When you think a guy likes you how do you know for sure he's interested? My friends say that guys do certain things when they like you. Like, they act nervous or something. I was wondering what are the dead give away signs a guy likes you.
His Answer: “Guys sometimes act nervous, but that’s mostly just in the movies. If guys actually have a crush on a girl they’ll normally suck up a lot and do whatever the heck the girl wants them to do," advises Nish, 15. "Also, they’ll probably start talking to you more, but unless they’re really confident, they might not flirt, just be nice. And if he seems to be showing up a lot around you lately, he probably likes you."
Decoded: There is, unfortunately, no universal sign that will let you know if your guy is crushing. Just like every boy is different, the way he reveals his feelings is totally unique. But think about this: if you have trouble talking to a cutie, boys have it harder – they’re expected to make the first move. It wouldn’t be unreasonable for any dude to get nervous around his crush, but he also might try and be nice – sweet compliments, carrying your books, asking how you’re doing: those can all be signs he’s looking for love.
The real trick is seeing if he acts differently around other girls. If he ignores your friends but pays lots of attention to you, it can mean you’re special to him. If you have feelings for him, try and reciprocate
. It’ll make him more comfortable and encourage him to make a move. And if you just can’t wait? Don’t be afraid to ask-- guys love a straightforward, honest babe much more than a chica who just likes to play games.
BY SARAH GOLDBERG ON 8/23/2011 7:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, how to get a BF, how to flirt, crush crash course