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Last week, I gave this guy a note telling him I like him. He wrote back a really nice note. But then he asked this girl (who doesn’t like me) if he should go out with me. She told him no because we’d make a “terrible” couple.

 

Dave: Written communication can be special. I’ve learned more about some girls from texts and e-mails than face-to-face encounters. Written emotions have the advantage of reflection and don’t come with the awkwardness of social interaction.

 

Since your note was well-received, send another. Without blasting the other girl, mention some reasons you two would make a good couple.

 

Bill: A relationship should be about you two, not outsiders. Tell the guy you don’t care what other people think, you like him. See how he responds. If he’s more interested in the opinions of others, you’ve saved yourself some hassle by finding out early on.

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 2/7/2011 1:28:00 PM

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I'll make it short. I like a guy, he flirts with me(but he flirts with every girl), but I know he doesn't like me and never will. Every time I see him it's like getting rejecting over and over again and I just wanna run away and never see him again. Do I just forget him or let myself keep trying in hopes of him someday liking me even if it hurts me?




Hey girl, I think it's your call. If you don't see your relationship going anywhere, it's time to give up the idea of him. Get to know other people. But if it still seems like he likes you, flirt back and hint you don't just want to be another girl he flirts with the one he truly cares about.

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Alyssa B.

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by <3breaker4ever on 2/8/2011 11:54:09 PM

 
 

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There is a guy in like 3 of my classes, and I'm pretty sure he likes me...and it's getting creepy. He tries to be with me all the time, get my attention from halfway across the room, buys me my favorite candy bar, sneaks up behind me and tries to scare me...and I can't take it anymore! I feel like I don't get any time to myself at school. How do I show him I am not interested?




Hey girl, by ignoring him and purposely moving away/avoiding him. It's the silent way to say no thanks to his attention. If you'd prefer a more direct but sometimes polite approach, you could use ask him for a little space.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by jayhawk94 on 2/8/2011 11:14:04 PM

 
 

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Hello! I hope you are having a good day(or night!). Now, here is my problem. My Bestfriend(B) really likes my BGF (I)...well today somebody said they'd look REALLY cute together while they were hugging. She smiled and acted like she hadn't heard, but he was kind of backing away. And looking freaked. She asked me today if I think he likes her. But I'm not so sure. He DID back away when they said that...what do you think? What should I tell her? Thanks for all your help!! Y'all are amazing! <3

 

Hey girlie! Go with your gut. If he's giving her a lot of hints, tell her to go for it! If you guys are buds, maybe you could ask him straight up if he likes her. Hope everything works out!

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by Anney246 on 2/8/2011 1:19:47 AM

 
 

@mickeyf a red and black or red and pink heart barrett (like the ones in the craft section) would look cool! my advice is think black, red, pink and white and hearts for the acsessories! if you wanted makeup, go with browns or pinks

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by dreaming star on 2/8/2011 12:06:32 AM

 
 

mod mod mod!!! i cant give up on the guy i like. hes 16 im 14.... he said next year when were in the same school wed work but now hes acting weird. i could have other guys if i wanted including his bestfriend who said if u ever get over ______ (guy i like) text me and me and _______ (his gf) are done and ill be all urs. hes acting weird now and taking like 10 minutes to respond to an fb chat when it used to be 2 seconds and now i dont know how to get over him cause i like him wayy too much

 

Hey girl, It's hard to say since I don't know why this guy is acting weird.  I know it must really hurt, but realize that for whatever reason, he's not the right guy for you right now.  Would you really want to be with a guy who acts weird towards you, anyway?  Who knows, things might change between you two in the future.  For now, keep yourself busy with friends and things you love, and keep your eyes open for guys who are ready to date you.  xoxo

Marie H.

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