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Am I too young to be in love?



How do I know if I'm in love? My friends always say that they love with their crushes or BFs, but my mom says 13 is too young to be in love. Is she right?
 
Before ya do anything else, as yourself this, chica: am I really old enough to be worrying about love? You're 13, not even in high school yet, and your friends are declaring love for boys that may not even know they exist, or they only hold hands with in the halls? I don't know about you, girlie, but I don't think that sounds like they really love those guys. You should be worrying about acing your classes and having fun with your besties. Guys are wonderful and all, but being truly in love with them shouldn't be your biggest concern right now.
 
Your mom is totes right about 13 being too young to be in love. You haven't completely figured out who you are and what you want in life. Plus, love takes a long time to develop -- not just one week of going out, or seeing your cutie in class for two months. Sure, you can really like a guy and gush to your BFFs about how completely adorable and amazing he is, but love at 13 is totally too young to truly know if you're in love.
 

BY KELLY MYSLINSKI ON 9/7/2011 7:00:00 AM

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I am only 11 and in the 5th grade, and people are already dating in my class. I'm not - even though I can totally telll several boys are checking me out.

by Sarah510 on 4/21/2012 1:17:17 PM

 
 

I think 13 is too young to be in love. BUT it is VERY possible to truly be in love at a young age. Not 13 mind you, but you CAN love some one at a young age. IF they are the person God created for you. Smile

by babycat440 on 12/15/2011 8:22:28 PM

 
 

I think there is a part of us that can be in love at 13, then there is a part of us that cant. But I think there are people who can understand what it is to a point. I have a bf and love him but I am not sure if its the same love I would have if I were much older.

by luckykel on 12/11/2011 11:58:54 PM

 
 


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So there is this guy and his is like my best friend. He is like a brother to me. He knows everything about me and we are always together. We flirt A LOT. Everybody always comments on it or tells us to stop flirting. Multiple people ask us if we're going out or if we like each other. It happens everyday. So I think he might like me. I really like him. But he has known for sure that I liked him before and he didn't ask me out or anything. Does he like me or is he just being a really good friend? And if he does like me, how do I get him to ask me out?


 


Lynae P.

by spunkygirl03 on 12/7/2011 5:39:13 PM

 
 

OMG! Love doesn't have an AGE LIMIT!

by toadie101 on 10/22/2011 12:34:23 PM

 
 

Kids don't have a clue what love is! 19 is the age I 'd say you acctually know what love is ;)

by cindy5218 on 10/11/2011 2:24:12 PM

 
 

Gosh, I think love doesn't have an age.
I fell in love, and I'm 13. And that's for sure. And you just know.
When someone says they "love" someone. They do.
But when you're in love with someone... It means something stronger (I think.)
But I don't think being in love at 13 is impossible.
It really isn't.

by wealltryy on 10/1/2011 7:43:36 PM

 
 

my first BF was in 2nd grade and we never offically broke up (me and my friends chased him around the play ground so we counted that as breaking up..... wow..... no wonder im so stange!) and one day we were playing sparkle (that spelling game where one person says a letter and the next etc.) and my hands were in my pockets and i felt something in my pocket it was the note he gave me saying he liked me it had gone through the wash a ton of times and it was just crinkled and i recycled it(mother nature need love!... even if it is dead.) and now i regret it , i dont like him but he put hard work into that (it had little hearts!) and i could show it to my children (i will most likely say it was from highschool though not 2nd grade.) LOL

by madsterw1 on 9/24/2011 10:06:31 AM

 
 

im only 10 years old and in love with the only totally crazy 5th grader. am i too young to be in love?

by mj10 on 9/21/2011 2:55:37 PM

 
 

actually your mom is totes WRONG lol Tong

by loveTC247 on 9/20/2011 4:21:31 PM

 
 



MOD!i have a bf were in the same grade same class my mom allows me to have bfs he's a bad boy-ish guy but anways, idk if were going too fast! well its probably because all my past not serious bfs never, well, would hangout with me but he does! he just walks up to me at lunch and sits down beside me! i dont even tell him 2! and he flirts with me alot he's rly sweet behind his badboy rep but we were swinging together with another couple we were swinging sidewayish me going forward and him swing sideways in front of me facing me and we would give eachother high fives and fist pounds on the swings and he uses body language too, like when he's not around me he uses 2 straps on his bookbag(isnt he weird Smile) and when he's around me he uses one and he kinda puts his arm around my back and hugs me but not long i dont think were going too fast but i want to be sure!(now that i've read this i think im overreacting but ya never know)




