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Picking between bros


Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

Dear Oh Brother,
Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/18/2011 5:05:00 PM

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okay so there is this guy in my grade named holden and most of the girls in my grade like his older brother. I never noticed his brother until my friends metioned it. I have a major crush on his brother who is a 2 yrs older than me. I have been friends with Holden since 3rd grade and I am developing a small crush on him. I think im going crazy because holden asked me to prom. I really like him and his brother, what should I do???????????




Hey girl,

Yikes.. tough sitch! The best thing to do here is make a choice based partly on your head and partly on your heart. The head part is easy: would it really ever be possible to date Holden's older bro? It could even be one of the reasons why you have the crush - he's older and unattainable, which is definitely attractive to some girls! Now to the heart part - which one makes you happier? Which one is funny, shares your interests, respects you, etc.? It's tough but ya gotta weigh the options and figure out which one would make you happiest overall. But make sure you don't miss out on something awesome just because you're holding out for something that seems "perfect." Aside from that advice, ya gotta make this decision on your own <3
Lauren C.

by blackcrow1314 on 3/28/2011 9:55:00 PM

 
 

i like this boy but his cousins and sisters are my bffs. he his two years older. he asks about boys i like and stuff like that but i dont know if he thinks of me as a "little girl" or if he is just asking or if he really wants to know....he keeps flirting but im still confused please respond asap

by I-am-who-I-am on 3/27/2011 8:22:38 PM

 
 



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Im feeling this guy who is a complete different race than me, i feel like he might be interested because of the way he looks at me but i dun know and i don't wanna be silly because what if he's guy who sticks to his own.I usually stick to my own but lately my mind has expand and if anything were to happen i know alot of my friends and my ex especially my ex would be making big deal out of it and talk about it. Should i just see what happens i just don't know it's wierd because i almost feel like a traitor or something and i know i shouldn't.




Hey girlie!

That's great that you are interested in someone from another race--there is absolutely nothing wrong with that!  I think it would be more of an issue if you were not interacting with people of various races! Have fun and see how things go..if a guy likes you, his actions will show it and he'll make an effort to hang out with you Smile
Ruth S.

by Zee<3 on 3/27/2011 12:25:35 AM

 
 



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I think i like my best friend his names Killian and he just super nice to me used to ask to sit on the bus with me EVERYDAY but latley somethings change about him. Hes trying to be popular he doesnt text me he still comes to my house every tuesday along with my friend he likes (so i cant even talk to him) and he never asks me to sit on the bus with him. Hes almost completely changed. Its really upsetting for me what should i do Frown(




Hey girlie,

Try talking to him and seeing if he wants to hang out or do something fun as friends!  Try not to worry too much about it...if he wants to see you, he should make an effort to (maybe he's just going through a tough time).  Spend time with other friends as well and maybe he'll come around!

 
Ruth S.

by KatzOutaZeBag on 3/26/2011 9:05:42 PM

 
 

That sounds like a problem! Smile

by millie23456 on 3/25/2011 9:42:09 PM

 
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