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Ok, I'm pretty sure I'm emo because all the emo things are cool to me. I told my friends about what I think and said that I was going emo in High school and they were all fine with it except my bf. He got mad at me and said he hates emos and if I go emo he will hate my guts. I asked him why and it turns out his friend was emo and commited suicide. I wanted to be an emo that doesn't cut or isn't suicidal. I tried to explain that to him but he didn't listen so I dropped the emo subject. I still want to be emo but I have another problem. My parents. They know what emo is and I want to tell them about me going emo but I'm afraid how they will react. My dad thinks they are (sorry to all ppl like this) gay and my mom thinks they're depressing and are all suicidal. Same with my bf.
Help idk what to do bout the new me!
~Misunderstood

 

Hey girl! You're style should reflect you and it takes everyone a while to find their personal style. Being "emo" doesn't define a person, it's a type of style. You also shouldn't have a time line for your style and you don't just decide to do something like that. If you want to try a more "emo" look you should start now by adding a few things to your wardrobe. As your collection expands then you have defined your style. You also don't need to categorize yourself. When you're shopping and you see something that you would wear that is what defines your style, not some word with a million misconceptions. If you like dark colors, skinny jeans, sweaters, etc. then that's what you should wear. It doesn't matter what other people think. If you're comfortable in something, then you should wear it. And don't be afraid to let your style change! As you grow, learn more, and change your style will likely change with it. I know mine definitely has. I have my own style now. In middle school, and the beginning of high school I wore what everyone else wore. Now I'm comfortable with myself and my style. You'll find that too, no matter what it is. Just remember that it's not a word that defines your style, it's what you wear and how you wear it. And if your bf doesn't like your style then maybe he's not the guy for you. And you can help your parents understand that those are all misconceptions. Good luck girlie, I hope this helps. If you need anything else, don't be afraid to ask.

MOD MOD MOD I have had suicidal thoughts lately, and I've been really unhappy about my life for a while, I even used to cut myself. I think I should get help, but where do I go?