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I’m 14 and I don’t feel an attraction to guys. Every other girl my age either has a boyfriend or is looking for one. I think of guys as friends and have never felt a stronger connection than that. I’m also not into celebrities, and I don’t think of guys as “cute” or “hot.” I’m not a lesbian because I don’t feel an attraction to girls either. Is something wrong with me?
 
Dear Not Attracted,
Nothing is wrong with you. Some girls are more romantically driven than others, and many would say it’s good that you aren’t wasting your time on crushes or celebs. At some point, I’m sure you will meet someone and have feelings for that person. And frankly, time is on your side because as guys mature, they tend to become more crush-worthy anyway. And by the way, you’re not the only girl to feel this way.

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/7/2011 10:00:00 AM

POSTED IN life, dear carol, sexuality

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by rainbowssparklesdesu on 11/23/2012 1:13:29 PM

 
 

I don't really agree with this article.It said that one day she will meet someone and have feelings for them,but there is a chance that she could be asexual.

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by rainbowssparklesdesu on 11/23/2012 1:12:40 PM

 
 

MOD! so i have a huge crush on my friend (i'm a lesbian, she's bi.) In November, I told her about it, and she was really nice about it, she didn't care, we were still friends but not quite as good as before. a few days ago, I wrote her this not about how i feel, it was like 2 pages long. My friends said it was super cute. I gave it to her, and i even saw her read it, and she didn't talk to me at all! The note wasn't creepy or anything, I talked about how much i liked her and why, how she makes me feel, and how shes such a nice person and all. I feel like crap when she ignores me. should i talk to her about it? what should i say? please help, this sucks..



Hey girlie,

It may be that she's not really sure how she feels yet so she doesn't want to deal with it.  Let her know that you want to hear her thoughts, and that the way things are with you two right now makes you uncomfortable. Tell her that even if she doesn't feel the same way you just want to know so that you can deal with it.
Jordan S.

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by annarose4ever on 4/30/2012 7:06:46 PM

 
 

Also, there is such thing as asexuality. Aces are a very underrepresented group, but it's perfectly fine if you don't ever meet "the one".

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by The_Lorax on 3/15/2012 10:00:06 PM

 
 

It is perfectly normal chica!

Please visit my Advice Queen page! I really like to give advice to peeps Smile just post a question and i will answer it on your profile as soon as i see it.

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by basketballcutie11 on 12/23/2011 5:42:21 PM

 
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