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Should you go out with him?


 
You’ve seen that cutie in the halls, said hi, maybe chatted him up a bit? Now, it seems you’ve got him under your spell and he’s said the magic words: “Wanna hang out some time?” So, how do you know if he’s the right one for you? Are you really into him, or just testing the waters?
 
Focus on Feelings
Do you think about him a lot? Do you get butterflies when you’re around him? Think about how you feel when you’re with him, whether you’re really into this guy or just playfully flirting. Don’t say “yes!” just because you’re trying to make someone jealous or you’re just itching for a boyfriend. But if you’re really feeling the sparks, like you can’t imagine him being with anyone else, this is your golden ticket!
 
Check, 1, 2, 3…
So you think you’ve found the perfect hunny? Don’t agree to become full-out BF and GF until you know him a bit better. If he’s just the new hunk you’ve seen around the halls, you two may not be as compatible as you think.  Figure out what you two have in common--which means more face-to-face convos! While you don’t need a twin, a guy who’s obsessed with lax and punk music may not be the best match for a girl who loves ballet. But if you two hit it off during a play rehearsal? Sounds promising. Only talked a few times? Keep your options open, and don’t commit to a full-on date just yet--try a group outing so you can really see how you two mesh.
 
Opposites attract?
Maybe this guy is a part of your friend group, or he’s helped manage your b-ball team. Whatever it is, you sort of know him and he seems interested in you. But, you two have never really seemed to click just right. Whether it’s his jokes that tend to be more immature or his obsession with Star Wars, something about him has never really been attractive to you. Before you say yes, spend a little more time with him. Is he really an immature jokester, or do his crazy antics actually tickle your funny bone? Is his obsession his life--or does he just love a good movie? Now, no one is perfect (we all have strange obsessions and kooky humor) so don’t ditch him just because of one quirk. Hey, that’s what makes people interesting! If you can deal with or even come to like his personality, looks like you might have a match. But if his jokes are just cruel, or he’s into the wrong kind of stuff (drugs or alcohol), it’s def time to put the brakes on a date. Steer clear of this bad egg, and you’re sure to find a golden fella soon enough!
 
 

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I use to like this guy named matt last year and i think he kinda liked me. tonight he texted me asked if i liked him, what i rated him on a scale on 1 to 10. I told him i kinda like him (im not sure) but he asked me out and said "do you wanna go out and not tell anyone" i dont know what to do because he use to go out with my friend a couple months ago and he cheated on her. what should i do? thanks in advance!

by xokirstenxo on 1/28/2012 12:05:44 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!
i have a big crush on this guy he says if u die i will die to he wont let me hurt my self does he really care about me its just i had a bf last time am scared that hes lying to me plz help




Hey girlie,

This is a little extreme, especially for him only being at "crush" status, but it's possible he feels strongly for you and wants to express that by saying really grand things like this. Try going out with him and see how it goes! It's smart not to believe all this talk right away (because you aren't even dating yet, so you can't possibly have grown to love each other, sacrifice for each other, DIE for each other, etc.), but it is totally possible to have a BF to depend on <3 Just because you had a BF once that let you down, doesn't mean it'll happen again this time!
Lauren C.

by enstana on 1/19/2012 8:19:57 PM

 
 



MOD!
I have a guy friend who admitted that he likes me, and I told him the same thing. But then he started sending all these flirty texts, calling me his angel baby and stuff. It makes me feel kind of uncomfortable so I think I just like him as a friend. What if he asks me out? I don't wanna hurt his feelings, but I don't wanna lead him on either. Frown idk what to do now.




Dont flirt back. If you give him super friend vibes youll be ok. Give it time. xoxo kerra
Kerra S.

by Alle93 on 11/11/2011 5:53:02 PM

 
 

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I'm flirtally challenged.I read all these tips of the science of flirting but I don't really know how to follow them without straying from who I am. How on Earth do I flirt without acting fake but yet approachable?




Flirting is natural, doll.  You can't get better at it from a book or from straying away from yourself as a person.  Just practice, practice, practice babe!  Just let it come to you. 
Jordan S.

by orangejuiceluver13 on 11/10/2011 4:44:44 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
my friend's ex is still in love with her but she doesn't care about him anymore and now she likes his best friend and she asked her ex for permission to date his best friend. Her ex talks to me and he's not happy about it. Somehow I feel as though it's my fault, is it? What should I do?????
HELP!!!!!!!!

 

Hey girl,

It's not your fault at all. If he gave her permission even though he's not happy about it, that's his choice! Be a good listener for both your friend and her ex, but don't volunteer to be a mediator or a moderator. Encourage them to work it out on their own if they're really upset about it! That way, you don't get involved/make it your fault but you can still help them resolve it <3

Lauren C.

by 1204sammy on 11/3/2011 5:24:22 PM

 
 

i want to date this guy
but i dont know if i should im 12 and i dont know if im to yong to do it
he also like s me but we dont want to tell should we still keep it a secret

by Kat602591 on 11/1/2011 6:40:40 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
Okay, well there's a guy in my grade, and about 4 of his friends told me that he likes me. And, last year he had his friend ask me out but i said no because i didnt know if they were joking around or whatever. So, now that i think about it, he does stare at me in stuff, but i just never talk to him. how can i get to know him better?

 

Hey girl, it sounds like he really does like you. You could either tell his friends that you'd like to talk to him or approach him on your own. Whatever you feel most comfortable doing should suffice. 

Amalia E.

by brooke.baller21 on 10/30/2011 5:08:17 PM

 
 

My friend told me she liked a guy. I keep hangin with him. I keep getting closer to him and I think he likes me. Lately people have been making comments that they think I like him but I DON"T!!! He's really fun to be around. This happened one time before and the guy asked me out and I said yes (it was a guy she liked) I feel like I am being rude by doing this to every guy she likes even though I am NOT doing it on pupose.Do I tell him that she likes him? I am not sure what to do. PLEASE HELP!!!

by dancemad on 10/28/2011 10:38:01 PM

 
 

I just moved here like 3 months ago and I really like this boy and we sort of flirt but I am not sure if he is for real.I have been hurt before by mean guys . He seems ok but I don't want to get hurt

by Efun on 10/26/2011 11:57:52 PM

 
 

URGENT!!! MOD MOD MOD!!! I have had a boyfriend for only 5 days and there is soooo much gossip already!He is a year older than me in school and he doesn't have many friends, he is kinda a loner.But everyting I turn around people keep asking me "Why are you dating that guy" and "What do you see in him?". I really really like him! But all of this gossip and these questions and making me insane!! What should I do?? Thanks

 

