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Should I date a player?


 
 
I really like this guy. We flirt a lot, and all the other girls give me jealous looks when we talk. He is a major player, so I try to keep my distance. I was at a party the other night, though, and he tried to dance with me. When he got too close, if you know what I mean, I just kind of walked away. He seemed a bit offended by it. Should I just forget about him?

Once a player, always a player
First things first: Players are no good! Especially not ones who want to move things along too fast. Do yourself a favor a find a cute, nice guy who isn’t playing the field. History has a tendency to repeat itself and if this boy was a player with someone else, he is likely to be with you, too. He may be a cutie, but he’s def not worth heartache or pain.

Never let a guy make you feel uncomfortable
It may be fun knowing you’re the girl he wants, but that doesn’t mean you have to want him back. You don’t want to be with someone who is going to make you feel uncomfortable. That’s not fair to you. You shouldn’t feel bad about offending him. If anything, he was the one offending you by making advances you weren’t comfortable with.

What to do
I would definitely say to forget him. You don’t need a guy like that by your side. You’re strong, independent and beautiful! If he really likes you and wants things to work, he’ll prove it to you. Until then keep your distance. Remember: You only deserve the best!

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BY CAITLIN FARLEY ON 4/6/2011 5:19:00 PM

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by peacelovejesus on 4/6/2011 11:04:33 PM

 
 

ik that this sounds kinda weird but one of my guy friends is a player he never liked me or at least i dont think so but anyways you shouldnt he has hurt so many girls but for some reason they come back and they are always around i really dont want to be his friend anymore especcialy because he supposedly got a girl pregnant last year so you should stay away from players and if they go too far you should tell them to back off

by reagenlautner on 4/6/2011 10:33:12 PM

 
 

*He's the bad boy thats to cute to stay away from. The boy you've been warned about time and time again. And yet, you can't keep him off your mind.*

And who says you want to?
We all know one.

by goldfish123 on 4/6/2011 9:47:28 PM

 
 

Listen,you should tell him how you feel,if he really likes you,he'll change for you,after you talk to him,give him a week.If he doesn't change,it's over,you deserve much better.

by MadMaddie911 on 4/6/2011 9:35:38 PM

 
 

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so lately i've been talking to this guy a looot, and i like him. i want to get to know him better cause i think he might like me back, and if not, at least we'd be really great friends. how do i get his number casually, without seeming like im coming on to him and scaring him away? thank you <3




Hey girlie. After you're already talking to him, ask him. You can say something like, "Well I have to go, but can I get your number?" I'm sure he'll say yes! 
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by partyy like a rockstar on 4/6/2011 7:56:06 PM

 
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