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My best friend and I go to the same camp, and I like a guy who acts more interested in my BFF. She knows I like him, but she doesn’t seem to care about my feelings. How do I know when my friend has crossed the line?
 
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A girl should never hit on her best friend’s boyfriend or go for a BFF’s ex right after a breakup. But when it comes to crushes, the lines are less clear. Are you truly upset with your friend—or are you upset with him for not noticing you or maybe even with yourself for feeling jealous? Think about it—would it really make sense for your friend to ignore a guy she seems to be clicking with just because you like him, too? Even if she were to completely shun him, it won’t ensure that you and he will ever get together.
 
My advice is to reach out to other campers. Meanwhile, you could admit to your friend that you’re envious but that you wish her luck. Camp will end—don’t let the friendship.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 6/7/2011 7:00:00 AM

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Hey girls! My name is Maggie and I just anted to let you know that if you ever need advice about anything or just want someone to talk to when you're sad...I'm here. I will help you get through rough times and help you to smile again Smile No question or topic is to weird...I promise I won't judge you. You can post on my profile anytime and I will write back asap. I will post back on your profile unless you want me to post on my own (let me know if you do) or your profile isn't publicly visible.

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by maggie183 on 6/7/2011 6:26:51 PM

 
 

I agree with GL fully on this.

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by thetruth on 6/7/2011 4:52:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!
Okay, my friend has a crush, but he likes me. I don't want to hurt her if her asks me out. Cuz if he does, I want to say yes because he is nice and so considerate! What should I do?




Hey girl,

   It's great to see how considerate you're being towards your friend's feelings.  In this tricky situation, communication is key.  If this boy does end up asking you out, you should express to him that you like him as a friend, but do not want to ruin your other friendship because it is too important to you.  Maybe you can drop a hint or two to this boy (without being too obvious!) that your friend is crushing on him. You could be the perfect matchmaker! Hope that helps! x0x0
Casey L.

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by nerdisthewurd26 on 6/7/2011 3:56:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
My family has decided to throw a surprise party for my dad for his birthday. We were going to print out the invitations, but something was wrong with our printer and they didn't print. When my dad got home he had to copy something and basically he fixed the printer and found out! He claims he hasn't seen the date yet, and I'm the only one that knows he found out! I don't know what to do! Should I tell my mom he found out or just keep on doing what we were doing before??
Thanks!

 

Hey Girl,

I'd say just keep on doing what you were doing before. Most people figure out when a surprise party is in the works, anyway. I'm sure it's not a big deal that he knows it's coming up!

Kelly H.

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by babygirlilla on 6/7/2011 1:03:46 PM

 
 

OMG! That happens ALL THE TIME to me!!

Frown Frown Frown

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by LuvYaBunches on 6/7/2011 12:19:42 PM

 
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