Hey chicky, you can either ignore them or fire back at people. The next time someone asks you why you're dating him, simply answer "Because I want to, why are you worried?" and if they say "What do you see in him?", you can reply "It's really none of your buisness". This will let people know that it's not okay for them to ask you questions about your dating life. It has nothing to do with them. So if you are firm and confident when you answer people back they'll leave you alone. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by Mer-Bear on 10/26/2011 7:15:17 PM

 
 



mod mod mod mod there is this cute guy that is my cousins friend and idk if he likes her but i like him and when we meet he made me laugh and thats the kind of guy i want (but we talked for like three hours me my cousin and him and there was more i like) so should i tell them i like him or just find out if he likes me




Hey girl, I'd try to hint you're interested but not tell him overtly unless you know he likes you back too. Just dropping the l bombshell in front of a guy can be a little much if you haven't talked to him much on your own. Build up to it.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by armani11 on 10/24/2011 5:52:21 PM

 
 



MODMODMODMODMOD
So I really want to get to know this guy who goes to my grandmother's church. We've never talked, but he supposedly thinks I'm pretty and I think he's really cute. But he lives a hour away...but I can't stop thinking about him. I just really want to see what our friendship could possibly turn in to...HELP!




Try and talk to him after church some time. If you do that you can get his number or his email and you can talk more! Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by dancerbabelylas on 10/21/2011 7:55:37 PM

 
 

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ok so i really like this guy, i asked him out and he said that he liked me buut wants to wait till band season is over to make it official bcause it takes upp a lot of his time...anyways we pretty much act like we're dating and had a romantic moment at homecoming...he walks me to class and stuff too...but then today i was joking around and asked why i even bother talking to him and then he said that it's because he's my best friend (which if you think about it he really is)..my question is this: does he see us JUST as friends or as boyfriend and girlfriend that also happen to be best friends???




Hey girly! I think that he may see you as best friends but also as boyfriend and girlfriend potential. He said he wants to wait till after band season but he obviously has more feelings for you if he is acting this way. Wait for the season to be over and then see where it goes from there. Best of Luck!  
Ana D.

by randomusername1218 on 10/20/2011 12:51:54 AM

 
 

MOD MOD A year ago in 8th grade a guy started liking me. We became pretty good friends which was what i wanted to be but he flirted a lot & i knew he wanted more. In the summer we started going out & after 2 months i broke up because i really only liked him as a friend. Its been 3 months since but we never really stopped talking to each other & i know that he still hasn't gotten over me. I know he still likes me a lot (he has for a year!) He's really really nice to me & would do anything for me to go back out with him..am i mean for choosing not to?

 

Hey chica, we can't help the way we feel. If you don't like someone in a romantic way, you can't force yourself to. I think it would be unfair to you and him, if you pretended to have feelings for him. It sounds like you value your friendship, and starting something romantic would ruin that good relationship you guys have. Maybe you could tell him that. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by chocolate_lover*13 on 10/19/2011 6:39:25 PM

 
 



MOD mod mod mod! I have a huge problem. My boyfriend and i have been together for a long time. I love him so much, but the problem is, his dad got a job opprotunity in Germany. If his dad takes the job, he will have to move next summer. If his dad FOR SURE takes this job, should I stay with him till the day he leaves or just end it and give myself time to get over him before he has to leave? I dont know what to do! I really love him and I dont want to say goodbye but if he has to leave I will have to one way or another. What should I do??? -Thanks




Hey girl, stay with him until he leaves and enjoy the time you have left. You may have an expiration date on this relationship, but it's not immediate and his dad hasn't accepted the job yet. Hang in there!

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by tay12zdot on 10/17/2011 7:45:18 PM

 
 



Dear MOD
Well there is a guy at my old school who i saw 2 weeks ago and last night. Well i dont like him at all. Apparently he likes me alot but i have my eyes set on someone else. Anyways 6 people came up to me last night and ask if he asked me to dance yet and i said no. Then i find out the guy is telling everyone we are dating and thats why only 2 guys asked me to dance (a loser and the guy i like). And i wont see him for 2 weeks how do i tell him to knock it off? I need help!




Hey girlie,

Set the record straight by making it known you are single. Get your friends to help spread the word! Everyone loves to gossip whether they admit it or not, so the news will get around quick. Then the next time you see him, walk right up to him and firmly tell him that you do not appreciate him spreading rumors about you and that you'd love to be friends, but nothing further is going to happen. Be strong!
Lauren C.

by polkadotruby7 on 10/15/2011 10:15:20 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
so my bf and i have been going out for a while, and we have kept it a secret. he wants to go public, but i really dont casue he's not the most popular guy, and i know it sounds rude, but i dont want him to be embarrassed. answer asap!




If the only reason its a secret is because hes "not popular enough" then thats not very fair of you. If youre dating him, then you should be proud to call him yours. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by bubbles3956 on 10/14/2011 6:56:40 PM

 
 

DEAR MOD
Well there is this one guy who asked me to go to the dance with him. I already had a date. I told my friend to see what to do. Well as soon as I told her she goes straight up to him yells at him and them makes fun of him. I felt so bad. At the dance he just stared at me and didn't say anything or even move. I came home super guilty. There is a dance tomorrow too. Should I dance with him to make him feel better? Or ignore it? Maybe just appolgize? Please help me




Hey cutie!

It's up to you what you do, but clearly something feels wrong about this situation to you.  In that case, it's probably best for you to apologize or dance with him, just to make yourself feel less guilty.  You'll feel much better afterward! 
Jordan S.

by polkadotruby7 on 10/13/2011 7:30:41 AM

 
 

MOD MOD!!
Well im 14 almost 15, freshman in high school, and still no BF. I've never had one. I've been asked out...4 times i think. but 3 of them were by the same guy and the other one...just wasnt the right guy and i think he was desperate. Anyway, my BFF has had too many BFs to count and has already been kissed multiple times. Everyone always tells me how pretty I am, but if thats really true, why haven't I had a BF before?




Hey girlie!

I turn 18 in a couple of months and I've still never had a BF by choice either.  Since you have been asked several times, in your case it is also by choice.  Having or not having a boyfriend has no effect whatsoever on whether or not you're pretty, you just are!  I used to think the same thing, but truth is that you never know how many boys have their eye on you.  They may just be shy or in a situation where they can't tell you how they feel.  Never make an assumption without thinking from all sides of the situation. 
Jordan S.

by peace4ever97 on 10/12/2011 1:24:07 PM

 
 

mod mod mod mod ok so i was helping out at a firestations open house and there was a guy there, hes not a stranger because we have firefighter training together, and he was staring at me the whole time (5 hours haha). He is super cute and when ever we need partners for a project he always jumps to be my partner. Any clue that he likes me? thanks Smile

by surferdiva on 10/11/2011 4:45:56 PM

 
 

Hey Thanks for the tips. I now officially know I was stupid to say yes

by StupidChick on 10/8/2011 10:07:26 PM

 
 



Thanks!Smile




Anytime <3333 
Lauren C.

