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Going to a friend's party when I don't like the guests

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My friend is having a party and some people I don't like are going to be there. Should I skip the party, or go and ignore them? What if something goes wrong? What do I do?

If you have a few close friends going that you know you can hang out with and be comfortable around, then I say go for it! Have your own fun and don’t let other people ruin your night.

There’s no reason you should have to interact with the people you don’t like if there are other girls and guys you can hang with. If you’re faced with confrontation, though, don’t sweat. Slap a friendly smile on your face and keep your words civil. Just ‘cause you don’t like each other doesn’t mean you can’t get along for one night, right?

Just in case, though, let’s say you do go to the party and something bad does happen. What now? Call Mom and Dad, an older sib or family member, or an older friend who can legally drive and ask for a ride home. There’s no shame in heading home early. If you need an excuse, tell your buds you’re really not feeling well. Head outside for a little fresh air and wait for your getaway car, OK, babe?

Good luck and have fun!

BY MADELEINE BROWN AND BRITTANY TAYLOR ON 4/5/2011 12:36:00 PM

POSTED IN bust my bestie problem, party, I'm feeling left out

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Dear __, I Kinda New To This Girls Life.com Thing. So Sorry If I Did This Wrong. Haha, Anyways I Need Advice Badly. I Recently Just Got A New Boyfriend On The 6th Of December, Its December 21 So Been Together For A While. Usually He Texts Me Everyday, But Recently Me Cousin Told Me He Cheated. So Of Course I Asked Him About It, And He Said He Didn't But He Got Really Mad. Therefore, He Hardly Texts Me Now, But When He Does He Texts Me Like Everything Is Boring, And Its Making Me wonder If He Still Is Interested In Me.,,Please Help- What Should I Do?

Hey missy, first off welcome to girlslife!! Thanx a bunch for joining, we're so glad to have you! Communication is key in any relationship, so talk to him girl. Call him up and ask him what's going on. Maybe he feels that you're not ready to talk to him yet. Just chat and I'm sure he'll be willing to work everything out. Hope this helps you girl! Let me know if you have anymore questions!!!

Lynae P.

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by ezperanza_duran on 12/21/2011 5:14:13 PM

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So, my friend has liked this guy since like fourth grade (i'm in eighth grade now) and she is convinced that he likes her. But...um...he doesn't. She is always talking about how he likes her and she is wondering when he's gonna ask her out. But I have overheard him talking about girls to his friend once in the hallway, and he is really not interested in my friend. What should I do when she brings it up??

Hey girl,

Since this is between the two of them, it's not really your job to get involved. But if she's planning on making a move, you could suggest she ask him if he likes her, or encourage her to consider other options. This is sensitive, though, so try not to hurt her feelings!

Meghan D.

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by razzberry on 12/17/2011 11:29:54 AM

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I was at a slumberparty and we were playing the question game. One of my friends asked who I liked. I didn't wanna tell them cause earlier they were saying how they thought he was weird. I gave up and told them. They think he's weird and unattractive. I like him cause hes nice to me. Very nice. A friend actually. They said they wouldn't judge me and didn't when I told them but I could tell they were thinking of it. They said what is said in the circle stays there. I'm still worried they might tell someone or him. Help!

Hey girlie,

Just try to relax! They were talking about him because they didn't know about your feelings - and then, when they did know, they didn't judge you at all for it. Even though it doesn't erase the gossipy stuff they said earlier, it's at least showing a bit of respect! Don't assume they were thinking negative things about it...you don't actually know, so you wouldn't want to freak yourself out! Instead, just be confident with your decision. He's a great guy to you and you're not shallow, so you can appreciate all of his amazing qualities and his great personality. That says a lot about you - and is GREAT! If any of them give you drama because of it, tell them why you like him and then let it go. It's not their place to judge

Lauren C.

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by smartpaws on 11/26/2011 11:12:20 PM

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I was at a slumberparty and we were playing the question game. One of my friends asked who I liked. I didn't wanna tell them cause earlier they were saying how they thought he was weird. I gave up and told them. They think he's weird and unattractive. I like him cause hes nice to me. Very nice. A friend actually. They said they wouldn't judge me and didn't when I told them but I could tell they were thinking of it. They said what is said in the circle stays there. I'm still worried they might tell someone or him. Help!

Lynae P.

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by Smartpaws on 11/26/2011 5:09:05 PM

Now I fully changed myself. I have followed this and never refuse any invitation. If I don't like someone so I refuse him/her silently. Thats good.

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by Nawrin on 7/9/2011 4:01:05 PM

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