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Bust your shy rep around guys


 
Guys ignore me, saying they don't want to go out with a “shy girl.” Thing is, I'm outgoing at home and with buds.
 

Dave: Rather than slink into your shell when around guys, pretend you’re kicking back at home with friends. You’ll be in the same comfort zone at school as in your very own den.

 
Bill: There’s always a good guy looking for someone with substance. Maybe you’ll find your BF in a shy guy. You know, the one you always ignore?
 
 

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MOD- I`m extremely shy around boys and I can`t seem to get ANY guys to notice me :[ I`m really small so I feel like I`m invisible to guys. Help any advice?
-Scarletwitch

 

Im sure youre known as the quiet nice girl. Maybe try helping the guy you like and just be the helpful nice girl. Then by breaking out of your shell slowly youll become more confortable with him and he'll start to notice. Take small steps. Help guys with class and slowly youll come out of your shell. Good luck! xoxo kerra 


Kerra S.

by Scarletwitch on 1/3/2012 6:50:42 PM

 
 

I`m a really shy person, and very short, I feel as if I`m invisible to guys, I have bio with my crush, and I really want him to notice me, any advice?

by Scarletwitch on 1/3/2012 6:45:25 PM

 
 



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hey! brittney g! what r some things i can do around this guy too show him i only like him as a friend (he doesnt like me but heard tht i liked him)
Gretchen




Hey Gretchen! Make sure you don't unintentionally flirt with him, and only talk about things on a friend level. You can also tell him how much of a good friend he is, so he won't get the wrong idea. Hope this helps!




-Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by gretchen12 on 10/4/2011 11:28:14 PM

 
 



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So this guy heard tht i liked him. (i told a friend and i wasnt thinking straight cuz now i dont really like him). he acted really quiet around me but then after we hung out on fri (our moms had this church thing.. so we had too) he invited me too hang out the next day. i couldnt but now its two weeks later and i want too invite him too do something with me and my friend (bike or whatever) but i want him too know i just want too b friends. im not sure if he likes me but its a possibility scince he did flirt before (i bet he duznt like me though). how can i invite him in a friendly way and do u think he likes me (:/)
thx
p.s we havent known eachother for long and were not really friends! Laughing




Just invite him to hang out! He may only like you as a friend, so don't stress about it too much!




-Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by gretchen12 on 10/4/2011 10:56:55 PM

 
 

MODDDDDD! sorry to bother you, but there's this guy i've liked ever since last year. we were friends and at homecoming i asked him who he liked and he said they had orange hair, blue eyes, and a big head. i have orange hair and blue eyes, but im not sure if he was talking about me or not and i never found out. so do you think he was hinting it was me, or was it just a coincidence? and if it was me, is there a way to tell if they're still there? thanks a bunch! Smile

 

Hey chica, sounds like he was hinting at you. I would try and talk to him and ask for his number, he probably still likes you. Smile

Lynae P.

by drpeppa23 on 9/3/2011 7:38:18 PM

 
 



Modmodmod ok theres this guy I really like and my cousins think he likes me he always trys to hang out with me but I dont know if I should tell him thanks soo much!




Hey girl!

If you think you've got a shot, then go ahead and let him know! There's no way but talking for him to figure out ya dig him, so be a sweetie and speak up. 
Sarah G.

by Hellokittypinky123 on 8/19/2011 3:38:53 PM

 
 



MODMODMOD A guy I've been texting says he wants to hang out before school starts. He's said he wanted to hang out before but never told me a date or a place. I'm really shy though so I'm not sure if I should arrange a place and date for us to hang out or just wait for him to even though he didnt the last time. What should I do? We're not dating so I dont want it to be awkward. Help!




Hey girlie, hang out with him! Get lunch together at a restaurant or something. It won't be awkward if you're already friends. 
Lauren T.

by incognitogirl95 on 8/11/2011 4:45:33 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD. i really need your advice. so this guy i really like asked me out but he lied to me so i said no. but, now i feel like i made a HUGE mistake... i dont know what to do...

 

 

Hey girly! In my opinion, it depends on what he lied to you about, and how important it was to you. Lying in any form isn't a good sign. However, you need to ask yourself whether it's something you can get over.... like a little white lie. Or, something that'll always be in the back of your mind.

xxx

 

 

 

Becca G.

by xXChristelXx on 7/23/2011 11:40:43 PM

 
 



MOD! this SUPER hot guy was camping w/ us a few weeks ago. He was very very shy, but only around me. Could that mean that he likes me?!?!?! help!