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:50:48 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD
Ok so I like this guy. But I have some other guy friends that I will hang out with or talk to at lunch. Sometimes the guy I like watches us, and once came up to my guy friend and I while we were talking. Is it wierd or mean to talk to other guys to get his attention? What if once on the bus I was texting a guy friend and he asked if he was my bf? (even though he is not) Does that mean anything? Thanks!




Hey girlie,

I don't think it's mean, and it's definitely not weird! Showing him that other guys like to talk to you will make you more interesting to him - and it makes it like a challenge, for him to get you to talk to him instead of the other guys. Just make sure you aren't only friends with a guy in order to make the other jealous, you know? If you genuinely like your guy friends, then it's ok Smile It definitely sounds like he could like ya, based on the stuff you told me. Instead of talking so much to your guy friends though, try taking a deep breath and talking to your crush! That way, you'll be able to get a better idea of if he likes you Smile 
Lauren C.

by LAS625 on 10/8/2011 9:23:05 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD!!! So my friend whos in 8th grade likes this boy who is in 8th grade... They would be a super cute couple but... He thinks i like him and im only in 7th grade.. btw my dad and his dad are like really good friends and we went on vacay together and we were flirting A BUNCH!! And today my friend and i gave him a hug at lunch right in front of her for no reason... i feel bad now... HELP!!

 

Hey missy, well it was just a hug, nothing harmless. I would just make it clear to him that you want to be just friends and nothing more. Maybe even put in a good word for your friend. Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by jo525 on 10/5/2011 8:18:59 PM

 
 



MOD
Hi, I am having a little bit of guy drama. Two weeks ago, this guy that I have been friends with, asked me to go to go to homecoming with him in a really sweet way. I said yes and we had a really fun time. Last night we hung out in a big group and went to dinner, ice cream, and one of our friends' houses for a movie. A lot of the time he doesn't really wait for me, like when I had to call my mom from the restaurant to ask her to give us a ride and he and the rest of the group went ahead of me to go across the parking lot to get ice cream. We have two classes together and we always talk after one of them, but sometimes not the other. I think he can be pretty shy at times. I think I really like him, but I don't know if he likes me. I am really confused! Please help. Thanks a bunch!!!Smile




If he asked you out and you guys had a good time, it sounds like he does like you Smile




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by annersbananers on 9/24/2011 9:52:32 AM

 
 

i need some help you see i still like my ex and i know he still likes me we flirt everyday even though he is my ex and what he did was wrong and messed up i can't be mad at him or i can't hate him. he was my first bf we got together 2 days after my birthday and broke up 3 days after cuz i heard he was gonna break up with me for my friend and i wanted to talk to him about it when we got home but the next thing i know he tells me " i was never going to do it but i guess it is over so what ever" and come to find out he got told i broke up with him and i got told he broke up with me but i know he still likes me and i think i have made it clear i like him i don't know what to do and none of my friends are any help so please help!!!!

by alley123 on 9/21/2011 12:06:34 AM

 
 



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this girl told my ex i like his friend (which i do) and now he knows! i didn't wanna tell him i like him cuz i think (not positive) hes got a gf (btw my ex was trying to get him to ask me out bt he wouldnt) i like him and dont want it to be awkward... im not sure what the question really is here.. um how do i make it un awkward?




Relax and take a deep breath--that's the best way to relieve the tension Smile If you're chill and relaxed, he will be too Smile




Briitany G. 

  
Brittany G.

by mckey101 on 9/20/2011 9:40:07 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!!!
OK so theres this guy i kind of like. He's not that cute, or smart, but he's funny and nice. My friend told me to stay away from him, but i didn't really listen to her. I've gotten a lot closer to him, but now ive seen his immature side. Hes rude and makes inappropriate jokes so thats why im confused about my feelings for him. Is it a bad idea to just put aside his rude comments or take them as a warning to back away now??? Thanks!
-Ashley




Hey girl, I think it's easy to forget a guy's faults when you're in like with him. I'd take his behavior as a warning, but I wouldn't completely rule him out if he's not like that with you. Get to know him better and try to spend more time one-on-one with him to get a better feel whether the teasing is who he is or if there's a nice guy beneath it.

xoxo 
Alyssa B.

by sunshinestar106 on 9/19/2011 4:28:17 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD
( referring to my last comment)
He also recently ditched me for some other friends ( all girls). We were suppose to hang out but last minute he realized he couldn't and I found out on Facebook he was with these other girls. So again, does he like me or not?


 


Hey again chica! Hmmm... I can see why you're confused! It's possible that this guy doesn't know what he wants. I mean, if he tried to kiss you, then he's most likely into you. However, he may be struggling with his feelings, since you guys are friends.


xxx 


Becca G.

by needtobreathe on 9/18/2011 11:07:15 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD
I had two BGF's. One of them told me he was going to kiss me because the other said he didn't have the guts to do it. I thought he was kidding but he actually tried! Does he like me or is it just because of the challenge? I know you're thinking he doesn't like me but he always calls me pretty and stuff. What the heck is going on??


 


Hey chica! I'd say it's pretty clear this guy is into you!


xxx


Becca G.

by needtobreathe on 9/18/2011 11:04:39 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! I'm sorta confuzzled about something. You see, there's this guy that I really like and he asked me out and I said yes. My friends sorta warned me that he was sorta mean and kinda a player but he was always nice to me and I never seen him mess with other girls. We went out for six days and then he broke up with me OVER A TEXT because I was "affectionate" enough. D: I was really hurt but he kept talking to me. Then he started hugging me and kept asking for a kisses and stuff. While we were in the hall during class (not skipping out on class) he sorta....took pinned me against the wall playful like and he kissed me! I was sorta confused because he broke up with me, but he still wants me? It sorta went like this for a month or so and then he asked me out again. But I said no even though I still like him a lot I'm afraid of getting hurt again. Later he asked me to homecoming but I don't know if I should. I really like him but should I go? And what if he asks me out again? HELP!




