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Two guys like me, and they are brothers! They each asked me out, and I don’t know what to do because both of them are my best friends.

Dear Oh Brother,

Why go out with either of them? You may not need to say anything, but if you feel compelled to speak up try, “I really like being close friends with both of you, and I don’t want that to change.” By not choosing, you are doing them a favor because sibling rivalry can be tricky and hurtful.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 8/5/2011 7:00:00 AM

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So i just found out the other day that one of my guy friends rly like me, he told me over texting, we were in this long and complicated fight kinda thing. (all over texting) and he knows I like this new guy that moved into our neghborhood, next door to me (they're both friends). He asked if I still like him since he told me that he likes me and I said that I do (he was being honest so I wanted to also). he swore he wouldnt tell my crush. We have been texting alot like everyday and now all of a sudden he stopped D: i tried txting him a couple times, once or twice he started answering but kep stopping after about 5 mins. What gives?? he's really cute and my neighbor and we kinda hang out at the pool, now hes not replying to me. I'm on vacation now and have been for about 2 weeks... so help!!

Hey girly,

The fact that he isn't texting you back is because he is hurt that you like this guy, while he really likes you. The best thing you can do is try to schedule some one on one time with your friend and remind him how special he is to you, even if you have feelings for this new guy.

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by jo7jo on 8/5/2011 1:47:55 PM

 
 

@evil_pixie! That was a little rude.... they are brothers, and they are both her BGFs, and they both asked her out... if she said yes to one that could potentially ruin her friendship with the other guy, and his relationship with his brother. That's the problem.

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by fireworks1071 on 8/5/2011 12:30:07 PM

 
 

Oh, what a problem. You have two guys that want to go out with you.

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by evil_pixie! on 8/5/2011 11:58:54 AM

 
 

Hey chicas,If you need advice on anything really I'm here 4 u!I answer questions on topics from boys to hair styles to drawing and much more!!!!!no question is too embarrassing or humiliating so come on down to my advice queen page and you wont be dissapointed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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by artistchic99 on 8/5/2011 10:15:50 AM

 
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