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Should I take revenge on my school crush screamer?

 

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I told a guy in my class that I like his friend. He screamed it across the cafeteria, and a lot of kids heard. I want to teach that loud boy a lesson because he really hurt my feelings. What should I do?

 

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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/13/2011 12:00:00 AM

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This guy is giving me major mixed signals. We've only met once but everyone said that it was so obvious how "into me" he was. So a couple days later, we texted for awhile and he was kinda flirty. But then, he wouldn't answer for 2 weeks & it was kinda a boring convo. Any ideas why? We live 6 hours away from each other so it sucks..




Hey girlie,

It could be that he was trying to get to know you and didn't feel like you two "clicked" that well, or he met another girl that he has a crush on, or just that he decided the distance between you two would never have worked. And it's true, it might've been hard to date if you live so far away and can never see each other! Since you've tried to get back in touch and it kinda flopped, I would probably stop trying. But you can use this as motivation to meet new guys who are easier to chat with/see every day/date!! 
Lauren C.

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by wehkamp96 on 10/13/2011 8:59:50 PM

 
 

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by naomi<3 on 10/13/2011 7:43:49 PM

 
 



mod mod mod today after school a boy who likes me was trying to throw his half full water bottle in the trash but he missed so i picked it up n he followed me n he was like whatr u doing what what so i opened the bottle n turned around n i threw a lil water at him. he got rly mad n started cursing at me but the water was like the size of a golf ball n he was far away so half of it landed on the floor. and it only landed just below the collar of his short and it dried in two minutes after i cleaned the floor! i dont get why he was so mad and im going to try to apologize tom but i still dont get why he's so mad! MOD MOD MOD MOD!




Hey girlie,

People don't like being disrespected, and other people find all sorts of things to be offensive when we think they're ok! I think he was upset A) because you saw him miss the shot (it's a pride thing) and B) because you threw the water at him, which he didn't find funny but, instead, found embarrassing. It might seem irrational, but this gives ya a clue about what his sense of humor is like! Now you know for next time. But yes, definitely apologize so you can get things back on track Smile
Lauren C.

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by musicqt4753 on 10/13/2011 6:39:54 PM

 
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