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I’ll be the first to admit it: I sometimes get too caught up in work, school, extra curriculars and stress. And don’t even get me started on email and Facebook. But one thing’s for sure, I am definitely not alone. That’s right, girlies, I’m calling you out too!

Just to mix things up, let’s try to connect to each other a bit more and interact with something besides our computer screens. What do you say?

Here are just a couple ways we can start.

1. Say at least one nice thing to someone every day
Remember how you felt like a million bucks when that fashionista in math class complimented your outfit last week? Or when your buddy in art told you your painting was the best? Share the wealth, girl! Complimenting just one person could totally make their day. And who knows, maybe they’ll pass the positive energy on to someone else…who passes it on to someone else…you get the idea.

2. Raise your hand at least once in class
Let’s be honest, class participation can sometimes be a pain. It’s kinda embarrassing speaking up, no? But really, what’s the worst that could happen? You could get the answer wrong, but chances are you weren’t the only one thinking it. Not too bad, huh? It’s a tough at first, but once you get used to it (and you will get used to it), speaking up will be a piece of cake.

3. Talk in person
With the Internet and phones, keeping in touch is way easy. But when it comes to having a real conversation, messaging and texting don’t quite make the mark. Here’s an idea: Talk to someone in person for a change. Whether you make time to chit-chat with your besties after school or just ask Mom how her day was, face-to-face interaction is something we all could use a pinch more of.

4. Write a (love) letter
Think about it. When was the last time you wrote a letter? Not an email or a card, but an actual handwritten letter. Can’t remember? Me neither. Sure, it takes a little longer, but go ahead and send your BFF, your BF or even your grandma an ol’ fashioned letter via snail mail. Let ‘em know how much you appreciate them. Trust me, it’ll mean SO much more than your latest text.

Got any other ideas for how to reach out? Share ‘em with us!

BY KRISTEN YEUNG ON 4/23/2011 10:00:00 AM

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I moved about 4-5 months ago from Illinois to Georgia. My dad is going there for buisness and he brought up the possibility of our whole family going with him for a long weekend. All of us are really excited but my mom. She doesn't like traveling, and eventually, the decision is up to my parents, not me. I have decided to write a persuasive essay and present it to them a week before we would leave. Do you have any ideas on what I could say to convince them politely besides the standard this means the world to me/please please please/ I miss my friends and school and gymnastics center and city thing. Thanks sooooo much!




Hey girl,

Writing an essay for them is a great idea! Try bringing up reasons of why you think you earn this trip and this chance to see your old friends. Bring up specific examples like how you haven't fought with your sibs in a while, got really good grades this year, etc. Also, you could talk about how hard it was for you to make the move and leave your friends behind, so it would really be great to go back and see them because you've missed them so much. Good luck! x0x0 
Casey L.

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by gymnastqueen00 on 8/2/2011 1:07:01 PM

 
 

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Ok, I'm pretty sure I'm emo because all the emo things are cool to me. I told my friends about what I think and said that I was going emo in High school and they were all fine with it except my bf. He got mad at me and said he hates emos and if I go emo he will hate my guts. I asked him why and it turns out his friend was emo and commited suicide. I wanted to be an emo that doesn't cut or isn't suicidal. I tried to explain that to him but he didn't listen so I dropped the emo subject. I still want to be emo but I have another problem. My parents. They know what emo is and I want to tell them about me going emo but I'm afraid how they will react. My dad thinks they are (sorry to all ppl like this) gay and my mom thinks they're depressing and are all suicidal. Same with my bf.
Help idk what to do bout the new me!
~Misunderstood

 

Hey girl! You're style should reflect you and it takes everyone a while to find their personal style. Being "emo" doesn't define a person, it's a type of style. You also shouldn't have a time line for your style and you don't just decide to do something like that. If you want to try a more "emo" look you should start now by adding a few things to your wardrobe. As your collection expands then you have defined your style. You also don't need to categorize yourself. When you're shopping and you see something that you would wear that is what defines your style, not some word with a million misconceptions. If you like dark colors, skinny jeans, sweaters, etc. then that's what you should wear. It doesn't matter what other people think. If you're comfortable in something, then you should wear it. And don't be afraid to let your style change! As you grow, learn more, and change your style will likely change with it. I know mine definitely has. I have my own style now. In middle school, and the beginning of high school I wore what everyone else wore. Now I'm comfortable with myself and my style. You'll find that too, no matter what it is. Just remember that it's not a word that defines your style, it's what you wear and how you wear it. And if your bf doesn't like your style then maybe he's not the guy for you. And you can help your parents understand that those are all misconceptions. Good luck girlie, I hope this helps. If you need anything else, don't be afraid to ask.

Jess W.

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by Randafanna2 on 6/13/2011 4:35:27 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD A moderator advised me to go to a guidance counselor, but my school doesnt have one and the teachers arent very nice there. Do you know if its possible for me to go to another school's counselor? Or is there somewhere else I should go?

 

 

Hey chica! I'd ask your parents to make an appointment with a counselor in your neighborhood or city. They should be able to direct you to support groups as well!

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Becca G.

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by myclique on 5/1/2011 8:55:35 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I have had suicidal thoughts lately, and I've been really unhappy about my life for a while, I even used to cut myself. I think I should get help, but where do I go?

 

 

Hey girly! You definately, definately need to talk to someone. I'd start with a guidance counselor or teacher that you trust at school. And if you feel comfortable, talk to your parents about maybe seeing a therapist. It's totally normal, and not weird at all. And, it'll help!

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Becca G.

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by myclique on 5/1/2011 6:53:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD So the other day my sisters friend was over and they were outside and my dad said "hey girls, clean out the hot tub for me" and I said "I'm not cleaning that out!" (I'm the cleanest of the family so that didn't sound like a fun job at all) and my dad snapped back at me "you're never coopertive!" and I was so hurt hearing that from him! He's never said anything like that to me before and I just felt as if I'm not a good enough daughter for me. On my 13th birthday he said for me to come to breakfast and I said "hang on!" and he said "you've got an attitude now that you're a teenager." Which was not true because I said that everyday.Anyways when he said that I felt hurt all over again. When I told him it felt like the same thing he started laughing at me! Me and him had such a great relationship but I'm so mad and I feel like I'm just not a good enough daughter for him. My mom knows 'cause I've talked to her about it but I really don't wanna confront my dad! Help!!!

 

 

Hey girly, it sounds you definately have to confront your dad about this. I know you don't want to, but in order to get things squared away, it's pretty imperative. Try talking to him when no one else is around, and it's just the two of you. Let him know how important he is to you, and how much your relationship means to you. And, let him know exactly how you feel! Tell him exactly what you just told me. I promise, it's the only way to get your relationship to where you want it...

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Becca G.

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by kikidee12 on 4/23/2011 8:48:08 PM

 
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