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More times than not, we believe that we are good friends because we tell our BFFs how it is, whether they want to hear it or not. Sometimes it can turn out really good and other times we’re actually doing more harm than good. There’s a thin line between being a best friend and being a bossy friend. We’ve got some helpful hints on how to stick to the bestie side of the BFF boundaries.
 
Comic queen or mean girl
 
A lot of the time, we speak to our girlfriends as if they’re made of thick skin. Just ‘cause you think she can handle you saying that her legs look like tree stumps in the new dress she got for the spring fling doesn’t mean you have to say it.  There are some friends out there who can find the humor in a comment like that, but most of us take those words as personal attacks. Rule number 1: Always think before you speak because you never know when a silly, offhand comment can make her feel insecure about herself.
 
Demanding diva or suggestive sweetie
 
Between bouts of sobbing over her breakup, your bestie asks you what she should do to get her guy back. The problem? You never liked the guy in the first place and you have no idea how to tell her what you really think without being a total witch. Rule number 2: Tell your friends what you think they should do when they ask, but don’t force your opinion on them. Allow her to make up her own mind, come to her own conclusions and create her own solutions. 
 
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Wanna know the ultimate way to ditch your bossy side and embrace your bestie? Rule number 3: Offer your BFF some good old respect. Speak to her the way that you would like to be spoken to, and treat her as you would want to be treated. Remember: There’s something special about her that sets her apart from any other girl out there—that’s why she’s your best friend, right?

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my friend and my twin sister are fighting and i dont like it because my sisters like dont talk to her anymore but then in my class with my friend she says the same thing about my sister is it time to make new friends

 

Hey chica,

I would talk to both your friend and your sister and tell them how you feel. See if they can work it out between them.


 

danielle d.

danielle D.

by rockin girl on 5/26/2011 4:35:25 PM

 
 

Ummmm ya so I need a little help. I feel like sometimes My 2 BFFs like each other more than me.I tried telling Them but all They say is "No." But i still feel like it.sometimes when we're outside they just go off together and leave me.And I want to have them over for sleepover more, but my house doesn't have anything to do ( no wii, vidio games,cell phone,= nothing interesting. Also: im getting braces and im scared!)

by Celtics_Ball on 5/7/2011 8:31:53 PM

 
 

every thing is back together! I guess they were just in a situation, but they are always with me, and we all are BFF's. Smile

by queenra on 5/1/2011 10:15:21 PM

 
 

These are great tips for me and my friends! Tong

by Catlover4723 on 4/21/2011 1:48:34 PM

 
 

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Lately I've felt like all my closest friends are basically ignoring me. They are going to each other's house and never ask me to come. They never really call or text me anymore and I was wondering if its time to get new friends and move on.




Hey girlie. That decision depends on how you feel about them. Do you think they are good enough friends to you that you don't want to lose them or do you think you are ready to make new friends? Hope that helps! 
Marly Z.

by soccerpal5 on 4/20/2011 5:45:33 PM

 
 

So, things are going good so far with my two BFF'S. The one that got to my house first has been saying that we are BFF's and the other girl seems mad. She just talks to the other girl, and waves to her at school and doesnt pay attention to me. I did get invited to her dance competition though. So it seems like I am just one of their best friends but not the others. How can we all three be BFF's, not just me and one of them?

by queenra on 4/17/2011 1:38:05 PM

 
 

hey if your a tomboy, a guy girl, like chilling more with guys, or want more guy friends, please join new club tomboys, where you can get advice on making and keeping guy friends and you can discuss tomboy acts. ive always had more guy friends than girl my whole 16years on earth, so i got great advice if you need some. please join now. Smile

by girlivinginclouds on 4/13/2011 8:29:53 PM

 
 

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everytime I turn on my phone my friend always says were not friends anymore. I dont understand why though!? How do I talk to her and tell her to stop with the text messages?

