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Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

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Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 8/5/2011 7:00:00 AM

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MOD! HELP! i need what ever u got! ok so i currently have a bf and I think i love him but idk he can get clingy sometimes. But then I hav 3 other great guys who wuld love to go out with me. The first I hav history with and he always says tht he fell in love with me and im his one true love basically there's no moving on with this boy. The second ive been friends with forever and ive always liked him and he recently told me he likes me a lot too. Then the third is this older guy i met at our cabin who wants some summer fun without anyone knowing. What do i do?? Do i pick the guy i have history with who says he's in love with me? Do i pick the guy i've liked for ever who likes me too? Or do I have the summer fun i've been waiting for? HELP

Hey girly,
I would say that this is up to you. I can't tell you who is the right guy for you. Just think really hard about it and you're heart will let you know which one to pick. Also, write out a list of reasons why you want to date each guy and why you think they would be a good choice for you. Then use this to help make a choice. Good Luck!


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by paramorebabe on 8/12/2011 10:00:30 AM

 
 



~MOD~I really want to tell this guy Jensen that I like him! We're going into 8th grade. He started out our middle school in 7th grade (so a year without him for me). His first part of it was miserable becuz of bullys (I didn't really know him then or I would have done something). Now he's going to a new school for his 8th grade year. Then in between 8th and 9th he's moving an hour away from our town. He's having a hard time right now, and I don't know if I should tell him! From the moment I first saw him, I knew in my heart that we would have a connction. It wasn't like a normal crush, it as like I knew everything about him in that moment and I felt everything that he felt. I don't know if he has feelings for me, and even if he doesnt i kinda just want them out to make it a little easier. Should I tell him do you think? It would have to be over facebook message tho. Thanks so much I really appreciate it! Smile




I think you should talk to him and get to know him better. If you two get closer, then maybe something will happen! Dont just tell him. Might be awkward. But build up a really close friendship and see where things go. xoxo kerra
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by HAZELELMDUST on 8/11/2011 12:16:19 AM

 
 

Talk about keeping it in the family. I think its fine to date brothers. When you get bored with one or things dont work out, just start dating the other one. It may not be the best but I think doing that can be good because it will make them work hard to please you. Go with the cuter one first.

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by luckykel on 8/9/2011 10:56:31 PM

 
 

Hey girls! If you like to read, write or both could you please join my club "Bookworms & Writers"? I am trying to reach at-least 55 members by the end of the week and right now I'm at 43. I would really appreciate your help! Smile
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by LexilicousCandy on 8/9/2011 10:18:10 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD thers this guy at my church who likes me and ive started to like him too. hes always really sweet and flirty he even held my hand on the bus ride back from the church trip. the only problem is hes fourteen and going to ninth grade and im twelve going to eighth. he doesnt seem to mind but id only see him on sundays and alot of girls like him. he'll be at his high school with girls chasing after him and theres nothing stopping him. is dating him worth the risk?




Hey girlie, if he really likes you then he won't cheat on you. If you think he's a genuine boy who really has feelings for you then you have nothing to worry about. 
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by dancequeen47 on 8/6/2011 12:05:17 PM

 
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