Hey girl,

Personally, I always try to give guys one more chance after they do something stupid. Maybe he broke up with you because he did feel like you were holding back and not totally "into" him. But maybe over the past month, you've both had a lot of fun and gotten closer, without the pressure of having a relationship labeling things. I'd probably say yes to his offer and see how things go. If you like him a lot and he is treating you well, that's what matters. Of course it might happen again - he might decide you aren't right for each other - but then it's your responsibility to make sure this flirting/kissing on the side doesn't happen. You're basically his GF without actually being called his GF right now, so you'll feel bummed out if he moves on to someone else anyway. Give it a try and try not to be scared of getting hurt again. You could miss out on some great times with guys if that always holds you back!
Lauren C.

by Blowpopwilson on 9/18/2011 12:43:07 AM

 
 

"i currently have 4 crushes on guys i cant stop thinking about. one is my bffs BOYFRIEND. i cannot help but like him. i'm happy for her, but it makes me mad when we r texting and all she says is i'm sad. she rubs it in my face a lot. all my other friends hate him. when he falls, i hold out my hand to help him get back up. and the 2 other guys are my other friends crushes, id idn't even start liking them until she was talking about them. the last guy is from my old school. and he is major popular. i have only had one boyfriend, and he broke up with me the next day. the reason? he thought i told everyone we were going out. it makes me wonder if he didn't wanna be seen with me or something. i just want a bf because i know he could make me more happier than i am right now."
Signed- Boy Crazy

by alpha_dawg on 9/17/2011 4:16:51 PM

 
 

***************MMMOOOODDDD MODD******************
I really like this guy, and I think he likes my back. There's only one problem: we can never get past saying "hi" and to make matters worse, it's always him who starts it. Lately he's been posting stuff on fb like "tell me how you feel" or "why am I always the one to say "hey" first. I want to get past this because I do like him and want to talk to him, I just can't ever get the words out. I don't want him to think I'm just a jerk who only say hi because he says it first. Please Help.

 

Hey girlie,

Sounds like this guy is out-going and honest about his feelings - which is a GREAT quality for him to have. Don't let him slip away just because you're afraid of speaking up! Next time you see him, take a deep breath and GO FOR IT. Say "Hey!" You gotta start somewhere, so here is a good place. Remind yourself that he already seems to like you - he cares about what you think, keeps trying to talk to you, etc. Just give it a try and you'll become more confident as you keep making the first move Smile

Lauren C.

by sassygirl93 on 9/15/2011 7:36:55 PM

 
 


MOD! MOD!
So there's this guy I've started to like. We went to Jr. High together. He's a year older and we never really luked each other. It was my BFF and I and his BFF and him just kinda against us. We just weren't friends, we kust played the same instrument in band. Now were in high school and he got really cute.... This past friday night we had a football game and I held cymbals for him to play on because it's part of a song we play and I looked up at him and he smiled at me but it wasn't just a friendly smile... It seemed like it had different vibe to it. We play and sing a song called "Hey Baby" and he kept looking at ,e when the guys were supposed to sing it... Do you think he likes me? And how do I chat him up? I really like him.


 


Hey chickadee! It's tough to say if he likes you just by this, but I'd start talking to him! Start out small... ask him how his weekend was, or if he did anything fun. Or, get together a big group of friends and go to the movies one weekend... invite him along!


xxx


Becca G.

by snickie on 9/11/2011 6:30:18 PM

 
 



Mod Mod Mod Mod So i asked out this guy and he said yes. (eeeeeeeeeee) well the only thing is that my friend doesn't like me having a bf and she has threatened to not be my friend so should i break up with him or say good bye to her?




Try talking to her about why she feels the way she does. If she is truly your friend she will listen and explain Smile




Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by Schweetie2000 on 9/10/2011 1:14:38 AM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD So there's this guy that I am IN LOVE WITH. We aren't bf and gf yet, and he doesn't go to my school. I go to his house occasionally because our parents are friends. The problem is, his sister, who's younger than me, always wants to hang out. And when she's not there, my brother is, and I can't talk to the guy without him sitting right there. I don't want them to feel like I'm ignoring them, but I NEED to spend time with the guy, alone, and I don't know how to get that. Help!!!




Maybe invite the guy to hang out over at your house when your brother isnt there. Just make opportunities for yourself where youll def be alone. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by rockstar476 on 9/9/2011 7:54:56 PM

 
 


MOD!!
Sooo...theres this guy, and we've known each other for about say 8 years. This year he recently broke up with his gf, and he's been crushin (and fliting) on me ever since. Plus, he's liked me before. Now, his ex (who is also my bestie) is pushing me towards him. I'd so flirt back, it's just admitting I like him to HER that's holding me back. It's almost like saying uncle, it's a game of how fast she can get me to swallow my pride and let her help me. Do you have any advice on my situation? Thanks in advance (:


 


Hey chica! I'd be honest with your feelings. If you like this guy, go for him! However, if you don't, then don't let anyone pressure you into it. It's YOUR life... do what makes you happy, and be with who makes you happy.


xxx


Becca G.

by switch-blade on 9/4/2011 6:04:24 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! Thanks. I'm writing because I am trying to figure out if a classmate has a crush on me. I'm a huge hockey fan. HUGE. So is, we'll call him "Ricky". Ricky used to think I wasn't a "real" hockey fan, but after a couple NHL convos I had with him, I could tell he was starting to respect me as a knowledgable NHL fan, even if I'm a girl. One of my guy friends told me Ricky always comes back wide-eyed after talking hockey with me, saying "Dude. she knows, like, a ton of hockey stuff". I was talking to him Friday again. He showed me a couple hockey cards from his collection. I mentioned that I've always wanted to collect, 'cuz I have. He jumped right up and said "Well I have a bunch of doubles at home and I can bring them in tomorrow if you want for you to have!" So the next day he came with 17 cards in great condition for me to have. Do you think he has a crush on me? I don't like him "like that", but I'm curious. I like him as a friend since he's the only one who gets hockey.




Hey girlie,

He could like you, but he could also just be impressed by how much hockey knowledge you've got in that head of yours! He might be grateful to add another person who is passionate about hockey to his friends group. It's hard to tell just based on this because, from this, he sounds like a great and loyal friend. Still, he could like you, but just not show it as clearly. If he does like you, it'll become more obvious later on as you get closer to him. In the meantime, enjoy the fact that you've got a new friend who you can enjoy hockey with!
Lauren C.

by askerofquestions on 9/3/2011 10:01:44 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
So I like this guy and I think he likes me back, but I'm not for sure. I mean he talks to me in every class and our lockers are right next to each other so we talk then. But I know that he talks to a lot of girls, so I'm not sure if him talking to me a lot means that he likes me. Plus a bunch of girls that are more popular then me like him just because he is hot and a lot of them flirt with him all the time. I really like this guy and I'm sooooo confused if he likes me back. HELP!




Hey girl,

Talking to you doesn't necessarily mean he likes you - you're around him a lot, so it would be rude not to talk to you! He could be doing this to avoid being rude, because he likes you as a friend, or because he likes you as something more - it's hard to tell at this point! Try talking to him like you have been, but incorporating compliments, playful teasing, or a lil flirting if you want. Take it to the next level by asking him to work on homework with you after school, go to the football game together on the weekend, or walk to school together in the morning. Try to gradually get closer to him and you'll get a better sense of how he's feeling! 
Lauren C.

by gymnastg on 9/3/2011 9:53:42 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!!
So I’m a Freshman in High School (14 going on 15 in November), and I met this really nice guy in one of my classes. He’s a Junior (16), but he seems fine with the fact that I’m a Freshman. In the past week or so he’s been flirting with me a little (and I won’t lie, I’ve been flirting back). I’m starting to develop feelings for him, but I was wondering, is it ok for a Freshman girl to date a Junior guy? I know for a fact that many older guys go for Freshman because they seem “desperate” or “easy”, but he doesn’t seem like the type to ever consider using me or anyone else for things like that. The only thing I’m REALLY worried about is his friends making fun of him. I really like him, and I don't want him to feel down because of me being younger. I know a lot of people say that love doesn’t know age, but I’d really like to make sure that people find it appropriate. Thanks a bunch =]!




