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Dealing with racist classmates

 
I have a serious problem. The boys in my class are racist. I care about people a lot—whoever they are. I hate when someone of a different race is being teased. What the boys in my class say is extremely rude. When I ask them why they make fun of people of different races, they say, “Why do you care?” I try everything in my power to make them stop, but they just keep doing it. I can’t stand it anymore.

 

Dear Confused in Louisiana

You should be proud of your values and ability to empathize. It is hard to listen to insensitive people who make racist comments are oblivious to others’ feelings. It is also hard to change such people. I commend you for trying and encourage you to continue pointing out that all people have the same range of emotions. If racists would take off their blinders, they would see there are good people and bad people of all colors. Maybe it will make an impression on your small-minded classmates to see that slurs or stupid jokes can lose the respect of someone as special as you.

 

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if i drink protein shake-type stuff after volleyball practice will it help me get in better shape faster or what exactly does it do for you? i am also trying to lose a little bit of weight this season (a healthy amount, don't worry) so will it help?




Hey girl!

Protein shakes help your muscles get stronger and grow, so if that's what you're trying to do, keep drinking them! I'm not sure about losing weight, though. Water is always a good option because it is super healthy and keeps you hydrated and feeling ready to go! 
Katelyn L.

by smileysevvie on 8/16/2011 2:10:50 PM

 
 

Hey girls! Nedd any adviec! I am your advice queen! I am dreamcatcher and I will be gald to help you with your problems! You can also just leave a commet on profile and I will get back to you! Luv yal! - Sophia

by dreamcatcher on 8/13/2011 7:05:50 AM

 
 


Thank you catie c.!! that advice helped! Smile Lauren C.

by twilight*gurl on 8/12/2011 7:35:24 PM

 
 



MOD MOD how can I have a healthy social life but still have good grades? I feel as if I have to ditch one in order to have another.




Hey girl,

Not at all! It's not about sacrifice, but about balance. Instead of throwing all of your time into your clubs and social commitments (or, on the other hand, going "all work no play"), choose one or two clubs you're most passionate about and invest energy into that. Then, come home and focus on your homework without taking tons of breaks to chat, text, or chill with friends. Use your weekends as time to recharge and catch up with your besties. It's always helpful to schedule your time on a calendar or even a sheet of lined paper to make sure you have room enough for both sides of your life - because they're BOTH important!
Lauren C.

by PuppyCT on 8/12/2011 7:00:36 PM

 
 

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I'm like the girl in the article except whenever they make fun of him he counters back but he told me one day that he hates when people do that and i know he is really sad inside but there are two little catches: he is mean to a lot of people( probably because of the bulling ) and I am really shy around other people so please don;t suggest that i talk to the bully Smile thank you in advance for all your hard work!

 

Hey girl,

You don't have to become the bully's best friend just to help! Instead, do small things - give the bullied boy a small smile when you come to class or in the hallways. Ask him how his weekend was or how he did on the test. Don't purposely avoid working with him in class groups. Reaching out in little ways will mean a LOT to someone who is being picked on, even if he seems like he can hold his own by countering back <3

Lauren C.

by HannahJL on 8/12/2011 5:44:40 PM

 
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