Hey girlie,

Nah you're not overreacting! It's good to think about your relationship and make sure you're not pushing it faster than it should go. But it sounds like you two are just clicking really well and enjoying each other's company, that's all! If it ever feels like it's going too fast - he wants to kiss you or touch in some way and you feel uncomfortable with it - make sure you speak up. You should never do anything you don't want to. But this just sounds like you get along great, you want to spend time with each other, and you're enjoying the ride. That's exactly how relationships are supposed to be - fun with a person you really care about! Smile 
Lauren C.

by peanut0327 on 9/17/2011 11:07:53 PM

 
 



mod mod mod
I'm only 11 and i have a bf he's amazing but in a note he told me he loved me what do i say none of my friends like him but their supportive but i don't know how to talk to anyone he amazing i really like him but please help.




Hey girlie,

Your friends' feelings are not the ones that matter right now - it's YOURS that are the question! Do you think you love him? Remember there's a big difference between "really liking him" and loving him... and it's not wrong if you don't quite share his strong feelings yet. You should acknowledge the note, but don't feel pressured to tell him you love him if you actually don't. Thank him for the note and tell him it was really sweet, for example. But don't ever say something you don't mean! Smile 
Lauren C.

by icegirl123 on 9/17/2011 9:33:54 PM

 
 

Think about it this way. At thirteen years old, you still have your whole life ahead of you. You are going to meet countless of other guys. It doesn't make any sense to declare your love for one guy at such a young age because most likely, it won't last. It's probably just a huge crush. I highly doubt you are really, truly in love.

by jo_crox on 9/12/2011 11:34:55 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
i liked this guy last year and things didnt really work out...we never even went out. Since school has started i have been thinking about him more and more maybe its just cuz my summer romance didnt work out... i talked to him for the first time since april and he responded rite away with a smiley face. i told him it was nice talking to him again and he said its nice talking to u again 2... do u think i should go for it and does he sound interested or just friendly? thanx Smile




Hey sweetie! 

This is a difficult sitch to interpret since you're texting this guy. Instead of texting, why don't you ask him to hang out with you after school so you can get to know each other face-to-face? Since you'll get to read his body language and listen to his tone of voice, you'll get a much better idea of how he feels about you! Have fun, xoxo!   
Devin A.

by neversaynever1 on 9/12/2011 4:34:28 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
i liked this guy last year and things didnt really work out...we never even went out. Since school has started i have been thinking about him more and more maybe its just cuz my summer romance didnt work out... i talked to him for the first time since april and he responded rite away with a smiley face. i told him it was nice talking to him again and he said its nice talking to u again 2... do u think i should go for it and does he sound interested or just friendly? thanx Smile




Hey sweetie! 

This is a difficult sitch to interpret since you're texting this guy. Instead of texting, why don't you ask him to hang out with you after school so you can get to know each other face-to-face? Since you'll get to read his body language and listen to his tone of voice, you'll get a much better idea of how he feels about you! Have fun, xoxo!   

Devin A. Devin A.

by neversaynever1 on 9/12/2011 4:33:38 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
i liked this guy last year and things didnt really work out...we never even went out. Since school has started i have been thinking about him more and more maybe its just cuz my summer romance didnt work out... i talked to him for the first time since april and he responded rite away with a smiley face. i told him it was nice talking to him again and he said its nice talking to u again 2... do u think i should go for it and does he sound interested or just friendly? thanx Smile




Hey sweetie! 

This is a difficult sitch to interpret since you're texting this guy. Instead of texting, why don't you ask him to hang out with you after school so you can get to know each other face-to-face? Since you'll get to read his body language and listen to his tone of voice, you'll get a much better idea of how he feels about you! Have fun, xoxo!  
Devin A.

by neversaynever1 on 9/12/2011 4:32:23 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!
i liked this guy last year and things didnt really work out...we never even went out. Since school has started i have been thinking about him more and more maybe its just cuz my summer romance didnt work out... i talked to him for the first time since april and he responded rite away with a smiley face. i told him it was nice talking to him again and he said its nice talking to u again 2... do u think i should go for it and does he sound interested or just friendly? thanx Smile




Hey babe! 

