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Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

Dear Oh Brother,

Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 8/5/2011 7:00:00 AM

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i need whatever uve got!! pronto!!! so i was texting my crush and it turns out my bff was spending the night at his house and he was texting me from my crushes phone making me think it was my crush (confusing i kno) but i can kinda tell wich is wich wen they text me so i knew something was wrong and then all of a sudden my best friend confessed that my crushe likes me but i was kinda confused and like and hour later from the same phone my crush said i like you but i dnt kno if there messing with me cuz they havent texted back and i dnt even kno who im texting im planning on just letting it go i tried texting back but idk maybe its better to just wait
im confused plz help
these guys r soo irritating and confusing but i love em!!

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by ~sunshineL0v3~ on 12/3/2011 12:25:17 AM

 
 

i need help!! im confused...well i hav too best friends but there like brothers and i hav a crush on one and then the other likes me ... they both treat me amazingly and i love them both very much but my crush he has something else i reallyy like him and we talk soo much we text for hours and he will flirt with me he even gave me a stuffed animal because he said he saw it and thought of me but then at school well talk an then some other people come and i just leave because he ignores me or ill see him in the halls with some other girls(not necessarly flirting) and i get discouraged but he still gives me lots of atention and well for the other guy he likes me and im certain of it because his friends have told me and sometimes hhell text me saying i love u soo much but i try and avoid it so that we wont talk about it ... please help how do i kno if my crush likes me , how do i let my best friend down easy and how do i keep them both from getting torn because i like one and not the other!

 

Hey girl, whew you have a lot going on! Well from what you're telling me it seems like your crush defintely likes you. Just be as nice and clear as you can to the other guy. Let him know you love having him as a friend, but you don't want anything more. As long as you do it gently, he will be okay. Hope this helps ya out! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

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by ~sunshineL0v3~ on 11/19/2011 7:09:55 PM

 
 

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by Integrity on 9/14/2011 7:20:32 PM

 
 



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The guy I like has a girlfriend, AND asked another girl to homecoming as friends! How do I cope?




Hey girlie,

First off, forget about comparing yourself to his GF or his date! So not the way to go. Instead, do things to make yourself happy. Get involved in one of your hobbies, find a gorgeous dress (and/or date haha) to homecoming so you feel confident and GREAT all night long, spend tons of time with your besties and plan ways to meet new guys. And always keep your eyes peeled for your next crush! This one is fine, but he sounds unavailable in more ways than one. It happens - but it doesn't have to get you down Smile Feel better by convincing yourself you are better than him - be happier, have more fun, and be yourself!
Lauren C.

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by lakefairy22 on 8/29/2011 8:58:13 PM

 
 

I am offering up all of my clubs to other people, because I am not in a position to keep them running. Instead of deleting them, I would like to transfer ownership. Here are the ones that are up for grabs:

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The Trauma/Drama of Middle School

just leave a message on my profile

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by basketballcutie11 on 8/22/2011 8:26:52 AM

 
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