Helen S.

by W.E.C.T on 7/23/2011 8:06:41 PM

 
 

Hey guys! I have a question, and if someone could answer it on my prifile that would be awesome! I can answer a question for you if you want. (In return) My question is about boys, so hopefully you are good with this stuff! Hahh(:

So there is this boy, I know he likes me. But as a friend. But he is kind of quiet about his feelings sort of. And we were in a big group playing truth or dare, so I don't know if he just said he liked me. (The question was "Who do you like?- and it has to be someone here" and he said exactly "Tricia- but as a friend." [FYI: Tricia is my name!]) And I'm just nervous if I say that I like him that will just be awkward. But the times that my group and his group hang out we usually play truth or dare so should I ask then? Or could you give me some ideas that you have? Thanks a lot!
•SuperrGirliie•

by SuperrGirliie on 7/23/2011 1:06:58 AM

 
 

I was just at a summer science camp and met this amazing guy. We hung out all the time and everyone knew we liked each other. He told me he likes me and I told him the same thing. He also gave me a kiss on the cheek the last day. I have his number and he has mine, but we haven't defined things. So how often should we talk and how so we make a relationship work?

by lucy408 on 7/22/2011 4:53:36 PM

 
 



MOD! MOD! MOD!
At my school, they have 2 teams for each grade. Both teams only meet at lunch. What if my crush ends up on the other team when we had 3 classes together last year? If we're on different teams, we'll have no classes what's-so-ever. I mean we do the same school activities (like chorus and select choir), but I feel our friendship might begin to fade. He's one of the nicest guys I've ever met and I don't wanna lose him. I feel myself around him and I can talk to him about pretty much everything. Please and thank you <3




Hey babe! I answered you're other post, so check that one out! xoxo 
Jess W.

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by angie333 on 7/21/2011 12:59:56 AM

 
 



MOD! I have always had trouble flirting. I really don't understand how to do it, everytime I try the boys look at me really weird Frown! Help Please.




Helen S.

by everstarr13 on 7/20/2011 7:42:54 PM

 
 

words of advice for you ladies...

theeres noo need to be shy around guys, let alone a guy you like. Smilei knoww the first time chatting with them can be a little awkward, but don't get marked as a 'shy girl' by a guy you could actually really like. Act as if you were around your bestfriends, and you'll the guys mackinn on ya in no time. Smile

goodluck ladies <3

by bandobrowneyes on 7/19/2011 9:59:32 PM

 
 

Lol this is not like me I like the shy and dark and mysterouis types of guys. I'm like that too but a little more open and preppy.
Who agrees that the type of guy I like is the best kind.

by cre8tive_2114 on 7/19/2011 7:36:05 PM

 
 



Mod
I'm going into 7th grade and I'm wondering if that is the time to get a boyfriend? I've never had a boyfriend before and I was wondering what would be the appropriate time to get one? Thanks!




It all depends on you as a person and your parents 




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by MusikRox1999 on 7/19/2011 7:25:50 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD!!! Jess W.
Hey have u deleted my club yet? Thx and srry im being impatient




Jess W. isn't working right now, I'm sorry




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by TeamAlice33 on 7/19/2011 5:38:29 PM

 
 



MOD... This boy in my class thinks its ok too call me shy. Its really starting to bug me and he keeps telling me its an inside joke when its just us. Im getting really annoyed and a couple days ago he wrote on my facebook profile "Stop being so quiet." How can i stand up too him? Help!




Tell him that it's makes you uncomfortable when he calls you that and that you'd appreciate it if he'd stop




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by mandygal on 7/19/2011 5:13:03 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD********(from previous comments)
when i think about ending it with anthony it makes me feel bad because he says he loves me and i know he means it. i havent really seen him this summer but the couple times i have it was brief awkward moments and idk if we actually spent more time around each other if it would get better. because its weird that i have mood swings with whether or not i want to be with him.




