like this guy, but I’m not sure if he likes me back. Sometimes I catch him
looking at me and smiling. The thing is, he and my friend like each other.
She’s always saying that if her mom let her date, they would totally be going
out. I’m allowed to date now—should I take a chance and see if he likes me? Or
would this love triangle be too messy?
That’s a tough one, chica. The saying goes that all’s fair
in love and war, but you certainly don’t wanna turn your fling into World War
III, do you?
Talk to your bestie
There’s a reason you’re asking us for advice and not your
buddy, right? This is a super-awkward sitch, girl, and we totally get that. But
the only one who can tell ya if going for it is a good move or not is the girl
with the hots for the guy you’re crushing on. Whatever you do, surprising her
by upping your flirtation will only feelings of hurt and distrust.
In this situation, I suggest putting the ball into his
court. Maybe you’re friend is bluffing about how close they are, or maybe this
is just a temporary infatuation. Whatever it is, sitting back and letting your
crush do the flirting is def the way to go.
If you’re feeling guilty about stealin’ her guy—or if she
gives ya a big, fat “No!” when you ask her about it—any relationship you might
have with him won’t be a happy one. Avoid the drama by turning your attention
to another dude, like that hottie in history. Maybe you could do a project
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BY BRITTANY TAYLOR ON 2/16/2011 2:01:00 PM
POSTED IN dating advice, GL's best guy advice, how to flirt, crush crash course, how can I choose