I dont think its bad for a junior to date a freshman. My bf is two years older than me. But as for his friends making fun of him, dont worry about that. If he really likes you that wont bother him. Good luck! xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

by Alliecat4 on 9/2/2011 5:26:30 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!
So I stilllll like my 'ex' and IDK why. Hes a jerk, a big player and all. I dont know what I should do because I like him but hes really innapropriate saying stuff to my BFF hes just gross. YOu think I should like totally stay away from him and like another guy? Cuz hes cute and sweet but just a big bad boy and very grossTong
Hope you understandSmile
KatieBieber




Hey again!

If you're wondering why you like him in the first place, then maybe it's a good idea to take a step back.  There's no reason to be with anyone who just stresses you out. Give yourself some time to think out what you really want in a boy because I'm sure he'll be coming your way soon!
Jordan S.

by KatieBieber on 8/31/2011 11:51:56 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!
ok so i was flirting with this guy at coco keys(ik kinda random) and i got his facebook then the next day when we both went back home we were chatting alot and he asked me out and i said yes but he goes to a different school hes 13 1/2 (im 12) and he already got kinda mad at me for tellin my best friend(which i can see his point of view from that). what do you guys think will it last or no??




Hey girl,

He shouldn't be getting mad at you for telling your bestie about your plans! Be careful he isn't too controlling over the situation. But who knows - you could definitely have a lot of fun with him! See how it goes Smile 
Lauren C.

by girlygirl<3 on 8/29/2011 6:41:16 PM

 
 

hey guys,i could use some advice...
whenever i get around a guy i like i start getting really kinda hostile and mean cuz im nervous. can i get some tips to help me stop this bad habit ive had since i was little??

by gabrielle1998 on 8/28/2011 8:47:48 PM

 
 



MOD me and my brother are like Frenimies.... we fight, then we love eachother again... he told me that some girl was makaing fun of my weight, and he didnt stand up for me because he didnt want to start drama!!! I don't feel that thats right bc i always stand up for him!!!!! it hurts!!!!
HELP




Hey babe! Every brother and sister goes through that time. I definitely did with my bro. My 5th grade teacher told me once that I would appreciate him more once I was older, and it's so true. My brother always defends me and I do the same for him. You'll get through this rough patch and it'll make your relationship stronger. Look forward to happy times! xoxo 
Jess W.

by LindseyM3r5 on 8/23/2011 4:11:22 PM

 
 

Opposites dont last, maybe at first they attract but I have heard that the moe opposite you are in the end if you dont becomes more alike the relationship wont last.

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/21/2011 9:28:06 PM

 
 



MOD I've known my bf for 8 years and have been dating him for 2 years now. He used to be a really shy guy who never even touched me except for hugs but lately he keeps saying that he wants to kiss me. I've told him not yet twice and he says he respects my choice, but he keeps asking me. I have mixed feelings about it. I want to kiss him so badly and have for a while, but I'm terrified. Partially cause it's a double first kiss and partially because I'm not sure if we're too young. I'm 16 and he's 17, but it's still years before anything else can happen except for dating and I'm just not sure if I'm ready to cross that line just yet. I have the desire, but I'm not sure if it's right. I know it's different for everyone... but do you think we're just to young? I know friends who have kissed at 12, or 16, but they regret it, I never want to regret my first kiss. Thanks, J-Bird




Hey chica!

I would say do whatever makes you feel comfortable. I think that 16 and 17 is a great age to have a first kiss. You're a lot older and more mature to handle the situation. It's great that your boyfriend is being so understanding about the situation. He's a guy, and he is going to be curious about things. If he keeps asking and you still don't want to kiss him, keep standing your ground and tell him not to ask until you bring it up. If you do decide you're ready to take that step and share your first kiss with him, more power to ya! I say take a chance and go for it. But for when you do decide to kiss him, check out this post. It might help ya out!

Katelyn L.

by jaybird94 on 8/18/2011 2:52:24 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD I have two questions. Ijust started talking to an old guy friend of mine recently and am getting mixed signals. Good ones are he says things like I'm pretty, have a good personality, and am very nice. Bad ones are I always have to be the one to approach him and he'll randomly stop texting me during a conversation. Do you think hes interested? And a couple days ago he said he wants to hang out. He has said this once before but never came to me to say a date or a place. Is he hinting that he wants me to arrange it or should I wait more and let him? And if I do have to set it up, where would be the best place to hang out as friends but at the same time giving room to be something more? Sorry for the length, I'm just confused and need advice please.

 

 

 

Hey babe. I think that you are doing the right things and he might like you. Ask him to a movie with you and your friends.

mary h.

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by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 8:05:45 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD thers this guy i use 2 reeeeelly lik and on the first day of middle skewl he was relly mean 2 me so i didnt hang round him. he was lik my best frend and we wer always 2gether. now i still hav relly strong feelings 4 him and my frends said he was meen 2 me bcuz i didnt relize he liked me. but im upset! ive still got strong feelings 4 him and we dnt talk! but my frend invited him 2 hang wit us wen we go down town and he said yes! what do i say??? he dated som1 since me and they broke up what do i do 2 get him back??
HELP! PLEASE!
love always,
Soccerhet




Hey girlie, just be flirty with him! Talk to him as much as you can and make sure you look really cute! 
Lauren T.

by soccerhet on 8/6/2011 2:19:56 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
Ok so this summer I went on this trip with my church and once we got back I found out that one of the guys that went likes me. So I got his number and I txt him a bit and yesterday I told him that I liked him and he said he likes me to. Now this wouldn't be bad except this one minor detail; he has a girlfriend. So as we were talking yesterday I suggested that we do this church camp thing for little kids together just so I could get to know him a little more. He said yes if we were dating, then he said that he didn't know what to do and then he stoped txtig me. I'm worried that I told him to much while he was still in a relationship. How can I fix this? He is a really great guy and I wanna see where we would lead but I'm afraid that I messed things up big time. Should I txt him Or should I wait for him to txt me? Please HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey girly,

Give him a little time to get his head straight and for him to figure out what he wants to do. Then, if he hasn't texted you back, try texting him something very casual and see what happens. Good luck!