 

 

Hey girly! I'd give her a call and ask what the deal is, and why she's acting like this! 

xxx

Becca G.

by dragonbee on 4/10/2011 8:59:46 PM

 
 

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so my bff has been ingorning me for the past 2 days and today i asked her why and she said that i got mad at her and yelled at her but i never did and now shes hanging out with this other girl and they both are ignoring me so i said that i wanted to talk to her and i told her how i felt and she started yelling at me and saying that ive been hanging out with this other girl any way! but i only hung out with her because i had no one else to hang out with! im really stressed out and i know that its a hard question but...

 

Hey girl. This is pretty typical of bff's. Both are jealous of other friends. She's mad you're hanging with another girl and you're mad at the same thing- probably because you both want to be hanging with each other. I think you should be the bigger person here and go to her nicely and say that you're sorry for whatever happened and that you want to hang out because you miss her. If you approach her that way, she should probably come around -and apologize back. Good luck!

Marly Z.

by quinn1218 on 4/6/2011 5:32:13 PM

 
 

The two nicest girls in my class are BFF'S. I'm a nice one too, and I always hangout with them. If one is sick, and the other needs someone to stay with they come with me. I always feel left out because one time we were at my house, and one of my friends were there first and we wrote our names next to eachother saying BFF'S. She even wrote it first. Then we just wrote our other BFF's name without saying bff's next to it, but it was by the other's name. When the second one got to my house her name was by her first bff's name and she wrote & inbetween their names, but not mine. I felt left out but luckily the other girl erased it. They seem way closer to eachother than to me, but we're so much alike I can't ignore them, or stay away. I I want us all three to be BFF'S. I need help bigtime. Thx! Smile

by queenra on 4/5/2011 8:53:40 PM

 
 

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Hey, I'm having a tough time with this one girl @ school. We used 2 be friends, but she’s really obnoxious and rude to me. She always complains, talks about this guy 24/7, talks about me behind my back & tries to get my other friends 2 be mad @ me! In my group of friends we practically never fight and are like sisters, but she's making our lives at school totally miserable. She's moving at the end of the year, but I don't know if I can stand her any longer. I'm not doing ANYTHING except try to be nice to her. She gives me all the flack and I can't say anything about it. I don’t know how to tell her I don’t want 2 hang out anymore, and a few years ago when my best friend did the same thing she was my only friend for a while. I don't want anyone to be in that sitch, especially not her because she really helped me out then. I don't know what 2 do! Thanks so much (and sorry it's so long, I really needed to vent)! Have a great day!

 

Hey girlie, I think you should try to ignore the girl @ your school giving you problems, when ppl do stuff like that it's because they don't like themselves don't feed into her misery ignore it 

Paige T.

by thecupcakequeen on 3/27/2011 11:34:39 PM

 
 



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I have a problem.
At the beginning of the year, I was best friends with 2 people. Then after a while the got closer and got more excluded. Then apparently they found other friends. I tried waiting it out to see if they would change, but the didn't. They became a group of 4 and I became a group of 1. This semester I told them how I felt and they said sorry and included me a little more but they still exclude me a lot. Distance isn't a problem and I have lots of free time. I tried making other friends but I am an extremely shy person until I get to know someone.
I'm not entirely sure on what I should do to fix my friend problem. I want friends but I don't know how to fix the ones I have and make new ones.
What should I do? Thank you.




Hey girl,

I think I just responded to your question on another post.  Just learn to break out of your shell and join an extracurricular activity or club.  You'll meet some great people that you'll find you connect with! Have fun, be yourself, and remember you have nothing to lose..and everything to gain! 
Ruth S.

by moosezoo13 on 3/26/2011 11:07:10 PM

 
 



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For a while now, my life has been total drama. Just Friday, in band, my bff and my long time crush were flirting from across the room &as soon as I turn my back, my crush calls me a b****. I was heart broken. He obviously doesnt care about how I feel, and neither does my bestie. I've been really sad the past couple days, but it also kind of motivated me to improve myself. I'm trying to be more outgoing (talkative &flirty), pretty, and healthy (strong &fit). Do you have any tips to help me inmprove myself ? I just feel like breaking down &even crying right now. I don't know if I'm overreacting, because my crush has his ups &downs with me. Now Im kindof realising he doesnt deserve me.. I just feel so lost. How can I relieve this stress, &look and feel better? Please help me.




