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I like girls. Should I tell someone?

 

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I like girls, but I’ve never told anybody. I’m so confused. I don’t know if I should talk about it or if I should keep it a secret. What do you think I should do?

 

Unfortunately, sweetie, there’s not one single way to handle this dilemma. Dishing on your sexuality is a very personal thing, so I can’t tell you to flat-out keep quiet or start talkin’. You need to decide what feels right for you.

 

If you’re still confused about what you’re feeling, talking about it confidentially might be a big help. Consider speaking with a school counselor, a therapist, a trusted adult or your BFF. Simply speaking about what’s going through your head can help you figure out what you want to do on your own. Don’t have a person to confide in? Try writing in a journal. Sorting your thoughts out on paper can help untangle your thoughts.

 

When (and if) you decide that you’re ready to tell people, consider if you want to come out publicly or privately to a few close friends and family members. Remember, babe: The decision is entirely up to you. Don’t let anyone force you to keep quiet or be anyone other than who you are.

 

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by dramaticstar on 1/8/2013 9:47:08 AM

 
 


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by fashionqn on 10/11/2012 4:53:19 PM

 
 



okay MODDDDD
last year i was in the school play with my friend (lets call her J) We met two guys and a girl (N, (boy), K, (boy,) and B. (Girl) ) We have been friends with the girl B but not really K and N. I had a dream when i was dating the gut N and its so weird and embarrasing! am i going nuts HELP!

 

Hey pandasrock292, no I've had dreams about liking my friends before. it probably doesn't mean anything girl. No worries. Xoxo 


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by pandasrock292 on 9/30/2012 11:52:33 AM

 
 



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I had a dream where i met a guy, and i remember every detail of the dream, exactely what he ooked like, where i was, who else was there, etc. I had the dream, like, 4 months ago, and i cant stop thinking about it, and it repeats sometimes too. Does it mean something, or am i just crazy?




Hey girlie,

You're not crazy Smile it's normal to remember a dream that was awesome! And it's even normal to wish it was real. You probably pictured this guy because he has all the characteristics you'd LOVE to find in a real guy, so it's ok to relive the dream and enjoy it...as long as you don't let it interfere with your actual life. Dreams can be awesome sometimes, but they aren't real - so try to learn something from this dream that could help in real life! Maybe something about this guy could help you in your own search for the "perf" guy? If you learn something and apply it to your real life, it could make you think less about the dream! <3
Lauren C.

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by ColosalMascara on 3/3/2012 6:06:07 PM

 
 

I don't APPROVE of people being gay, but i dont get all ew your gay. If i had a frend who was gay, id still be frends with them.

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