Catie C.

by pepk6 on 8/5/2011 2:28:39 PM

 
 

mod mod mod So, I was just wondering what the right age to date is? I've heard "it depends on family rules" and I was wondering if let's say there weren't any, what would be the right age?

 

 

 

Hey girl. If there were no rules. It would be when the girl is mature enough to deal with dating and is ready. In my personal opinion?  Any time before 13 is too young to date, but that isn't the same for everyone.

mary h.

by txtingirl on 8/3/2011 2:31:37 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD hey my best guy friend told me he liked me in march when he asked me if i liked him i said that ill tell him during the summer cuz my teacher got on me for dating (ELEMENTARY SCHOOL THE LAST YEAR)he said that was fine but now my friend ttold me he has a girl friend and i checked his facebook and it said he WAS dating her..... and on top of that when i watch the football players practice he always smiles at me and waves what should i do??????????? HELP!!!!!!!!! I've liked him since 2nd grade (6th grader now)




Hey girl, I think you have to respect his relationship for now. He obviously likes you as a friend, which is why he smiles and waves during practice. There may come a day when you two get together, but it's not right now. Focus on your friendship. xoxo 
Alyssa B.

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by cutie_pie54 on 8/2/2011 11:06:29 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD ok so for like the past few yrs ive been really "reserved" around guys. for the most part i can talk and flirt easily, but wen they make a move (or not!) i either freak and start kinda ignoring them cuz i dont want to take any risks in love, or i over analyze wat they say, their body langauge, etc. WAY too much! i really want change this, so i can keep and develope friendships w/ more guys and get a bf. any advice?

 

Take a deep breath, relax, and don't over analyze so much! That's the only way you can move forward =)

 


Brittany G.


Brittany G.

by erynn14 on 8/2/2011 8:29:10 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! There's this guy in my taekwondo class who has a crush on me, and he keeps messaging me on facebook, even though my cousin told him that I like someone else. I've just been ignoring his messages so I don't lead him on, but am I being mean? I feel like talking to him would just be uncomfortable knowing how much he likes me. It's almost like he's obsessed with me and it creeps me out...what do I do?

 

If something is making you uncomfortable, then keeping your distance is the best way to go

 


Brittany G.


Brittany G.

by Alle93 on 8/2/2011 8:26:03 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD! I'm in my camp and I like this guy. We talk and sometimes I make him laugh. One day he said he would profile a picture of me and him together on Facebook, but he never did it. I don't know what to do. How can I get him to like me? I only see him hanging with the guys and me sometimes.

 

Just be yourself! Guys like when a girl isn't putting on a show, so just continue to be who you are. That will ultimately help you to talk to him more and possibly progress to something more

 


Brittany G.


Brittany G.

by gabbystar on 8/2/2011 6:57:38 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD (this comment is gonna be really long!!) I've liked this guy, we'll call him "N," since 2nd grade. And in third grade, he found out I liked him, and then he started treating me differently, like teasing me and stuff. But that was just for a couple of months. This past year, he's been acting strangely around me again, but not like before. This time, he started giving me hints on math problems, and asking me a lot of questions. Then, I got a hint from him, and I gave him a hint, and a few days later, he hit me on the top of the head with a set of Tangram blocks, and he said, "I thought we should go back to hating each other now." I was wondering if he was flirting, or whether he knows I still like him and is just trying to give me the impression that I like him, or what? I'm kinda confused... ~Hellopeople98

 

 

 

 Hey girl. I'm confused too! What grade are you in now? If you are still really young then he probably is confused. Boys don't know what they want sometimes. He could be flirting, but there is no way to for sure tell. Just wait and see.

mary h.

by hellopeople98 on 8/2/2011 11:03:26 AM

 
 

"He was a punk; she did ballet.
What more can I say?
He wanted her,
And she'd never tell,
But secretly she wanted him as well.
But all of her friends,
Stuck up the nose,
They had a problem with his baggy clothes.
Yeah he was a skater boy,
She said 'see ya later boy'
Like he wasn't good enough for her..."
Okay, I'm done, but Avril is appropriate for every situation :3

by TropicRaine on 8/2/2011 8:42:15 AM

 
 

MODMODMODMOD!!!!!! Ok, so my bgf N who I also have a crush on is really funny, smart, & sweet, but also popular, so he goes out with a lot of girls (he always has really good sweet intentions but he doenst understand how it makes girls feel)... anyway he has a cousin T that is a really really good guy & he wants to be a pastor when he grows up & stuff like that ... anyway T & N hang out a lot & i feel like T really keeps N from doing anything he would regret because of peer pressure or anything & keeps N in line kinda ... but the thing is we're going into middle school this year & ive heard that a lot of kids start drinking & drugs in middle school... is that true? im worried about N. i know he would never do anything like that on purpose but since he's popular im afraid the other populars will pressure him into something ... is there any way i can tell him im worried w/o sounding weird or motherly or like i like him? plz help! thanks! <3

 

 

Hey girl. A lot of kids do experiment with that kind of stuff at some point. It may start in middle school but it will more likely start later. I think the best way to handle it is to, if drinking is brought up in conversation, express how you feel. Don't bring it up out of no where unless you really feel he is at risk or may be doing anything.

mary h.

by sparklysydafrid on 8/2/2011 8:31:32 AM

 
 

MOD!!! ok, so i was talking to my really good guy friend, and he had mentioned that he likes me. I like him too, and i anna go out with him, but how to i get him to notice that? do i ask him out? both of us flirt constantly, but im still not sure he knows. Help!

 

 

Hey girl. Just go for it! Tell him how you feel. If he has mentioned that he likes you too then he probably will not reject you. Try bringing up that you like him.

mary h.

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by purpleorchid on 8/2/2011 6:12:57 AM

 
 

mod mod mod i am 15 and i am not allowed to date so once i was chating with this guy on facebook so i had to go so i wrote ttyl sweety although i dont like him so i kept my fb open and the chat was still there so my bro took my computer and saw the conversation so he woke me up and he was like who is he and how can u talk to him like that and he started yelling and he told everyone in my family so everyone thinks i am bad or whatever u see my family is really strict so currently i am dead meat but my bro left out but he said hes gana talk about later but before he left i lied and said i was talkin to another girl and i messed up the chat but he didnt believe me what am i gana do ? thanks so much for ur help

 

 

Hey girl. If you aren't allowed to date just be friends with this guy for now. If he is still talking to you just keep talking and don't focus on the incident. Be careful what you say online. If you wouldn't say it to the guy in person, then you probably shouldn't say it do him online.

mary h.

by zubaida on 8/2/2011 2:15:46 AM

 
 

I hate when a guy asks you out and you don't even know his name. Forget that you had like 3 classes together. You don't even take notice of his existence. And that everyone else knows him and he's part of that really popular group. And apparently friends with that one guy you really like. Let's say the guy was persistent and kept asking you out for a whole year and flirting with you awkwardly. Then you want to see what happens when you say yes, and agree to date him, 5 minutes later he says "let's break up". And the two go on your separate ways.
Who else has gone through something a bit similar?

by thetruth on 8/2/2011 2:03:45 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD
Me and this guy have been friends since kindergarten. We like eachother and I wanna date him but he says that he's scared to ruin our friendship. The other issue here is that I dated this guy 7 months ago and he broke my heart. Ever since I've ended relationships shortly because I get scared to trust the guy. So should I date my friend and try to trust him or not? Thanks so much in advance.




