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BY CAROL WESTON ON 8/2/2011 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN bust my bestie problem, bad friend, dear carol solves BFF probs, growing apart, how can I make new friends, I'm feeling left out, advice from Carol Weston
by amber31207 on 6/26/2012 11:29:01 AM
by soulgymnast on 5/26/2012 10:18:42 AM
by Abby774 on 5/24/2012 8:31:43 PM
i've had that problem before. it really stinks! wat u need to do is get out of that bad realationship and find a new friend
by the cupcake queen:) on 5/14/2012 2:15:50 PM
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My bff and i have been bffs for 3 yrs. Last year we became friends with another girl who is great also. But lately my bff has been acting weird. She is fine when we are alone like we are on the same page. But when its us and other people, its like she has to always say she knows what theyre talking about, like she has to prove she knows everything which is weird to me since shes never done it before with me. I finally got the couarage to tell her what i thought and we were both very calm. i thought she understood but shes continued with her behavior. also, which this is more imortant, she snaps her fingers in my face or waves things in my face which i hate and have asked her countless times to stop but she continues. she knows it freaks me out. also, i feel like she likes our new bff more sometimes so i feel kinda depressed about that, almost betrayed. what should i do since ive talked to her about the first two issues?
Hey kaboodle, mhmm I wonder why your friend is acting like this. Since you’ve already talked to her, your actions have to show what you’re feeling. So when she starts snapping or waving things in your face, either ignore her or get up and walk away. Doing things like that will show her how annoyed you are, and hopefully she’ll stop. Hope this helps! Xoxo
by kaboodle on 4/28/2012 3:13:08 PM
by Hillary123 on 3/5/2012 12:13:53 PM
by Malia23 on 2/10/2012 8:49:27 PM
Ok so my friends were friends before I came in the picture.. and now my friend Macie is like going over the top on bullying. Like they call her Blondel and retard and I always stuck up for her but today at the ouch table ot went too far. They were calling her a b and eventually made her cry I told her ill stick up for her always and go to the consoled but why do they think there better than her. I want to just record what there saying and let them listen to see that there being b s but what do I do to help her?!
by darkness605 on 2/7/2012 7:30:49 PM
by nerdykitty97 on 2/7/2012 6:27:13 PM
by FrenchRose on 1/14/2012 10:28:50 PM
by mary321654987 on 12/14/2011 8:32:26 PM
by catluverforlife on 11/18/2011 3:55:49 PM
by chick987 on 10/26/2011 8:10:20 PM
by bri017 on 10/17/2011 8:28:28 AM
Sounds like innerbauty12 and my BFF.
by EQC123 on 10/14/2011 3:35:13 PM
by abigail is awesome ;) on 10/14/2011 11:06:36 AM
I was friends with a girl from grades 1 through 6. then she was really nice (she is afraid of being mean) and told these girls that she didnt like that they could hang out with us, well then they became besties and then they pushed me to the side. Last year (7 grade) i was lost without her. I didnt know what to do. that entire group of girls ignored me and just dissed me a ton that year. Now i have found a new group of friends but i just dont want to let go of my bestie. she is the only one of that group that is still nice to me. I don't want to let her go but i don't want to get hurt by her and her vicious friends again like last year. Because they started it then the boys continued the teasing and it still has not stopped. It strikes evveryday. They find something, anything, to nark me about. Let's just say it kinda sorta stinks. I miss the elementary years where it didnt matter what you looked like or the friends you had. Everyone was friends woth everyone! Please Help me!!!!!! :/
by MusicGirl39 on 10/13/2011 5:13:06 PM
by raceagainstthemachine on 10/7/2011 4:20:51 PM
by mysterygirl17 on 9/28/2011 8:28:08 PM
MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! I have so much to get of my chest and talk about but no one to tell it to. its having a real affect on me. The one person i trusted the most...i feel betrayed me. I dont what to do.
Hey girly girl! It might be a good idea to start a journal. That way, you can get everything off of your chest and won't feel like anyone is judging you. If you want to talk to a real person, though, I'd talk to a guidance counselor or teacher that you trust at school!
by heyppl123 on 9/18/2011 10:48:19 PM
by partyy like a rockstar on 9/17/2011 9:29:09 PM
by peaceandlove1010 on 9/14/2011 8:57:23 PM
by svds on 9/14/2011 6:56:09 PM
by mozilla10 on 9/13/2011 7:25:55 AM
Hi! Hey, I just got an email from one of my besties, and it said, "I just looked at the pottery we painted at K's party. Some of it is messy (meaning urs)". I think she , is mad at me, because I hang out with another one of my and her besties, A. My mom invited A over to make cookies on Friday, and H heard about it, and I think shes mad bc I didnt invite her. She doesnt know that A was invited by my Mom, not me. She probably will get K, a 3rd bestie to side with her, bc H has been to Ks house the entire weekend. I have a class with K and H tomorrow, and im nervous that H will spread rumors. Help!!!!
Hey girly girl, I'd talk to your friend, H, about everything. Bring up the fact that your mom invited the other girl over, and then ask if she wants to come over one night this week or next weekend!
by uni301 on 9/11/2011 9:25:29 PM
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My ex boyfriend Brock and I got into a HUGE fight the other day and he left a "diss" on my FB Wall. And my "friend" Allie wrote "No offense or anything, but JORDAN JUST GOT DISSED BY HER EX!" and then she posted a song on my wall and said "This goes out to Brock.... From Jordan!" so I commented on it saying how tired I am of her acting like shes on my side and pretending to hate Brock and his friends and then siding with them. Then, she blocked me on FB and I sent her a message from my sisters FB saying how sorry I am but that she's not being a good friend and stuff and she replied back swearing at me saying she hated me and didn't want to be my friend anymore. I replied back tell her ok and that I'm not going to beg for her back and stuff and then my older sister saw the messages and told me how Allie isn't really my friend if she's going to act like that and not be forgiving to me after one fight then she's not really my friend. What should I do? Please help!
