SIGN UP
FORGOT MY PASSWORD
GUYS

Puppy love? Puh-lease

MORE
  • GUYS MAIN
  • GET A BF
    • CRUSH MUCH?
    • ICE BREAKERS
  • DATING 101
    • DUDES DECODED
    • CUTE DATE IDEAS
    • SPLITSVILLE
  • ASK BILL & DAVE
  • DEAR CAROL
  • WHAT GUYS THINK
  • SWEETIE
  • MEANIE
ADVICE

Wisconsin teen wins Doodle 4 Google contest!

MORE
  • ADVICE MAIN
  • IN THE NEWS
  • DEAR CAROL
  • FAMILY
  • FRIENDS
  • SCHOOL
  • TOUGH STUFF
  • ON THE JOB
    • GET STARTED
    • BABYSITTING
    • GOAL GETTER
    • DREAM JOB
  • DO GOOD
    • GET INSPIRED
    • TAKE ACTION
FUN STUFF

10-minute DIYs to dress up your bedroom

MORE
  • FUN STUFF MAIN
  • STAR SIGNS
  • BLUSH MUCH?
  • SURVEY SAYS
  • CLUBS
  • ADVICE QUEENS
  • CRAFTS
  • RECIPES
  • CONTESTS
  • WINNERS
  • ROCK YOUR WEEKEND
  • YOU WROTE IT
ENTERTAINMENT

Book series you’ve gotta start this summer

MORE
  • ENTERTAINMENT MAIN
  • GOSSIP
  • STAR STYLE
  • GL EXCLUSIVES
  • EDITOR'S PICKS
  • BOOK CLUB
STYLE

Exactly what to wear to your summer job interview

MORE
  • STYLE MAIN
  • FASHION
    • CUTE & CHEAP
    • STYLE 911
    • TRENDS WE HEART
  • BEAUTY
    • BEAUTY SPY
    • BEAUTY TRENDS
    • BEAUTY 911
    • HAIR STYLES
    • HAIR TIPS
    • SKINCARE
  • HOW TO
  • FAB UP YOUR LIFE
HEALTH & FITNESS

5 safest sunscreen picks of the season (and serious dos and don'ts)

MORE
  • HEALTH & FITNESS MAIN
  • WORKOUTS
  • RECIPES
  • EAT RIGHT
  • HEALTHY STUFF WE HEART
  • YOUR BOD
    • SKIN
    • HAIR
    • BOOBS
    • DOWN THERE
    • PERIODS, PERIOD
    • EVERYTHING ELSE
QUIZZES

Who's your celeb style clone?

MORE
MAG

Show some #GLcrew love, babes!

MORE
  • MAG MAIN
  • INSIDE THIS ISSUE
  • COVER SHOOT
  • BEHIND THE SCENES
  • BE IN THE MAG
  • EDITOR'S BLOG
  • OUR BOOKS
  • ABOUT US
VIDEO

Bella Thorne rocks WAT-AAH!'s Move Your Body Flash Mob

MORE

Caroline M.

is modding

Lauren R.

is modding

 
 
 

GL PROFILES

More Friends = More Fun

MY ACCOUNT

MY PROFILE

CREATE A PROFILE

 
 

GL
Tweets !

4 HOURS AGO #EdObsession: Primp out your keyboard for under $20: Click Here!

5 HOURS AGO Wanna go to college? Start saving your pennies now: Click Here!

6 HOURS AGO Why do you love your @Lip_Smacker? Share with #LipSmackerLove to get the gift of gloss today.

 
 
 
Girl's Life Newsletters

sponsored links

GUYS | DATING 101 | SPLITSVILLE

23 Comments | Add Yours

Should I wait around for my ex?


 

Check these out, too...

  • 16 fun in the sun summertime dates
  • The Real Deal: Why guys hate shopping
  • Saved the best for last day
  • Is there a way to flirt without being obvious?
  • Puppy love? Puh-lease
My ex has a girlfriend, but he keeps flirting with me. One day, he said that if he ever breaks up with his GF, he'll ask me out again. Should I date him?

 

It’s easy to think you’re fallin’ for an ex again, but you’re counting your chickens before they hatch, chica. For starters, it isn’t really a question of whether you should date him, ‘cause he’s still coupled up with his current girlfriend. The question is should you wait around and see what happens, or start looking for somebody new.

 

My advice? It’s time to move on, babe. Think back to all of the reasons you broke up in the first place and ask yourself if anything has really changed. Chances are, he’s still the same guy he always was. And if he’s flirting with you behind his current gal’s back, that’s a surefire sign of a player.

