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My parents only care about good grades


 

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All my parents care about are grades. Last report card, I got a C in math. I thought they were going to kill me. Whenever I try to talk to them about how I feel, they yell at me. My mom is not as bad as my dad. I know they care about my education, but they hurt my feelings.

Dear Sick of It,
If you want to tell them how you feel but can’t do it in a conversation, write it in a note. Did you get a good grade they forgot to praise? Say so. Tell them you want to hear when they’re proud, not just when they’re disappointed. But remember that they care about your education because they care about you and your future.

Might it help if you got a math tutor? Maybe a high school student can bring you up to speed over the summer, without charging too much. Your math teacher or guidance counselor can probably recommend someone. It is hard to excel in school when you feel pressure on all sides. But psych yourself up now for getting off to a strong start in September. Plan to move up to the front row, keep an organized assignment pad, find a quiet place to work, do your best, and your grades will go up, guaranteed. Not only will your parents be pleased, but you’ll feel good about it too.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 5/19/2011 9:00:00 AM

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That's the same exact way with my parents! I get straight A's all the time but sometimes I get sad because I feel like all they care about is me getting good grades. My sister is the superstar softball player in the family and they love watching her play but when it comes to me, I'm just the one who gets good grades and that's it.

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by michipie205 on 5/19/2011 5:29:18 PM

 
 

my parents really care about grades, but they're not super strict!

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by puppylover1152 on 5/19/2011 5:27:31 PM

 
 

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My BFF is making a big deal about me spending time with another BFF instead of her. i asked if we could privately and she said that she hates my bff. but she is taking her anger on me instead my other friend what do i do?!?!?

 

Hey girl,

I would tell your friend that she should not be mad at you for hanging out with your other friend. You are free to hang out with whoever you choose. I would just try to balance out time hanging out with both friends. If she is still giving you a hard time, I would give her some space.


 

danielle D.

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by izzyzing65 on 5/19/2011 3:54:49 PM

 
 

My parents care about my grades, but they aren't that strict about them.

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by nerdisthewurd26 on 5/19/2011 2:58:26 PM

 
 

mod mod mod,
I really need your help!! So in public speaking class, we have to do presentations that can be about ANYTHING! and we get a partner. So my friend and i have no idea what to do for our presentation! The day before I gave a "how to eat an oreo cookie" speech but I'm running out of ideas!! plz plz plz plz plz help! I need creative ideas. thankyou!

 

Hey Girlie,

I am not sure what your guidelines are for the speech, I would talk about a favorite activity or topic you are passionate about. You could also do a speech on how to do something you enjoy doing.


 

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by selenagomez on 5/19/2011 2:28:39 PM

 
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