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I like this guy and I’m pretty sure he likes me, too. The problem is that his friends and I are like night and day. I literally couldn’t get along with them if my life depended on it. Apparently he was going to ask me out, but his friends talked him out of it. I have no clue what to do!
 
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If you can’t stand his friends, that’s not a good sign. Think about why you like him and why you don’t like the guys he hangs out with. Just because you are attracted to a guy’s looks or smile doesn’t mean you two would make it as a couple. Proceed with caution. After all, you want to see eye to eye with a BF, not get lost in his eyes.
 
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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 8:31:20 AM

 
 

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Should I not talk to him? Drew is also my exboyfriends best friend but my ex has clearly moved on. He doesn't even really want to talk to me. So should I stop talking to drew? Should I tell my friend I sorta like him? And when is a good time to start talking to an ex. He hurt me badly but I miss him.




Hey girl, I think you need to give the ex thing some time until you're over it emotionally. Believe it or not, space helps you get over it. As for Drew, you don't have to stop talking to him; I'd just be careful not to flirt with him. Stay on the friend line for now and be conscious of what you say to him. Make sure you aren't using him to just rise your own self esteem up or as a filler for what your ex used to be.

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by Music101music on 6/21/2011 10:15:44 PM

 
 

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Okay so my boyfriend(no exboyfriend) broke up with me about 4 weeks ago right before school ended and I don't have many guy friends but I do have this one drew. And I have liked drew numerous of time. He is a nice sweet guy. Well the thing is I'm talking to him right now and my friend has brought to my attention that i shouldn't be flirting because my one friend really likes him. The thing is I'm starting to like him again and I was flirting and I think he was too. I am not sure if he is my rebound guy because he is who I started liking after my exboyfriend broke up with me for the first time. I am not sure what to do. I don't have many guy friends and don't have a Way to get to know a guy since it's summer and I need someone to get my mind off my exboyfriend. What should I do about drew? I flirt and like him but my friend likes him. HELP!




Hey girl, it sounds like this BGF may just be an emotional rebound from your ex, which isn't very fair to him or your friend who likes him. I'd step back for now. I think while it's harder, you shouldn't be looking for someone to distract you from your broken heart, you should be letting it heal. It's definitely not fair to use your guy friend to do that and it's important to realize too when you cross that friend-more-than-friend line, it's very hard to go back to being friends if things don't work out.

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by Music101music on 6/21/2011 9:41:32 PM

 
 

hey girlies! i have a questionn... ok so heres the thing...im 14 and going into hs next year. theres this sophmore i really like. hes so so sweet and funny and hes just like, the perfect guy for me. EXCEPT he smokes&drinks. hes always trying to get me to drink with him when we hang out. idk hes just like"c'mon, it really doesn't matter if you have a LITTLE bit of alcohol." idk what im really asking, its just that i feel bad for always saying no and wanted to hear that i was doing the right thing& wondering if anyone could relate at all. thanks soooo much!!(:

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by paigedelainey on 6/19/2011 7:47:12 PM

 
 



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Okay so recently i think I found love for the first time because I've never felt this way about a guy before. I just purposely go to the bathroom during 5th period because he's always outside. I want to ask him out and we only have 2 days of school left and I don't know if there would be a point too... I really like him like more than anyone else I've gone out with! Advice? Help? Anything would be appreciated thanks!!~




Hey babe! I don't know if I would call that love, but definitely a serious crush! If you're able to see him over the summer, even just at the pool or at the movie theatre then go for it! Ask him out! I hope he likes you too! Just ask him out casually and hopefully he'll be into you too! Good luck girlie! 
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