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I like this guy and I’m pretty sure he likes me, too. The problem is that his friends and I are like night and day. I literally couldn’t get along with them if my life depended on it. Apparently he was going to ask me out, but his friends talked him out of it. I have no clue what to do!
 
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If you can’t stand his friends, that’s not a good sign. Think about why you like him and why you don’t like the guys he hangs out with. Just because you are attracted to a guy’s looks or smile doesn’t mean you two would make it as a couple. Proceed with caution. After all, you want to see eye to eye with a BF, not get lost in his eyes.
 
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Hey girls!!! if you need advice on anything and everything, you can comment on my profile and i will reply ASAP. Smile i am on GL everyday. (i usually go on GL 3 to 4 times a day) i won't judge you and nothing is too personal Smile

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by Bethapus on 6/15/2011 5:04:00 PM

 
 

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Alright, so tomorrow, i'm going to a movie with my bf. It's going to be the last time I see him, probably ever, since he's moving really far away. It's also the day before his birthday. I want to buy/make him something as a present, but I have no clue what! Any ideas? Thanks sooo muvh!

 

Hey babe! It's so sweet of you to want to get him something. I think a homemade gift will mean a lot to him. You said he was moving far away, you could find fabric with a map of the US and put little dashes from where you are to where he is and make that into a pillow! Or you can make him vouchers that say things like, "One Long Phone Call Whenever You Feel Like It" or "One Hug/Kiss" or "One Birthday Skype Date." You can also make him cards for his new firsts. Like his first new friend, or his first A on a test or paper at his new school, or things like that.  When he opens them to read them the can say things like you're so proud of him for working so hard to get an A, or how you know it's hard meeting new people but just remember that he's an amazing person, just stay confident and he'll have so many new friends! I know you're going to miss each other but this can be something to remember you by.  If you want to be really over-the-top you can make him a gift basket of all or some of these things with his favorite candies, movies, books, and maybe a picture of the two of you. Keep a picture for yourself too! Good lick girlie! Hope this helps!

Jess W.

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by pandagirl21 on 6/14/2011 9:12:39 AM

 
 



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so I've been dating this guy, Derek, for a while, but now whenever I see him, he just ignores me and hangs out wit his friends or flirts with other girls.. does this mean I'm getting played? and what are good ways to avoid awkwardness? he's my neighbor.. /: well, thanks soo much!!




Hey girl,

Hmm...that doesn't sound much like dating to me! Personally, I'd probably get him one-on-one and ask him (maturely, not in an angry or confrontational way) if he really wants to be dating you at all. If not, it's better just to cut things off now so you both aren't wasting your energy. You should be with somebody who wants to talk to you, hang out with you, get to know you better, hang out with your friends, etc. If you're barely in contact with them, they're hardly the BF you deserve! So be honest with him and let him know you're kinda disappointed with how things are going. Then, he can either choose to turn things around and stay together, or break things off so you both can do your own thing Smile
Lauren C.

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by lish22 on 6/14/2011 12:39:18 AM

 
 

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so my boyfriend and i text alot because i havnt told my parents yet so we cant exactly see each other since schools over. The other day he said that his phone was about to die so he would text me later. he never texted me back that day. or the next. i texted him on the second day and he responded right away. was he ignoring me? and then later when we were having a conversation he just stopped texting me entirely without an explination which he never does. i feel really silly like im making a big deal out of nothing. we have been going out for a month today and he has never done anything like this. idk what to do! please help thanks!

 

Hey girlie! It's probably rough not being able to see him and you should probably talk to your parents. If you want to meet up with him go somewhere public like the pool or to a movie. I wouldn't make a big deal out of him not texting you back. He was probably just distracted or something. If it continues to happen, and more often, just ask him about it. Don't make it into something that it's not though. Or if you want to keep texting him ask him a question and if he still doesn't respond he probably just doesn't have his phone on him, not that he's ignoring you.  Good luck!

Jess W.

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by dancingchick on 6/13/2011 12:12:29 PM

 
 

Mod! So I like a guy friend of mine that I only get to see like twice a year and he is like 2 yrs older than me! But anyway his mom and him saw I had a game after he was done with his. So they sat by my mom. That inning I was doing horrible, I had no idea what to do with the ball. My dad is coach and he kept screaming and after like 10 minutes I started crying on the field but you couldn't really tell until my dad started yelling "SUCK IT UP!! Stop your crying and play ball like I know you can"!! I was sooo embarassed and now I get see my crush finally afetr like a year on 4th of July because his family is a part of a group we camp with, so how am I going to face him? Hep me!!

 

Hey girl, I answered you question on your other post, so just refer to that! Good luck!

Jess W.

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by brenlxl on 6/13/2011 10:25:12 AM

 
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