Hey girlie,

You deserve to be around positive people who will encourage you and show that they care about you.  If your friends now aren't treating you with respect, spend time with other people who do.  Trust me, surrounding yourself with the right people will encourage you to be a better person!  I'm glad you are motivated to be better--Remember to treat your body well by balancing a healthy diet and regular exercise...Engage in activities and hobbies that you enjoy and that make you happy.  Also, focus on all the things you are grateful for.  Stay encouraged and you'll succeed! Smile
Ruth S.

by Pink0x on 3/26/2011 9:38:41 PM

 
 

MOD!!! Yesterday I got a restricted phone call. I'm pretty sure that it was a girl from school. She said that I was talking behind her back. I didn't know what to do so I hung up. NOW I'M VERY NERVOUS TO GO TO SCHOOL. Should I ignore her? And another thing I DO NOT LIKE DRAMA. That's why I ignore it and hang with my other friends but it always comes to haunt me sooner or later. PLEASE HELP!

 

Hey girlie! You should ignore her -- it's the best way to stay out of drama.

 

Brittany G.

Brittany G.

by Sumbody2Luv on 3/26/2011 10:20:10 AM

 
 

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My best friend is 2 years younger than me so she has a lot more to learn than me because I have experienced a lot more than she has. She just went through a weird boyfriend and then shortly, a breakup and she told me she told our other friend about it and she said just get over it. I have nothing to do with this whole thing and I told her that via text. I know that might have not been a smart thing to do but I dont know how else to say "I have a lot to do on my own so I cant help you all the time" (I didnt say this) My bestie told me that she told me because she as upset about it. She was trying to get my advice but shes like that a lot of times. I have a LOT to do at home and school and other stuff but I just dont know how to say it in a nice way...help me!




Hey girlie. Since you guys are best friends, she probably wants to come to you for your advice. She trusts you and values your opinion. Instead of not giving her your opinion, say something like "hey girl, I really want to help you but I'm super busy right now. I hope you're doing okay after the break up. Can I call ya later?" That way, she knows that you still value her as a friend. Making time for friends can be difficult, but if she's your bestie, she'll understand that you also have a life and should be cool with talking about it another time. Good luck.
Marly Z.

by dancrgal24 on 3/23/2011 4:46:56 PM

 
 

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my best friend got a boyfriend like last month. she'd been friends with him for a while and we all knew he'd liked her for a long time. they kissed and made out before they made it official and since then have gone kind of far. it makes me feel kind of inadequate. dont get me wrong i dont want to go that far right now, but its just no guy i've liked has liked me back. i've never had a boyfriend and i feel embarrassed talking about who i like with my friends at sleepovers because i feel like that boy will never like me anyway, so why bother? help please! thank you!

Bonjour chicky! Hey, we all start dating in our own time. I know five people (one of them is my dearest friend) who didn't start dating till she was in college. The guys at your school just are too shy or too dumb to see what makes you such a cool chick! Just give it some time and before you know it, the right guy will come along and make you feel "like your the only girl in the world"

Jessica W.

by partyy like a rockstar on 3/21/2011 11:53:39 PM

 
 

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ok i have 2 really close friends. My bestie on my J.O. V-ball team is giving me mixed signals. One day she'll be really nice to me and always be by me and the next she'll be haning with these really popular girls and won't give me the time of day. and my other bestie,my BFF scince the 1st grade, never want to hang out. So i've just stoped asking her and to make matters worse we don't have the same classes together... and i feel like were growing apart, we barley even talk Frown I feel like there's no place for me, and no one to hang with. And i really want to rebuild my relationships with my besties. Please HELP ME!! thank you for your time
~ LimeGreenLover101




I think you need to put hte effort in! Try to reconnnect with the second friend. As for the first friend talk to her and see why she keeps ignoring you. If you face the issue you could possibly resolve it and things would be way better. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by LimeGreenLover101 on 3/20/2011 3:42:42 PM

 
 



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Brittany, I'm glad I didn't go now. They just prank called me and were mean, if i was there they could have done it to a friend of mine.