Hey cutie! You can't let one bad experience ruin all of your future romances. However, it is always a tricky situation going from friend to boyfriend, especially when they're close to you already. You need to decide if you would rather have him as a bf or if the friendship you already have is too important to risk. How he feels also needs to be taken into account. If you decide that you want to go for it, risk it, then tell him that. Tell him that you really trust him and you think it could work. And if it doesn't work out then you can still be friends, as hard as that may be, it could work. You just have to decide and hopefully he feels the same way. You should just talk to him though, be honest with him once your decision is made. xoxo
Jess W.

by lova1<3 on 8/2/2011 12:21:15 AM

 
 

MODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMODMOD
so at school i liked this guy B.i told my close guy friend, J, I liked him and he kept like talking about him but kind of saying negative things. like my close guy J has a six pack in 8th grade!so he said my crush was flabby.. but he was kinda joking and in my year book he wrote hopefully you wont fall for B again so you dont get a broken heart!;) he put a heart next to his name..... do you think J likes me?? i kinda like him now but i think he might like me cauz my friend said he rated me a 9!!!Laughing sorry for soo long thanks for helping!




Hey chica,

It definitely sounds like J might have a lil thing for ya! He might not wanna admit it because he doesn't want to mess up your friendship, but protecting you from B and writing hearts in your yearbook could definitely be signs of a crush. Try picking up on other signs (does he flirt with you in normal convos? compliment you? go out of his way to help you out?) to find out for sure!
Lauren C.

by chloecjm on 8/1/2011 10:47:10 PM

 
 

this stuff is so obvious, yet so, idk, reassuring to read yet again. anyone know what i mean?

by the_last_ninja on 8/1/2011 10:32:17 PM

 
 

I think a Star Wars freak would be a cool guy to hang out with...Although I'm not a huge Star Wars fan, I can totally relate to being hooked on Sci-Fi!

by IvoryPiano on 8/1/2011 10:31:47 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD
today i saw i guy who i havent seen in about 3 yrs. i met him wen i was like 12, and i didnt really talk to him them, but for me it was like love at 1st sight. i really wanted to talk to him and say hi, cuz he kept looking at me and watching me and smiling at me, and seemed 2 reconize me. i wanted to talk to him but i didnt cuz it would seem kinda awkward. but now im regretting it Frown i might start going 2 his youth group in the fall (i have friends there) and i was wondering wat u thought on love at 1st sight, and destiny. do u really believe in tht type of stuff? cuz' this guy is like no other ive ever met (ya, ya i no im only going off of looks and little talking, but still!)wen i saw him today, i cant even explain how i felt. it was like i saw every happy thing i ever experinced in him! am i foolish to be doing this and believeing in love at 1st sight, or do think i may have a chance cuz ill be seeing him again?




Hey babe,

I'm still not sure if I believe in love at first sight, but I definitely believe in powerful connections between people - you've remembered him and felt strongly for a reason, so take advantage of any chances you have to get to know him better! He might turn out not to be the guy for you, but who knows...you'll never know if you don't give it a try Smile
Lauren C.

by erynn14 on 8/1/2011 10:16:53 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD !!!!!
I like about three guys and one i'm in love with but i don't really want to being love or liking any boy right now .... How do i stop liking them?????




Hey girl,

First, ask yourself exactly why you don't wanna be crushing right now. Are you afraid to get hurt? Are you not allowed to date? Clarify your reasons and make sure you understand them. Then, you could go about it a bunch of different ways: point out these guys' flaws, remind yourself over and over of your reason for not wanting to like any boys right now, and focus on things that make YOU happy, like clubs or sports or a new hobby you always wanted to try. Surround yourself with your besties and over time, these feelings will fade. But also be careful trying to suppress feelings you naturally feel. If you like these guys for good healthy reasons, it might not be so bad to have a crush or two Smile It hurts more to pretend you don't like them sometimes!
Lauren C.

by dunguen1 on 8/1/2011 9:41:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD so i hav a back to school dabce b4 skool and its beach themed wat shud i wear and do with my hair?? Thanks




That sounds like so much fun! Personally, I would go for a pair of cute sandals or simple flip flops with a breezy sundress. If you have one in a floral print or a beachy color (turquoise, green, or banana yellow), even better! You could also wear a pair of shorts and a crop top if you wanna go more casual and less girly. As for your hair, try using a beach spray (like the one in this article) to give your hair a naturally wavy look. Pull the front half up and secure it in the back with a little clip. Au naturel and totally gorg! Smile
Lauren C.

by FigureSkater08 on 8/1/2011 9:37:14 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD
I'm trying to get my lips softer and bigger at home. Like, with something that I make. So what would be a good recipe for something like that? Thanks(:




Hey girl,

Try this recipe for DIY cranberry lip gloss! It's all natural and super sweet Smile But I'll also always recommend the Burts Bees lip balm in this article - it's affordable at $3 and its natural ingredients treat your lips well!
Lauren C.

by EgirlH.97 on 8/1/2011 9:36:18 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!
I have a really, really bad habit of popping my knuckles and neck. It's gotten so bad that I can't even straighten my hair because my joints hurt too much from the bending of my fingers.
Is this arthritis?
If so, what do I do and how do I stop this habit?




Ouchhhh! Cracking your joints on purpose too often can really be the start of joint problems including arthritis. It probably hasn't developed into something as serious as arthritis yet though, so STOP popping them right now! You'll be tempted to do it subconsciously, so challenge yourself: be aware of doing it for one whole day and, anytime you're tempted to crack your knuckles, write the sentence "I will not crack my knuckles." ten times on a sheet of paper. Then challenge yourself to it the next day, and the next day again. You'll get tired of doing this soon and will convince yourself to stop!
Lauren C.

by PinkZebra97 on 8/1/2011 9:00:38 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD So I have this guy friend who we are so close we are practically siblings! I really have a great time being with him. Recently, we were talking about doing something just as us two (not as a date, as friends). Do you have any ideas? OH, one more thing. He just got out of a really bad relationship where his ex spread bad rumors about him abusing her. If anyone sees the two of us, shell eventually find out and spread even more rumors. So we need somplace lowkey to avoid controversy. I know its not something to be afraid of because it just matters that were there together, but im trying to look out for him so he doesnt get hurt even worse. I apologize about this being so long, but please help!