Hey girl,

So then maybe you should wait until you and him can spend more time together to see if you actually want to stay with him or not. x0x0
Casey L.

by nobody25 on 7/19/2011 11:32:13 AM

 
 

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are lip plumpers safe? and if so i want to make my lips really full! where can i get a really good lip plumper? my budget is to $18. thanks! Smile




Hey girl,

As far as I know, lip plumping lipstick/gloss is totally fine. Don't trust more "medical" looking types of plumpers because they're pretty much all scams, but those that give the illusion of a fuller lip are totally worth it! Try Pur Minerals Pout Plumping Lipgloss (which you can usually get for around $16) to see how it works!
Lauren C.

by j4zm09 on 7/18/2011 11:29:06 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!
Lately, my friend "B" and I haven't been doing well. She has changed alot, not in a good way, tho! She's never open to communication anymore and never takes anyone elses input.
She's saying mean things all the time about people. Then she goes and acts all innocent about them.
She used to be a girl who always took what her friends said seriously and listened to them. Now it's all about her!
How do I end the friendship nicely????




Hey girlie,

To end a friendship without a huge blow-up, the best thing to do is just drift apart. Hang out with her less and less over the course of a month or two. (Surround yourself with your other friends so you aren't closing yourself off from everyone!) And try not being as available or chatting as much online/via text. Don't be mean - there's no reason to do that. But her behavior isn't something that is healthy for you since it's stressing you out/making you upset, so this might give her the hint that she's done something to distance you.
Lauren C.

by fungirl123 on 7/18/2011 7:05:41 PM

 
 

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I feel like no one from my church likes me. I know they do and I know I have true friends there. But I still feel like I'm not excepted there. It's a new feeling. Don't say you are excepted there because that won't help. How can I know that they actually like me there?




Hey girl,

You can't just walk up to someone and be like, "Excuse me, do you like me? Ok good...but are you sure?" There isn't a sure-fire way to know if someone likes you, but by being yourself, staying involved, and putting others before yourself, you'll show everyone at church all of your best qualities. And if you have friends there that you talk to on a regular basis, hang out with, or say hello to when you see them at church/around town, you know you're doing just fine Smile
Lauren C.

by justadream11 on 7/18/2011 6:50:51 PM

 
 

I am so shy around people i don't know! I'm afraid i will look like an idiot! What sucks is I'm going to high school next year, and i know one person besides the kids in my class. I hate most of them. Rofl. On top of that i hate my hair and look. LoL!!!

by lizzyd12 on 7/18/2011 5:16:48 PM

 
 


i have the oppisite problem, i get nervous so i am really loud and kinda annoying, so people think im weird and crazy so they dont like me... how do i fix this!!!

by skycae on 7/18/2011 5:01:47 PM

 
 

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also we have teams at school and each team has a different set of teachers. all my friends are on different teams and jake is on one where my friends are on too. i think i can switch to that team. should i? thaanks!!




Hey girl,

If you would feel a lot more comfortable being with your friends, then do it. But, just remember that you can totally make new friends on the team you're on now, and you can always see your other friends another time. x0x0 
Casey L.

by nobody25 on 7/18/2011 3:41:02 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD*!!!!
ok so i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now but i've also liked my best friend for almost a year and never stopped. i dont know what to do because i feel totally comfortable with jake (best friend) and awkward with anthony (boyfriend). Jake just broke up with his girlfriend and I've been thinking about breaking up with anthony for a week now. I don't know if Jake would ever like me though cuz hes a HUGE flirt but he's completely loyal in relationships. he always sends me smiley faces when we text and thanked me for sticking up for him when everyone was hard on him for breaking up with his ex. he said it made everything better. what should i do? my friend said i shouldnt be thinking about this cuz he makes me smile and laugh whenever i talk to him but its not like that with my bf. HELPPPP!!!! thank you!!! Laughing




 Hey girlie,

It sounds like you're not really into your current relationship, but that's not necessarily because of jake. If you're having feelings for someone else or just don't feel comfortable around your bf, it's not really fair to him to keep dating. You might wanna reconsider your relationship with anthony, and take jake out of the picture for now. Think about if there was no jake, would you still feel awkward with anthony, or would you be happier? If you're not happy now or don't feel comfortable in the relationship, you should probably end it. Once you've ended things, you can sort out your feelings for Jake more clearly. Good luck! x0x0
Casey L.

by nobody25 on 7/18/2011 3:39:34 PM

 
 

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by sweetooth on 7/18/2011 2:48:08 PM

 
 



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This article is really great, thanks! The problem is though, is that I am not only shy around guys, I'm shy around everyone at school. Is it too late to change my reputation? Also, if I can still change this around, do you have any tips to talk to guys or just anyone? It's really hard for me to be myself around people, I don't know why!