Hey love, I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm so glad you took my advice with regard to watching your back. In the end, it's their loss! If you ever need anything, you know where to find me Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by robin13133 on 3/19/2011 12:37:46 AM

 
 



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thanks so much




Sure thing love!




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by robin13133 on 3/18/2011 11:04:04 PM

 
 



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please, asap answer this. some girls were mean to me this year but then we made up. we are pretty good friends and they invited me to ice skate tonight but my dad wont let me go becuase it's them should i not go? i really want to i finally feel included and want to go




Hey girlie! Your dad has only your best interest in mind, and though that may sound lame, he just wants to protect you from them since he knows how mean they were to you. While you want to feel included, take into consideration how your relationship was in the past and how it's going now and take baby steps. Trust me, I'm in the same situation Smile You could also ask another good friend to go with you, to make your dad more comfortable and to have "backup" in case things don't go as planned.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by robin13133 on 3/18/2011 10:51:04 PM

 
 

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i have a friend who ive known since kinderganden and weve been friends for forever but we r in middle school now and she made the school volley ball team and i didnt... now she plays volley ball non stop with her new friends from the team>>> she has practise 3 time a week a tournament every weekend and stays late at school to play more! the only people she ever hangs out with are from the v-ball team and we r becoming distant and everytime we talk its akward...i really LOVE my bff but im not sure she wants to be friends or if she's just to busy.... please help!!!!

Bonjour chicky! One hard part of growing up is that you and your friends begin to change and develop new interests. This may cause you guys to grow a bit apart, but there is an upside to it all which is making new friends. So what if you didn't make the volley ball team - there are still a lot of other after-school activities you can do such as musical theater, cross country, and so much more. If there isn't a club you really like at your school, than start your own and in no time you'll have a new group of friends to hang out with while still being able to chill with your bf from time to time.

Jessica W.

by bree123 on 3/18/2011 1:41:48 AM

 
 

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I had a fight with my ex-best friend in january on facebook. I sent her a poem one of my friends showed me because it explained how we were becoming 2 strangers and how our friendship wasnt the same. she said very mean things to me so i responded to her equally as rude.I ended up blocking her.Part of me wants to unblock her and apologize and the other part wants to keep ignoring her and her nasty comments.But I hold myself back because of all the things her new "bestie" has done to me. She made up all these rumors about me and ruined my reputation! No one wants to be my friend now and i feel lonely and empty. She was like my sister and I want to go back to having those good times. What should I do? If I do apologize how do I say it? Please tell me exact words SmileThanks for your time, I would love to hear your opnion.Have a great day!

by aileenia1 on 3/16/2011 6:49:25 PM

 
 

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I sit next to my friend in class, and she always gets like 70s on her quizs and tests, and I get 90s and even 100s sometimes. She looks really bummed when she gets tests back that she did bad on. When she asks what i got on my test, I feel bad telling her that i got a 100 or 95. What can i tell her to comfort her?




Hey chica. You guys could just stop telling each other your scores, so she doesn't feel bad. 
Marly Z.

by BeachBabe5432 on 3/14/2011 6:56:59 PM

 
 

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My problem is that i'm different- I'm mature and its weird. I'm not girly at all! I lke black, red, and purple. I only listen to extremely hardcore and screamo music. None of the friends my age are anything like me but i still like them. I act 13 and everyone thinks i am because i hang out with 13-16 yr olds when im only 11. All my friends my age get mad when im with my REAL friends that are like me! What do i do??? Also im trying to change what the girls in my grade think of me, i used to be girly and i want them to see the real hardcore me. How can i show them that? MOD thanks(:




Hey girlie. Of course you should hang out with whoever you fit in with, but I wouldn't say that your friends your age aren't your REAL friends. They might just be a different type of friend. If they're getting mad at you, try talking to them to work things out. As far as showing them who you are- just be you. They will get it.  
Marly Z.

by Miss_Sixx on 3/14/2011 3:30:38 PM

 
 

