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I’m pretty sure my friend’s BF is using her. I want to tell her, but I’m afraid she’ll take it the wrong way. What’s the best way to handle it?
 
Bill: Instead of outright accusing her boy of bad behavior, subtly suggest that he might not be the dream dude she deserves. If she asks you to elaborate, just say you’ve heard some things that she should talk to her guy about. Hopefully, she’ll come to her own conclusions about him.

Dave: No matter how much your friend respects you, she’ll never dump this guy until the truth stares her in the face. You can ask her questions and hint around, but this is one sitch she needs to figure out for herself. Just make sure you’re there for her when the inevitable breakup happens.
 
 
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BY BILL AND DAVE ON 9/5/2011 7:00:00 AM

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MOD!!!! ok super sorry this is long but I will try and keep it short! So me and my Bgf told eachother in July we liked eachother his exact words were"I wish you would have told me sooner" all I said was I hope this dosent change anything between us. I didn't until about august. Things were really smears and just recently we have been talking through text like it's nothing. Just like we use to. But when I see him I get all flustered and I just wish I could talk to him like i use to be able to. I see him in the hallways and always say hi to him but he just smiles. I feel he might think Im following him but today at lunch he said hi we hugged like we haven't seen eachother in forever but we didn't say anything and I said bye when I left lunch. Can things ever be the same? If he does break up with his gf and goes out with me should I say yes or am I just a 2nd choice? Do you think he might think I'm following him? Please help!!! Does he still like me? (sorry it's so long!)

 

Hey chica, things do kinda change when romantic feelings get involved, but if you guys work hard enough at it, you can get things back to how they used to be. Start doing the things you guys used to do together again. If you still want to date him after he's done with his girlfriend, do it. He might've thought you were following him, but if he didn't give you any weird looks or say anything then maybe he didn't. Hope this helps ya girl!!!! Smile

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by Integrity on 9/14/2011 7:17:56 PM

 
 

my ex and i dated for 8 days. right after he asked me out he kissed me. he was my first boyfriend so it was a little too fast for me. over the next week he kept pushing and pushing for me to kiss him. i am a super strong Christian and God was telling me to put a boundary on kissing. when i told him, he freaked out and we broke up. now for the past 6 months he's treated me like crap and has made sexual comments when he was talking to me and was commenting on my body. he recently started dating one of my really close friends. she's like a sister to me and i'm scared he's dating her because he knows she will go as far as he wants her to. i don't want her getting used like i felt like i was. what do i do? she has liked him for a year and a half and want her to be happy

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by godsgirl94 on 9/13/2011 5:06:44 PM

 
 

I would do a combination of their advice.... maybe mention it once to your friend, but unless it really will cause her lasting pain, let her figure it out. It's her life, and unless you're sure of it, don't point fingers..
Mackenzie

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by actress456 on 9/10/2011 3:33:12 PM

 
 

I would do a combination of their advice.... maybe mention it once to your friend, but unless it really will cause her lasting pain, let her figure it out. It's her life, and unless you're sure of it, don't point fingers..
Mackenzie

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by actress456 on 9/10/2011 3:31:36 PM

 
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