Hey babe,

I totally understand. Try doing something low-key like having him bring his fave movie over to your house. You could have brownies or some snack ready for you to eat and you can watch the movie, play a board game, just have a calm and relaxing time together. That way, it's super casual but you also don't run the risk of being "caught" by other people. But it's tough feeling like you're stuck inside because you don't wanna get caught. Sometimes, it's worth taking the chance so you can get outside and actually do something exciting!
Lauren C.

by smiles4ever1112 on 8/1/2011 7:53:08 PM

 
 

MOD!!
I have 2 close friends and then a guy friend who always hangs out with us. My friends are gone and he asked to hang out with me cuz he's bored. I kinda wanna hang out but i just dont know what to say to him. i just met him this year so were not that close. Im really shy also so what can we do together in our neighborhood..?




Hey girlie,

Don't sweat it! He's a guy, but that doesn't mean you won't have anything to say to him Smile Try choosing an activity that is more active so your convo, if it ever gets quiet/awkward, can come from the activity itself. Watching TV or a movie isn't a good choice, since you'll feel the pressure of a conversation constantly. Shopping isn't good because you might love it, but as a guy he might not be too into it. But going mini-golfing, bowling, rock-climbing, biking, or exploring the neighborhood taking each other to your fave spots (restaurants, stores, parks, etc.) could be really fun!
Lauren C.

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by swimmerchic96 on 8/1/2011 5:30:27 PM

 
 

Mod! Mod, so me and this guy have been talking by fb and texting like all the time for almost a year (we only see each other at church)and he told a ton of people he liked me, and they told me. I kinda like him back but not really. But the problem is I just can't stop flirting especially by texting. I did in the beginning cause I really liked him. But now i kinda like him but I just keep doing it. I know it is not right to do that because it is leading him the wrong way. I also heard he is gonna ask me out to homecoming. He goes to my old school so I think it might be a little awkward to go with him, even if it is just ad friends. Please I need some serious help on how to stop flirting and what to do if he asks me out to homecoming. Thanks(:




Hey girl,

Oo, a change in feelings is so tough. He probably does think you're crushing, so he keeps on flirting because he's confident about it. In order to change this without actually telling him, try making yourself a lil less available. If you text/talk every day, try limiting yourself to a few days a week. While you're chatting, you might be tempting to compliment him or get really flirty at times - when you do, remind yourself he is JUST A FRIEND. Then cool it down. Talk to him like you'd talk to another guy (or girl) friend that you don't have a crush on. It's gonna take constant reminders, so stick with it! It's worth it so you don't hurt him - but, at the same time, you don't do anything you don't wanna do.
Lauren C.

by 14lowem on 8/1/2011 5:26:16 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD
I rarely get babysitting jobs. I'm making a flier to hand out to people, but I'm not sure of what to put on it. Any suggestions? Thanks!




Hey babe,

First off, the essentials: your name (first name and last initial are fine), your home phone number or a babysitting-dedicated email address (whichever way you want people to contact you), and the neighborhood you plan to babysit in. Then you can include your qualifications - the stuff you're good at, or the reasons why people should hire you. You can include "great with babies!" or "lots of outdoor fun!" or "homework help!" It's all about YOU girl - advertise yourself! Smile
Lauren C.

by applea123 on 8/1/2011 5:10:29 PM

 
 

HELP PLEASE! what does Mod mean?




Hey girl,

It means "moderator" - that's me! Me and a whole team of girls are employed by GL.com to approve all your comments, delete offensive/vulgar stuff or comments with too much personal info, and answer all your questions about everything under the sun! That's advice, suggestions, brainstorming...whatever ya need! 
Lauren C.

by txtingirl on 8/1/2011 5:00:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD lately ive been feeling really downFrown i have acne, my hair isnt going right, and im getting fat. im getting a haircut tomorrow, but what about the acne and weight problem? i use a facial cleanser that works, but how can i speed it up a bit? and ill be having marching band in a week which is a lot of physical labor, but until then how can i feel better? i feel lazy and fat even though deep down i know im not!! HELP! ps-its mainly my inner thighs and waist. whats the best cardio to lose weight fast?

Hey girly,
For acne, the best thing that you can do is give it time and let the cleanser do it's thing. Check with a doctor though if it's getting too out of control. As for weight, the best cardio that you can do is something that gets you moving but that you have fun doing. If you like dancing or running or biking or anything like that, those are all great options. Good Luck!


Catie C.

by karategirl78 on 8/1/2011 3:07:16 PM

 
 

MOD!! Smile So a week ago, I admitted to the guy that I like that I think he is cute. He then told me that he thought I was quite pretty. I've had several conversations with him since and they have all gone pretty good, but I have a few questions... 1. He asked me about a guy that I used to have a thing with, which is also one of his friends. He asked me if I like him and if he ever said if he liked me. What could this mean? 2. He asked who I like. When I asked him, he didn't give an answer, so I told him mine was a secret. He then asked why I wouldn't say who. Do you think that he likes me? 3. I've never really hung out with him. We have some mutual friends, but I don't know how to suggest hanging out. Any ideas?

Hey girly,
1. He is probably trying to figure out if there is any chance that you and this guy are going to get back together. 2. He is checking to see if you have a crush on anyone to see if he has any competition. 3. The easiest way to hang out is to get some mutual friends together and go see a movie or something like that. All these things added together makes it look like he really likes you! Good Luck!


Catie C.

by hockeyismylife on 8/1/2011 2:50:17 PM

 
 

Haha, i'm in ballet (well i used to be, but i still love it) and i LOVE punk music. soo....that's pretty much a stereotype

by biffo on 8/1/2011 2:45:31 PM

 
 

My guy prob has to get over my harry potter obsession

by borninjune on 8/1/2011 2:02:48 PM

 
 

I can't stand anyone who likes Star Wars. It makes me sick. Star Trek all the way! So my future boyfriend will have to put up with my Star Trek obsession!

by megan512 on 8/1/2011 11:50:19 AM

 
 

This is good advice. It's like a checklist for guys.

by caligirl99 on 8/1/2011 11:35:24 AM

 
 

@smileysevvie Yeah totally right?


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by allyson1124 on 8/1/2011 11:34:43 AM

 
 

When I was in fifth grade everybody was obsessed with bfs and gfs... but now we like totally dont care!

by karatesis7 on 8/1/2011 10:54:14 AM

 
 

I hate hate HATE when guys are obsessed with video games. Goes to show how much ambition in life they have, right?

by smileysevvie on 8/1/2011 9:19:32 AM

 
 

Yay! my guy passes the test!

by basketballcutie11 on 8/1/2011 7:03:23 AM

 
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