MOD MOD!! im really stressed Frown my friends keep fighting all the time. i'm 14 and my sister tells me its our age and that everyone does it then. but its so hard because there fighting and i'm usually in the middle but the thing is the fighting i can kinda handle but i keep thinking and worrying ( and i dunno why) if i made bad friends because there fighting and they can b mean and hurt me sometimes but the rest of the times they cheer me up and always always make me laugh Laughing im soo worried that my friends are bad though and that there not as good as other peoples friends?? Frown what do i doo? Frown do you think they sound bad ? im always comparing myself to othersFrown xxxxx

 

 

Hey girly! You can always stay friends with your friends, but make more friends too. That way, you'll have your choice as to what group you want to hang with the mostSmile

xxx

Becca G.

by t.sxxx on 3/12/2011 8:22:17 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I made a fake Facebook account a few weeks ago and I met this kids who apperently goes to my school and I said something to him and her told my school principal that I cyberbullied him. I'm really sorry I don't know what I did and if the principal tells my parents I'm dead because I'm not allowed of Facebook! What should I do? please help! ~Kayleigh

 

 

Hey girly! I would definately talk to the principal about it and give them your side, before anything goes further.

xxx

Becca G.

by JBfan97 on 3/12/2011 7:12:58 PM

 
 

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i havent had a friend over for the past..2 or 3 years and my family hasnt seen or met any of my friends so i really want a friend over but i dont know how to ask my friends...aaanndd im always afraid that we will run out of topics to talk about any ideas on how to ask them and what to do if we run out of topics?




Hey girlie, if you guys run out of things to talk think of an activity to do and do it that will bring up a topic think of hobbies to do together  
Paige T.

by ljlove on 3/12/2011 12:45:13 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD ok my birthday is March 20th a Sunday and so I'm having my birthday party the 19th. Me and 5 other friends are going and were going to comsmic bowling, lazar tag and then back to my house for a slumber party sound fun? or too kiddy and lame?




Hey girlie -- it sounds awesome Smile




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by cowbellkell on 3/12/2011 10:53:53 AM

 
 

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My friend Kat is now dating this boy named John (an hour ago). The problem is that at our dance, last week, John kept trying to kiss my other friend Jess and really annoying her because he wanted to date Jess! So now John asked Kat out and I dont know if I should tell her that he was trying to go out with Jess and kiss her. Should I?

 

Hey girlie. I wouldn't tell her just yet. He may actually like her and you don't want to ruin their "honeymoon period." If you feel that he is showing feelings toward Jess or other girls then I would say something. But give him a chance first. 

Elizabeth P.

by loveforever21 on 3/11/2011 1:40:34 PM

 
 

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ME AND MY BEST FRIEND TRIED OUT FOR VOLLEYBALL AND WE BOTH DIDN'T MAKE IT AND THAT WAS THE ONLY SPORT WE EVER WANT TO PLAY AND WE R NOT GOING TO DO ANOTHER ONE AND WE R REALLY SAD ABOUT IT! WAT SHOULD WE DO WE ARE SOOOOO BUMMED Frown




Hey chica. Check out some rec leagues that are around your area. You can still play volleyball on one of those leagues. Also, grab some of your girlies to get together and play vball for fun. There are still tons of ways to enjoy the game you love. 
Marly Z.

by HSCMITH on 3/9/2011 6:26:44 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod Well my BFFs older brother just recently went to war . But she's really close to him and misses him so much . He's 19 years old and she's worried he's going to die and is really depressed. I hate seeing her so upset. She hasn't seen him since September he could come home for Christmas like he was supposed to he was also suppose to come home a couple weeks ago but again he couldn't I really just want to help her feel better but I don't know how Help!




