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Dear Nervous,

That’s understandable. But you’ve made friends before and you’ll do it again. Say “hi,” smile, remember name, don’t talk too much about how great your old friends are and sign up for after-school activities—theater, newspaper, sports. Working with others on projects or in teams makes for easier bud-bonding opportunities. And in your attempt to be social, don’t let your schoolwork slip. Talk to teachers if you feel lost or if you’re at a different level than the rest of your class.

 

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Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help! Smile
~Lexi♥

by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:27:52 PM

 
 

Hey everyone! If you ever feel like you don't fit in and want to talk to like minded people, then join my club Fringe Society! We can help you with any problems school or otherwise...thanks

by #1puppylover on 8/5/2011 7:25:12 PM

 
 



MOD!MOD!MOD!
OK so school will be starting soon and my nerves are starting to get to me.Since i'm afraid I am gonna end up in a class with the guy i have a crush on(Since the ending of 5th grade)and plus he knows I like him.Also I think in 8th grade you study U.S History,and i'm the worst at history.I have no clue what to do.I don't feel like the world's gonna end but I feel like it's halfway there, but only for me! Frown




hey! it's only natural to feel nervous, but a positive attitude is half the battle toward a great year. If you think thought's like, "I'm gonna study hard and ace history, then you'll be more inclined to try harder than if you're already worried about failing. trust yourself girl, you can do it! 
Helen S.

by jazzyrock2213 on 8/3/2011 6:39:57 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
I'm going to be a sophomore in high school this year. Last year, I went to a private high school for the first semester and hated it, so my parents homeschooled me for the second half of the year. Then, they decided I wasn't getting enough social time, so they're having me enroll in another private high school this year. They just told me this morning and school starts the 25th, so I'm SUPER overwhelmed. A couple questions: 1. What's your advice on making new friends? I only know one girl at the school. 2. Do you think I'll be the only one who doesn't know their way around the building the first week? 3. How do I deal with the stress of it all?
Thanks so much, MOD! (:




Hey babe,

1. Be yourself - the best version of yourself possible! It's natural to be nervous on your first day, especially at a brand new school. But that doesn't mean you can't chat with your classmates, go to a new table and ask if you can sit with a friendly-looking group for lunch, or get involved in a new club/sport after school. All of these things will help you become more comfy in the school environment while also making friends!




2. No way! There are other newbies there too, even if you don't meet any of them. Just remember that no school is actually difficult to get around - it just seems that way since you've never been before. You can use this to your advantage though - this is a perf a way to start a convo with someone! Tell them you're looking for Room #___, then say you're new so if they could give you tips on finding your way around, you'd really appreciate it. Remember to smile and be confident (without being pushy).




3. Just breathe! Like I said, it's totally normal to be nervous at first. But once you make it to your classes and you realize that the school day doesn't last forever, you'll start to relax. Once you start chatting with your classmates and realizing that you can make friends if you try a little bit, you'll settle in. You can do it!!
Lauren C.

by mrsabbyjonas13 on 8/1/2011 6:24:57 PM

 
 

Well, I'm not the new girl in town, but I am going to a new school. I'm going into high school and it's my first I'm attending a public school. I'm not nervous but I am a little shy. Any tips.

by juicylaughs19tr on 8/1/2011 5:07:15 PM

 
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