 

But even if he is totally fantastic, you’re wasting your time by waiting around. Test the waters with a new beau. Who knows? Maybe you’ll like him even more than your ex.

 

ARE BOYS GIVING YOU THE BLUES? CLICK HERE to submit your own problem to be answered on Girl Talk!    

BY BRITTANY TAYLOR ON 4/13/2011 1:00:00 PM

POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, ex boyfriend Q & A

< PREVIOUS   NEXT >   

Previous12345NextShow All
23 Comments | Add Yours
SORT: OLDEST FIRST | NEWEST FIRST
 

MOD MOD MOD!!
Help! I have a crush at skool. He sits across from me in math and always flirts with me by writing on my papers and stuff. He even made up my nickname MURF...LOL
His friend was talking to him once then his friend looked at me and said MARTINA,------LIKES YOU!!! I was like OK.....
sometimes my crush looks at me then when i see he looks away!
But, a few days ago, he was asking me who I like,, and i was like, why do you need to know.So, I asked who HE liked and he said he liked my friend Cassie! Should I believe him? I NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!




Hey girl, I wouldn't have any reason to doubt him. I don't think he would randomly lie and say he likes your friend when he likes you. I think he's earnestly into Cassie and is just using you as insider: someone who might be able to tell him if Cassie might like him back. Sorry, girl! I wish I could say otherwise, but I think this dude's telling the truth.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

report

by Greenybean27 on 4/14/2011 11:00:10 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD
there is a guy in my class, and i thought that he like me, he teased ( sorry i don't know how to spell lol) me, bid it was little and i thought he was be cute and flirting. but by the next week, its been getting really bad. he has been try hurting my feeling, i think it is starting to turn into bullying, but i put on a brave face, and don't listen to him, does he like me still or is he just being a jerk??!! thanks xox

Bonjour chicky! Sounds like a complicated situation. See what our guy experts have to say about teasing (and where's the limit) here: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/17/Is-there-a-meaning-to-his-teasing.aspx

Jessica W.

report

by triecelove'scandy on 4/14/2011 7:15:36 AM

 
 

Oh my! No! No, no, no. Your just a fall back for if his current girlfriend dumps him. You really want to sell yourself for less than love? Stop flirting with that creep.
If your reading this, Go find yourself someone new A.S.A.P.

report

by i_luv_devin on 4/14/2011 2:09:59 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD So I just got over liking this guy in my school because we just flirted and nothing happened so I'm done with it. I just started talk to this guy that I used to go to elementary school with very recently, and I'm not sure but I might be starting to like him. But heres' the thing, he has the same first name as the guy that I DID like, and I'm not sure if I'm just thinking about him, or the other guy when his name comes up in my head. help!

Bonjour chicky! You never know until you try. I'd say give this guy a chance and see where it goes. If you find yourself not clicking with him, then you know it was the name thing. But you also may surprise yourself by finding that you and this guy have some real chemistry

Jessica W.

report

by NinjaDiamond on 4/14/2011 1:20:58 AM

 
 

He sounds like a player.
"Yeah, if I break up with her I'll go out with you"
It sounds like he just doesn't want to be single..

report

by goldfish123 on 4/14/2011 12:36:30 AM

 
Previous12345NextShow All
You must be signed in to post a comment. SIGN IN or REGISTER

ADD A COMMENT


 

 

 

  • RENEW
  • SUBSCRIBE
  • GIVE A GIFT
  • DIGITAL EDITIONS
  • ACCOUNT STATUS
 
 
What go-to saying would you love to wear out loud?



 
 
WIN
TODAY
GRAND
PRIZE
GIVEAWAY
CALENDAR
Red Velvet

Flavor: Rich, sweet chocolate cake smothered with creamy icing. Mmmm!

Fab Fact: Indulge in this new 2013 flavor inspired by the popular cupcake.

Are you and your guy meant to be? Select your sign first then his to find out if the stars see love in your future!
YOU
YOUR CRUSH

Take the 30 Day Craft Challenge!

So what are you going to make today? Try a daily DIY to win cool crafting gear from
My Friendship Bracelet Maker.
 
CLICK HERE to enter!
 
Posts From Our Friends

sponsored links

  • About Us
  • Advertise
  • Privacy
  • Terms & Conditions
  • Home
  • Free Newsletters
  • Subscribe
  • Give a Gift
  • Renew

  • Model for GL
  • Pay Bill
  • Questions?
  • Contact Us
  • © 2013 Girls' Life Acquisition Co. All Rights Reserved.