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Picking between bros


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Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

Dear Oh Brother,
Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/18/2011 5:05:00 PM

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 8:35:34 AM

 
 

1.think of your crush

2.make a heart with your hands

3.then kiss your hands while still making the heart

4.then put the heart where your real heart is

5.tomorrow your crush will ask you out

6.this will only work if you post this to your favorite article

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by hollylover5 on 5/8/2011 11:15:07 PM

 
 

Dear MOD!
So I like this guy and everyone says he likes me and he goes out of his way to talk to me and everything but then one day one of his good friends asked me out of course I said noo but now he won't talk or look at me. Frown did I do something wrong ?!?!? What should I do I'm so confused. I still like himFrown




Hey girlie. He could just be being a good friend to his friend. I'm sure his buddy is upset that you said no, so he prob advised all his friends to stay away from you. Just give it some time and all the boys will get over it. 
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by Confusedbeyondbelief on 4/13/2011 5:45:12 PM

 
 



MOD!!!
Okay so I almost have the same problem! Except the two guys aren't related and they hate each other! I really like them both and I don't know who to pick I already cheated once on both of them and I hate it! Some of my classmates are already picking SIDES!! Please help me I don't know who I like more




Hey girlie -- you need to look at the pros and cons of both guys.




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by Isael1999 on 4/8/2011 8:10:52 PM

 
 



MOD MOD my bgf asked me out and i said yes but then things got all awkward between us and we havnt even gone anywhere p.s im twelve and this is the first time anyones asked me out and i dont know how to make things right again p.p.s im not technically allowed to date but almost nobody is and we all do anyway is that bad. please help thnx




Hey girlie -- the last thing you wanna do is go against your parents wishes, as you don't want to lose their trust. Nonetheless, you should talk to your guy friend about your feelings regarding things between you two.




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by superstar579 on 4/1/2011 11:13:31 PM

 
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