Hey girlie! It's never too late to change your rep! The best (and only) way to talk to people is just to breath and be confident. Seriously, if you believe you can do it, you can! I swear. Have the confidence in yourself and everything you want to accomplish, you can. I know it sounds cheesy, but it really works.  xoxo
Jess W.

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by wenhua9 on 7/18/2011 1:46:00 PM

 
 




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I have this EXACT same problem, I'm soo quiet and shy around everyone at school (girls+boys) but super outgoing and loud around my BFFs and family. I know this one guy at school who even refers to me as 'the one that can't talk'! I really want to be comfortable around everyone at school too, and I'm even starting high school this year, but all my life EVERYONE knows me as being shy. I'm trying to talk more, but every time I see someone from school or a cute guy, I automatically go on shy mode. Can you please help me?




Hey babe! You just need to relax, stop worrying about saying something wrong or embarrassing yourself. Just be you and everything will be fine! Check out these posts:

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/05/16/How-to-be-the-life-of-the-party.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/07/13/Bust-your-shy-rep-around-guys.aspx

http://www.girlslife.com/post/2010/12/07/Too-shy-to-chat.aspx  
Jess W.

by bublz714 on 7/18/2011 1:15:01 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! Hi. I e-mailed GL about having my club deleted but I don't think you got it so could you please delete my The Chronicles of Vladimir Tod Fan Club! for me?







I'll get right on that babe! 
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by TeamAlice33 on 7/18/2011 12:54:25 PM

 
 

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by artistchic99 on 7/18/2011 12:53:33 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD i really like this guy, but im not sure what his age is. if its above 10th grade, then i dont wanna go for it cause thats too old for me!! if he is, how can i stop liking him? and also, i got my period and it seems like every time i get it i stain all my clothes AND my face breaks out. it sucks. how can i keep my flow under control and keep my face clear?




Hey babe! A lot of girls get break outs during or before their period, it totally sucks. You just have to clean your face every morning and night. There's not much else you can do. Also, don't touch your face. The natural oils on your hands plus all the bacteria you acquire throughout the day is killer on your face! To keep your period under control try switching your pads or tampons more often. Just stay on top of it and it should be fine. Good luck! xoxo 
Jess W.

by karategirl78 on 7/18/2011 12:06:35 PM

 
 

Hey Girlies! Visit my advice queen page for advice on- everything! I will answer absolutely any question you have the same day it shows up on my page. Don’t be afraid to ask anything, because I’m here for you Smile
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by allyson1124 on 7/18/2011 11:03:32 AM

 
 



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I'm going on vaca soon, to a caribean island getaway. Its like a huge resort with walls all around it so you see the same people almost everyday. There is like a teen club where theres dancing and since I'm not going to be bringing any friends my age, I'm going to have to make friends there or at the beach. When you approach a group of teenage guys/girls in like a dance club or on the beach, and your alone. What should I say to them? To intoduce myself without sounding dorky? Help! I really want to make friends and possibly meet a cute guy on this trip..




Hey babe! If you're on the beach and there is a group of people your age ask them if they want to play frisbee or beach volleyball or something. Then ask them what they're doing that night and see if they want to check out the teen dance club. This is a greta and super easy way to meet new people. That way you won't have to go to the dance club alone.  Good luck! xoxo
Jess W.

by dramasistah23 on 7/18/2011 10:43:40 AM

 
 

The guys in the picture are hot! lol i had to say it!

by nerdisthewurd26 on 7/18/2011 10:39:24 AM

 
 



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PLS PLS PLS answer this!!!
Last year I was friends with alot of guys but some guys wanted to date me but thought I was dating one of my guy friends that's why barely anyone asked me last yeae,What can I do 2 let guys no I'm available without just saying it.




Hey babe! If you're flirty and your normal self guys will automatically know that you're available. It's really simple. Besides, word probably got around of your breakup, so I wouldn't worry about guys not knowing you're a free agent. xoxo 
Jess W.

by Lalainya on 7/18/2011 8:52:12 AM

 
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