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Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

Dear Oh Brother,
Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.

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How much older should a bf be?




hey! I'd say 2-3 years max in highschool 
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by Sapheria on 3/25/2011 5:51:41 PM

 
 

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by evangalinabecks on 3/22/2011 1:21:09 PM

 
 

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At my dance this Friday, what are some flirty/cute things I can do to interest a guy into asking me to dance? We're all walking around hurriedly trying to find partners to dance with (and since they are girls and guys schools meeting, I don't know any of the guys so I can't really play it safe with my best guy friends or anything.) For example, should I smile and wave, or is that too assertive? Should I just hold my eye contact a second longer than usual when I spot a cutie?
Thanks!
xoxo Mackenzie

 

Hey girlie, give them the eye which is just stare/hold their stare for a 3 seconds smile and give a small wave 

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by actress456 on 3/20/2011 9:10:11 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD i have a social friday, which is like a super casual dance (i mean like jeans and tops, not even like skirts, yet alone dresses) its a sort of western theme, but i really dont wanna wear plaid. i was thinking of wearing a floral peasant blouse with cuffed skinny jeans and leather vintage western flip flops, with my hair in a sid braid. does that sound cute? cuz even though we can't go together, i'm meeting my crush at the entrance and we're walking in together, i really wanna impress him Smile thanks!

 

 

Hey girly girl! That sounds super cute!! Smile

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Becca G.

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by Dancing Queen 14 on 3/20/2011 7:03:34 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I go to an all-girls school. My friend Zoe slowdanced with a guy named Cory at one of our dances (boys schools invite girls schools). I got his number from her. Cory had a crush on Zoe, but she likes a different guy (and Cory knows that). Anyway, Cory and I have been texting for about 2 1/2 months now and I sort of like him. (He sort of likes me as well). We've never met each other, but I've seen pictures. He's really nice and pretty cute. I'm going to see him at a dance Friday... any tips on what to talk about, weather to mention Zoe or not, etc.? Thanks so much! xoxo Mackenzie

 

 

Hey chickadee! I wouldn't mention your friend Zoe too much. You want him to be thinking about you, rather than her. I'd just get to know him. Ask him about his family... his school... and if he plays any sports Smile

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Becca G.

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