my gaze for a minute even as he walked by me. I know he definitely likes a popular mean 7th grader. If my friends found out I liked him I don't know what they would do I know him well enough to know that he is a good guy. If I did date him everybody would give me a bad rep!
Please PLEASE MOD thanks sooo much!!!!




Hey babe,

Who cares about reputation if he makes you happy?  If you care for him and he does make you happy, I say go for it!  If they are real friends, they'll see that he makes you smile and understand.
Jordan S.

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by Farmer16 on 5/14/2012 7:48:07 PM

 
 

Livver,
Talk to her about how its not cool doin that even if she js you sister

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by emorocket12 on 1/26/2012 11:15:45 AM

 
 

Please visit my Advice Queen page! I really like to give advice to peeps Smile just post a question and i will answer it on your profile as soon as i see it.

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by basketballcutie11 on 12/23/2011 5:55:28 PM

 
 

my sister ALWAYS calls me a ho, and puts me down.

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by livver on 6/22/2011 10:02:01 PM

 
 

i am going through almost the same thing. Everyone at school thinks im a 'ho' too. I deal by finding true friends that will help you get through it by staying by your side and giving advice.

 



Elizabeth P.

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by sisiily123 on 4/27/2011 12:29:45 PM

 
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