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Should I date a player?


 
 

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I really like this guy. We flirt a lot, and all the other girls give me jealous looks when we talk. He is a major player, so I try to keep my distance. I was at a party the other night, though, and he tried to dance with me. When he got too close, if you know what I mean, I just kind of walked away. He seemed a bit offended by it. Should I just forget about him?

Once a player, always a player
First things first: Players are no good! Especially not ones who want to move things along too fast. Do yourself a favor a find a cute, nice guy who isn’t playing the field. History has a tendency to repeat itself and if this boy was a player with someone else, he is likely to be with you, too. He may be a cutie, but he’s def not worth heartache or pain.

Never let a guy make you feel uncomfortable
It may be fun knowing you’re the girl he wants, but that doesn’t mean you have to want him back. You don’t want to be with someone who is going to make you feel uncomfortable. That’s not fair to you. You shouldn’t feel bad about offending him. If anything, he was the one offending you by making advances you weren’t comfortable with.

What to do
I would definitely say to forget him. You don’t need a guy like that by your side. You’re strong, independent and beautiful! If he really likes you and wants things to work, he’ll prove it to you. Until then keep your distance. Remember: You only deserve the best!

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BY CAITLIN FARLEY ON 4/6/2011 5:19:00 PM

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mod mod mod !
ive been talking to this guy taht i think is really and and im starting to like him, and he said taht im really cute, but i dont want to seem stalkerish and like text him all throughout my spring break, how do i deal? because i really dont want to wait for him to text me ?




hey girl,

it's ok to start a casual conversation through text or Facebook, but don't bombard his inbox with messages.  If he keeps the conversation going, then that's cool.  If the conversation kind of dies, then don't keep sending him messages.  Just wait till you see him at school again and catch up then! 
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by krissykris on 4/16/2011 9:36:07 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD !!
okay so i like this guy names chase, and he is really cute and he thinks i am really cute, and were juss now starting to talk, he is a grade above me, and i really am starting to like him even more than i did, but my friend said she thought he was cute so i dont know if that meant she liked him but i really want to go out with him but i dont want to hurt my friend ?




hey girlie,

if chase asks you out, then it's fine for you guys to hang out.  You can tell your friend how you are feeling about him and check if she feels hurt or anything...if she is a true friend, and she knows that you and chase both like each other, then I think she would want you to be happy! 
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by krissykris on 4/16/2011 9:31:29 PM

 
 

players r terrible! don't date them!! I dated on once (even if only for 2 days) and b4 he dated me he dated my enemy. But they never talked or anything so i was ok with it. Then he dated me. he broke up with me and said "he wasn't ready" Then he went out with my BEST FREIND!!!! They were always hugging and i told my freind that i wasnt jealous, but i really was... they broke up already, but i still feel betrayed and hurt...

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by peetalover14 on 4/13/2011 9:01:46 PM

 
 

If he's a player, that means he's probably really hot. So, a really hot guy was into you. Use that to boost your ego and ask out a guy who won't treat you like crap using that confidence gain.

Love,
Cassie

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by basketballchick98 on 4/12/2011 6:17:23 PM

 
 

my first ever bf was a player! bad idea! thats why i broke up with him! he was moving way to fast!

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by j4zm09 on 4/11/2011 1:56:36 PM

 
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