Hey girlie. I'm sorry to hear about your friend's situation. Family and friends involvement in the war is such a tough subject. For now, just be there for her. Support her and tell her to come talk to you whenever she's feeling down. Comfort is the best medicine. 
Marly Z.

by Likatruzippo7 on 3/9/2011 3:28:59 PM

 
 



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So, I was on Facebook and my friend Casey said she was and at em and she hated me and I asked her why and she said she couldn't tell me. She said she never wanted to be my friend again. Now, I'm in tears and I'm scared of more drama and she's going to get everyone against me again. What should I do? Please help!
~Lizzie




Hey girlie! If she has caused problems for you in the past, such as getting everyone against you, she is not really your friend, especially if she refuses to tell you why she feels the way she does. If she doesn't want to talk to you after another attempt, I suggest moving on. If any of them are your real friends then they will stick by you, no matter what she says.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by cheerrox1111 on 3/7/2011 9:50:01 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD! My BFFs hanging out with this girl named Raemyn who hates me because when her BFF Sabrina got mad at her last year Sabrina was always talking to me so she thinks I was trying to steal her BFF. I told her that I wasnt takng her BFF but shes still rude to me and now my BFF is mean to me when Raemyns around. Ever since my BFF startd hangng out with Raemyn shes getng mad easy,she never tells me anythng,she rarely talks to me and shes always trying to get me to do her work so she can talk to Raemyn (but I dont do her work).Today she said that Im only her BFF at school. I try hangng out with other people but they all have their own BFFs or stay in at reces for skool clubs. My BFF still hangs out with me at reces but she just listen to music. I feel like I have no good frinds. what shold I do?




Hey girlie. What about Sabrina? It seems like she was a good friend to you. Your current BFF doesn't seem to be that great of a friend, so I wouldn't go out of your way to hang out with her. And I'm sure that there are other girls at school who will be a good friend. You just have to meet new people. 
Marly Z.

by randomlolz on 3/7/2011 4:30:36 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD At 10:00am this morning, my 15 year old Sister, Joanne and her BFFL, Debbie, went to the mall. My Mom dropped Joanne off and Debbie's Mom dropped Debbie off. My Mom and Debbie's Mom even talked for a wile. They both told Debbie and Joanne to be out of the mall waiting at 3:15pm. I even went with my Mom and they weren't there. We waited and waited, but they never came out, so we finally went in. My Mom told Me, my 7 year old brother Brandon and my 8 year old Sister, Bobbie, and Debbie's 9 year old Sister Melissa to look on one side wile they look on the other. There were no signs of them. Then, the adults called both of them and their phones were disconnected, so we had them paged and we asked around, no one knew where they where and they never came up. Soon, we gave up at the mall and the Parents dropped us home and they're still out looking. I'm worried, what if my Sister never comes back? I'm sitting in her room crying. How can I stop worry? Please help! ~Faith

 

 

Hey girl! I would definately encourage your mom to go to the police about this. The sooner the police get on it, the better chance they have at finding your sister and her friend. In the meantime, maybe try to keep yourself occupied by talking to a friend, or watching a movie. Even working on schoolwork. Please let me know how it goes... I'm thinking about you.

xxx

Becca G.

by JBfan97 on 3/6/2011 6:42:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD ok so this isnt my problem but im trying to help my friend. Kk so mt friend is a guy i will call him justin, and one of my closest besties stephanie. So stephanie and justin really liked eachother at the begining of the year in and they still do, but stephanie wants to wait till grade 10 to date but justin doesnt want to wait that long. should justin tell stephanie that he doesnt want to wait?? thanks a lot : )

 

 

Hey chica! I'd say that it's best for Justin to be honest flat out with her, rather than leading her on and hurting her down the road.

xxx

Becca G.

by ohmywegs on 3/6/2011 6:16:39 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD ok i know i have commented about this before (me feeling like the third wheel when my BFF has met another girl and hangs out with her everywhere) but it has started to become more worse. They started hanging out and talking on the phone more without telling me and going behind my back and lying. I know i may seem to be overreacting, but one time my BFF swore to me that she wasn't hanging out with the other girl but 5 minutes later she updated her status saying that she was hanging out with the girl and having a lot of fun and when i read that i felt really hurt. They always hang out and never have time for me, so i tried hanging out with other people but its really hard because they all hang out with those two girls, I sometimes even cry in the bathroom at school because of how they treat me. I tried telling them how i feel and they would start calling me bratty and saying that i was overreacting. What should i do because i really don't want to see a counselor Frown




