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There is this guy in my grade who I really like. He likes me back and we’ve texted a bunch, but he never talks to me in school. Why do you think that is?

 

Hey girlie! There are a couple of reasons I can think of to explain your crush’s behavior. He might be…

 

Shy

For some inexplicable reason, shy guys seem to outnumber outspoken ones, at least when it comes to matters of the heart. If you’re always with your group of girls, he might not know how to single you out and get your attention.

 

Nervous

If this is the first time he’s seriously interested in a girl, your crush probably has no idea what to do about it. If this is the case, taking the initiative to talk to him first might just be the way to go.

 

Waiting for you to make the first move

I know, I know: Dating 101 rules stipulate that Prince Charming is supposed to ask you out. Just about every guy we’ve talked to, however, is totally freaked out by the mere thought of asking you out. Take the pressure off by inviting him out for a slice of pizza after school.

 

Not quite as into you as you think…yet

Texts are like emails: You can throw in tons of smilies, but someone still might take what ya say the wrong way. I’m not saying there’s no chance for the two of you ever, but he might think of you as a friend (for now) rather than a potential girlfriend. Getting to know him in person will make your interest—and compatibility—clear, so go for it, girlie!

 

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My crush was my friend for awhile. We hung out a few times. Then I guess he figured out he liked me, then he doesn't even say hi to me when I see him. Also, my friend and I were recently talking and were talking about who we like. Out of like 1300 kids in our hs and like half being guys, she likes this same boy. The only difference is she is a year and a half older than him and Im a year younger than him. She actually gets to talk to him though. I'm in a class with him. How do I get him to talk to me again? Any advice?




Hey, Girl! Sorry for the “stock” message. We’re psyched you’re here but since this is a super busy time, mods aren’t able to answer personal advice or contest questions. We’re approving your comments now so the girls can start offering feedback right away! If you still have questions, please come back, we’re happy to help…or just let the other chicas answer now! (They give awesome advice, trust us!) Love and thanks! ♥, Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Alyssa B.

by mccap0123 on 3/10/2011 6:33:23 PM

 
 

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im considering telling my crush that i like him. i have heard that he likes me but idk. he alwayss says nice things and gives me compliments. he told me that he likes more than one person and told me one of them. she has a bf but i think she kinda leads him on a little. and shes like 2 yrs older. i dont want to ruin our friendship by telling him but i kinda want to say how i feel. Help!! thanks

 

Hey girlie! I say go for it. If he doesn't return the feelings, hopefully he'll be mature about it and your friendship can stay the same, but if you hear that he likes you, you've got a good shot!

Clare W.

by CoolBean on 3/9/2011 7:41:16 AM

 
 

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WELL I MET THIS GUY ONLINE, AND JUST TO LET YOU KNOW, I DO NOT PLAN ON MEETING HIM OR TALKING TO HIM OUTSIDE OF THE WEBSITE, BUT HE CREEPS ME OUT. HE ASKED ME OUT BUT I SAID NO AND HE ASKED IF HE COULD FLIRT WITH ME BECAUSE I WAS HOT. I SAID OKAY AND HE HAS BEEN REALLY FREAKING ME OUT. HE IS A SWEET GUY BUT EVERY TIME I LOG OFF HE MAKES IT INTO A BIG DEAL. JUST NOW BEFORE I LOGGED OFF, HE SAID," SWEET DREAMS" AND HE HAS BEEN SENDING ME HEARTS AND EVERYTHING. JUST TO LET YOU KNOW, I AM VERY CAUTIOUS ABOUT ONLINE SAFETY AND I DO NOT GIVE OUT ANY INFO AND I DO NOT PLAN ON GIVING OUT ANY INFO. WHAT SHOULD I SAY TO GET RID OF HIM? HE REALLY CREEPS ME OUT. PLEASE HELP, HE WANTS TO "FLIRT" WITH ME TOMORROW ONLINE. HE FREAKS ME OUT PLEASE HELP............SORRY IT IS SO LONGFrown

 

Hey girlie, that's a scary situation! While you're being smart by not giving out any information, there are still ways this guy could be dangerous. Your best bet is to stay away from chatting online with people you know nothing about--that means stay away from chat rooms and forums that seem sketchy like that. Delete this guy from your life completely!

Clare W.

by sydmisterLOL on 3/9/2011 12:56:09 AM

 
 

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so i have this amazing BGF. he gives me a lot of attention - and i give him a lot back too. the thing is that, i thought we just had a really amazing friendship but lately he's been walking me to my locker after school, and waiting for me outside after school. i can find myself talking to him for about 45 minutes after school and all we would be doing is just talking and laughing. the thing is that i don't mind at all and im starting to like it. im scared that im going to like him but i really don't want that - our friendship is too good. what should i do?




Hey girlie. If you like a guy, go for it! You guys can always have the convo about not losing your friendship to make sure that you both realize what could be at stake.  
Marly Z.

by mellirificlove on 3/7/2011 7:39:09 PM

 
 

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I have this BGF, and his mom said to me tht he liked me. Also she said hes scared of getting rejected by me if he asks me out.Then he asked me if i liked him so i said no, why? then he confronted me and told me he liked me, this was all in December. Now im wondering if he still likes me, his twin brother says he does, but idk if i should trust the bro. Should i wait to see what happens, or should i just ask he him if he still does?




Hey girlie. The real question here is do you like him? If you don't like him, there's no reason to see if he likes you. You don't want to lead him on and hurt his feelings. If you do like him, tell him. He already told you he did a few months ago, so chances are, there's still a little something there. 
Marly Z.

by abbygirl12 on 3/7/2011 4:52:03 PM

 
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