Hey girly! Your sister is right. This girl, Allie, sounds pretty toxic. Why would you want a girl like that as your friend? You had no reason to apologize in the first place... she was the one who should've apologized, as she was the one acting like a bad friend. You did nothing wrong, chica. I would forget this girl. Don't go out of your way to be nice, but don't be blatantly mean either. Just ignore her, or act indifferent. And, lean on your better friends for support!
by cheerrox1111 on 9/11/2011 7:23:28 PM
by cutiepanda445 on 9/8/2011 11:04:46 PM
by 1Polar_Bear on 9/8/2011 6:07:21 PM
by kristadakota on 9/5/2011 4:42:47 PM
by goobergiri on 9/1/2011 10:01:34 AM
by puppydogs101 on 8/26/2011 3:00:02 PM
by buzzingbee on 8/23/2011 10:10:29 PM
by spazyjazy99 on 8/22/2011 8:35:05 AM
by baileybluu on 8/19/2011 9:48:12 PM
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I'm going into highschool this year..and I'm beginning to realize that I have such a wide variety of lots friends, I don't know who my really good friends are. I'm so confused, and I feel really lonely, because sometimes I feel like I have none. I don't know if anyone else has ever felt this way. What should I do?
by Cloverr on 8/19/2011 1:10:25 PM
by soccerpal5 on 8/19/2011 9:43:50 AM
by hawaiigirl624 on 8/17/2011 5:36:41 PM
by miss kenzie on 8/16/2011 11:40:11 PM
I wanted to be best friends with a girl ut not her other friend. Now her friend thinks we are BESTIES! How do i tell her no?
by tangey101 on 8/16/2011 5:53:00 PM
Everyone at school always says, "you have long hair" I cant tell if its a compliment or them hinting me to cut it shorter. I have long straight brown hair but it always get puffy when the wind blows. They dont say, "i like your hair" or "nice hair" they just say, 'wow, you have long hair" Im confused. oh plus, some of my friends sometimes say that i should cut my hair. Its long and i do want to cut my hair. so is it a compliment or them hinting?
by isabella4 on 8/14/2011 6:38:10 PM
by jayhawk94 on 8/12/2011 10:24:21 PM
by decklandog on 8/12/2011 10:50:51 AM
by brummitt06 on 8/11/2011 1:10:47 PM
by star23 on 8/11/2011 9:26:00 AM
by minkymouse on 8/10/2011 4:35:45 PM
by Ndadgirl on 8/10/2011 1:37:01 PM
Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help!
by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:26:31 PM
by smileysevvie on 8/9/2011 8:21:16 PM
by Gigilove321 on 8/9/2011 7:13:30 PM
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by Jessy4132001 on 8/4/2011 8:53:56 AM
by LittleRockstar on 8/3/2011 4:26:34 PM
by MadiLove on 8/2/2011 11:14:36 PM
come join my club health cuties, for everything to do with getting healthy, and fit, from exercising to having healthy skin and hair everyone is welcome, and we will be electing officers soon, so join in on the quest to getting healthier!!
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by cutie_pie54 on 8/2/2011 11:01:31 PM
by esk8 on 8/2/2011 10:05:25 PM
This happened to me! At first I didn't know what to think of it, but then I starting strengthining friendships with other girls, and then I finally found out that my other friend that abandoned me wasn't a very good friend anymore.
by applea123 on 8/2/2011 8:10:20 PM
Okay, admit it: Life isn't cake. And sometimes, you need some chica to chica advice.
Well, I'm your girl. I give advice on everything. And yes, this includes the topic you're wondering on.
So if you don't know what to wear that weekend, what to tell that guy, or how to fix that family problem, contact me
Holla! Peace out.
by naturallywonderful on 8/2/2011 7:55:20 PM
i feel the same way.
by j4zm09 on 8/2/2011 3:16:47 PM
by candyqueen.simps on 8/2/2011 2:24:51 PM
by lova1<3 on 8/2/2011 1:35:31 PM
by rockerchick411 on 8/2/2011 12:17:41 PM
My friend started to act strangely and wear make-up suddenly in 6th grade. I decided to patch up old relationships and make new buds, and she cleaned up her act pretty quickly!!! :p
by RaceTiger7 on 8/2/2011 12:05:58 PM
This is your opportunity to burst your social bubble and
make new friends! Put this situation to your advantage.
by colorqueen101 on 8/2/2011 10:19:40 AM
guys come check out my club "use your ropes" and my advice queen page! ask me any questions and I will for sure answer them within hours.
by hahaha2005 on 8/2/2011 9:15:58 AM
dont worry there are always people to meet youll get over it
by jollymoemoe on 8/2/2011 1:46:06 AM
You need to make more friends, find a new best friend. Maybe this BFF of yours needs a break.
by thetruth on 8/2/2011 1:44:09 AM
Hey chicas,If you need advice on anything really I'm here 4 u!I answer questions on topics from boys to hair styles to drawing and much more!!!!!no question is too embarrassing or humiliating so come on down to my advice queen page and you wont be dissapointed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
by artistchic99 on 8/2/2011 1:13:48 AM
I know how you feel...
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