I think you should sit down your one friend (the one your closer to) and tell her how youre feeling. Tell her youre completely ok with her having a new friend, but you just dont wanna be left behind. Let her know your cherish your friendship with her and would love to get to know the new friend better and maybe hang out with them too. Dont yell or get mad. If you stay calm and let her know how much she means to  you and how you miss her she may just hear you and make some more time. If she doesnt, then shes a bad friend. You deserve better if thats the case. I know it may suck, but finding better people is what you should do if she doesnt listen to you. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by sammy4457 on 3/6/2011 1:41:19 PM

 
 



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I really need your help! Okay, so my friend has been talking about going into 7th grade with her "new self". She said she wants to wear a lot of mini skirts, very low cut shirts,and just act like a sex addict. then, she wants to hang out with popular people only. It hurts me because she is my BFF and I don't want her going like this when she is 12! And to top it all off, she has been insulting me non stop and that hurts, too. She's never been like this except when she started at the beginning of the year. Help plz? Thank you!




Hey girl,

She probably is going through a change in her life right now - she feels like she wants to explore different things and, as long as it isn't really destructive, it's ok that she does that. It's part of growing up! But if she's doing anything that hurts you, including saying hurtful things, talk to her about it! You can't judge her on the choices she's making with her life because that's her choice to make. But you can tell her that your feelings have been hurt and, because you respect her and love her, you'd hope she did the same to you. <3
Lauren C.

by joshlynn on 3/4/2011 11:49:49 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD omg i am so scared. My friend is having some problems (i don't know what) and she has started cutting herself!!!! apparantly she asked someone if they had a gun!! I am so scared, i don't know what to do. She has talked about killing herself. This has gone on for a while. I need help!!!!

 

Hey girlie. I would talk to your parents about it and then they can maybe talk to her parents. This sounds serious and so an adult really should know so they can help her! Your first might get upset at first but trust me, you would much rather lose a friendship than a friend.

Elizabeth P.

by alkrox17 on 3/4/2011 3:23:56 PM

 
 

so my best friend went to the hospital but i didnt know about it and when i found out i called her asap crying i dont know how to handle this and middle school. HELP

by caca35 on 3/3/2011 9:44:25 PM

 
 

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My friend, Talia, got her period last night. Today, she was mood swingy to the max! I told my Mom and she told me not to take in personally or anything, but, she was so rude to me and Joey, my BFFL (she's a girl, by the way), She's mad at my friend Tatiana (I have a big clique, and these are all the girls in it), and then, she exploded at Rick, her boyfriend! Then she became super peppy and happy, but yelled at me for taking up all the room on the bus, and now she's all hyper on Facebook. I told my Sister, Mackenzie (she's 15 and I'm 12, so she's got more knowledge than me) and she said never EVER yell at you bestie with mood swings, EVER because it'll just make it worse. What should I do? Please help!
~Zoey




Hey girlie. I'd wait a little bit and when she's off her period, tell her that you got a little upset because you thought she was being a little mean to you. I'm sure guys will work it out. 
Marly Z.

by JBfan97 on 3/2/2011 5:05:22 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!! My friends and I are starting a business selling flower pens, wallets, bows to put on headbands, and maybe even purses made out of duct tape. We have no clue how much to Charente for them though. Can you maybe give me some ideas on price? We think we are going to a a prevent of the proceeds to charity too
~ thanks




Hey girlie. For a starting price, ask around. Once you make everything, show a bunch of your friends the items and ask them how much they would pay for them! Good luck! 
Marly Z.

by Emmy101 on 3/2/2011 3:58:59 PM

 
 

HEy jimisacutie!
i think she is not a good friend if she is calling you mean things and i think you should tell her to stop.

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by Anime Club on 3/1/2011 6:50:20 PM

 
 

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by Hanna_Banana(: on 3/1/2011 6:16:04 PM

 
 

I have this friend who is in a huge fight with me and two of my friends.
SHe calls us rude words and says we're backstabbers
advice?

by jimisacutie on 3/1/2011 5:39:46 PM

 
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