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I really like this is one guy in my school, but he is a grade older than me and doesn't know I exist. I want to meet him, but I'm way too shy to bump into him or talk to him. What should I do?

Everyone has their own flirting style, whether you're super out-going and boy-crazy or shy and less confrontational, so the key is finding out how you feel comfortable approaching your crush.

Trick #1: Give him the "look". If you're too shy to chat up your boy in class or slip him your number on a napkin during lunch, try catching his eye and holding his gaze. When he sees you looking at him, a red flag will go up and he'll be sure to notice you in the future!

Trick #2: Head to that school-wide spring fling! Even if you had been planning to take a girls-night-in and have a slumber party with your buds, switch up you plans, throw on a glam dress and go dance! You're much more likely mingle with other grades after hours rather than during a stressful school day. 

Trick #3: Let him see you shine! Even if you're too scared to approach him, stand out by trying out for a role in your school play or by organizing that charity fundraiser. Putting yourself in the spotlight is sure to get you noticed!

BY KATIE BAKER ON 5/18/2011 9:00:00 AM

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#3 definetly works. I am in a JROTC program at my school so there are freshman, sophmores, juniors, and seniors. I don't know many people in the group but I just smile a lot and do extra activities for JROTC. I met so many people from the activitiews but a lot of people already knew me because they just saw me around and smiling so they remembered me even though I nevereven met them

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by skatefun on 5/18/2011 4:12:09 PM

 
 

This will be good for next year when i go to the same school as my crush!


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by taylorswiftfan1236 on 5/18/2011 3:57:50 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!! I like one of my friend's younger brother. She's 3 years older than me and her brother is my age. Next year she'll being going to college. I've always known him as her little brother. This last year I've had classes with both of them. My friend always asked how her bro is doing since school lately has been stressing him out, so I taken notice to him. He's a great guy. He just sees me as his sis' friend. Is it weird for me to like him? It worries me that my friend might think me strange to like her bro. She doesn't know I have a cruch on her bro. Should I like him or not? Help!!!!

Hey Girly,

There is absolutely nothing wierd about having a crush on your friend's brother, especially if he's as great a guy as you say he is. However, I would let your friend know that you have a crush on him. If she feels uncomfortable with your crush, then you know that it's not a good idea to pursue it any further, but if she's okay with it, then you will have a great wing girl. After all, she probably knows him better than a lot of other people.
Good Luck!


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by violins rule on 5/18/2011 2:52:01 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! ok so i have a similar problem but the thing that makes it worst is that i'm in 8th grade and he's in 9th so we're in totally diffrent buildings!! so i don't know how to get his attention. What do I do???

 

Hey Girly,

 

Do you have any friends a few grades older than you? You can totally find an excuse to go visit them at your guy's school. Maybe one of them can help you get a little closer to him.
 

Good Luck!


 

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by doglover14 on 5/18/2011 1:00:55 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!! i like this guy and hes a grade older. were in the same elective and my teacher put us in groups cuz we film videos in that class and he put me and him in the same group. but that was only for 1 project and now were in different groups. we talked but not ALOT and i want him to sign me yearbook and i want to sign his, if i sugn his would it be weird to put my number on it?

 

Hey chica. I wouldn't suggest putting your number in his yearbook because it might come off as a little strong. Instead, how about starting more conversations with him and taking it slow. Get to know each other and then offer him your number. Who knows, maybe he'll give you his first!

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