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The camp cutie likes my BFF, not me!


 
My best friend and I go to the same camp, and I like a guy who acts more interested in my BFF. She knows I like him, but she doesn’t seem to care about my feelings. How do I know when my friend has crossed the line?
 
Dear Confused at Camp,
A girl should never hit on her best friend’s boyfriend or go for a BFF’s ex right after a breakup. But when it comes to crushes, the lines are less clear. Are you truly upset with your friend—or are you upset with him for not noticing you or maybe even with yourself for feeling jealous? Think about it—would it really make sense for your friend to ignore a guy she seems to be clicking with just because you like him, too? Even if she were to completely shun him, it won’t ensure that you and he will ever get together.
 
My advice is to reach out to other campers. Meanwhile, you could admit to your friend that you’re envious but that you wish her luck. Camp will end—don’t let the friendship.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/7/2011 7:00:00 AM

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I have a problem...
I was at the movies with some friends; and also my crush. I was curious to know who he liked because it seemed as if he was interested in me. One of my closest friends offered to talk to him. She had ended up sitting very close next to my crush for the entire movie! She knows I like him but she can be a huge flirt sometimes. I later found out that my crush likes my close friend that had sat next to him!
What do I do

Hey girl, if you know he likes someone else, it's probably best to move on. Luckily it's summer, which means you won't have to see your crush at school everyday! When the new year rolls around, you won't even remember why you liked him Smile
Meghan D.

by sweeneybizzy85 on 6/22/2012 9:21:50 PM

 
 

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My BFF is going out with my crush! She knows I like him but she may have forgotten.she just recently moved here from Atlanta and they just recently started going out.my crush doesn't really know I like him and he doesn't really know me at all but she still knows I like him! I haven't talked to her about it yet though.what do I need to do?!



You gotta' talk to her, girl!

Tell her that you feel like it was a huge breach of your friendship for her to go and do this when she know about your feelings for him.

See where things go from there. Jordan S.

by Lily14 on 3/10/2012 3:56:28 PM

 
 

I can totally relate to that whole thing girl. But u will have to back off. I am sorry, but that is all the advice I have.

by char char on 3/2/2012 6:12:15 AM

 
 

can I get some advice about boy I like? By Sandra 2/24/12 11:01am

by sandra 2 on 2/24/2012 12:02:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
I have a BGF who is really sensitive and hates curse words. Only problem is he says hi to me all the time. This I find annoying. It has gotten to the point where I feel like giving him the middle finger whenever he says hi to me. What should I do?



 

Hey girl,

He's your friend and he's simply saying hello to you- why do you find this so annoying? Friends say hi to friends!

Kathryn S.

by Girlygirl/tomboy on 1/5/2012 12:16:31 PM

 
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