Boys can be so confusing over text - this is a sitch that can go either way. Instead of texting him, why don't you invite him to hang out with you after school one day? Since you'll get to hear his tone of voice and read his body language, you'll get a better hold on how he feels. Good luck!  
Devin A.

by neversaynever1 on 9/12/2011 4:28:39 PM

 
 

I beg to differ. I don't think there's a 'certain age' when you can officially fall in love. I don't think 3 year olds can fall in love, but I think 13 year olds can. I am thirteen and I've been in love once, when I was twelve. I've had other crushes since then, even huge crushes, but never in love again. It can also depend on your definition of love. Devin A.

by pamina9 on 9/12/2011 4:13:51 PM

 
 


MOD!!!
So I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. I love him, we're like best friends. I have a problem though. I like my best guy friend also. My boyfriend knows about it, but isn't mad. He told me that he feels like he doesn't deserve me and my best guy friend does. I feel like I want something new and exciting but I don't want to lose what I have with my boyfriend. I'm so confused.. please help.


 


Hey chica! Maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break so you can figure out what you really want. It's not a healthy relationship if you openly like someone else...


xxx


Becca G.

by jobrofan34 on 9/11/2011 7:20:23 PM

 
 


MOD MOD MOD
Last night, my BFF invited a boy over to meet us at store
across the street from her house. He brought 2 friends but
we werent allowed to cross the street because it was past
curfew. So they sat on one side of the road and we sat on the other and talked (i know stupid right?) well I went inside to get my phone and when I went back out the boys were in her yard and one was my crush of 3 years! My friends were REALLY embarassing and acting like spazes. I
just stayed quiet in the back and laughed a little. Did I completley blow my chances of ever being with him? Does he just think im a spaz to? I didnt talk to him or anything. This is killing me please help.


Hey chickadee! I definitely don't think you blew your chances just by that one encounter! Next time, try talking to him when it's just you, rather than all your friends around Smile


xxx


 Becca G.


Becca G.

by luvdance13 on 9/11/2011 7:15:10 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD!! Okay, so i reallyyy like this guy, and he likes me too! He's super cute and awesome, but he's really mad at me right now. We were somewhere together with some friends and he said he felt like i was avoiding him. i didn't mean for him to think that, but i just wanted to make things easier for him. well, when he was leaving, he came up to me and he said that it was upsetting that i wouldn't talk to him, and that he had been looking forward to seeing me. :/ then he walked off, ignoring me when i shouted sorry. did i screw everything up? is there anything i an do to get him to forgive me? like what's a good "I'm sorry" present? Thanks!




Hey girl,

You don't need to get him a present! Give him a tiny bit of time to cool off, then try sending him a text/giving him a call to tell him you're sorry it seemed like you were ignoring him. Try to let him know you had his best interests at heart - maybe you didn't want to come on too strong or bother him by talking to him the whole day, so you backed off a little. But tell him (even though it might be a lil intimidating) that you like him and you really enjoy talking to him, so you feel really bad that he's upset. This should set things back to the way they were - and even gives you a great opportunity to tell him straight out that you like him Smile 
Lauren C.

by happyness101 on 9/11/2011 12:24:24 AM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! So I like this guy and I was way to obvious, and apparently he likes me too, so last night he asked me out. I was hesitating to say yes, but I did and it feels sort of awkward. We are in eight grade, and I don't wanna break up with him.. I just feel so weird! Any advice on how to feel less strange?




Ask yourself what is making you feel so weird about the whole thing.




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by lizcassie on 9/10/2011 11:40:39 AM

 
 



MOD!!
So theres this guy, and he is amazing, the kindest sweetest guy i have ever met. We are going on our official "first date" tomorrow, although we have been friends for a long time and have been out before, but always more as friends than anything else. We were cuddling watching a movie the other day at his house, and he was going to kiss me but his mom walked in.
So now that it is pretty clear that he is going to kiss me on our date, some of my friends think we should wait and take things slower. I feel like we are ready, and we are definetley not little kids anymore, but it will be our fist kiss as a couple, and i want it to be special, not rushed. Are my friends right, should we wait?




Hey girlie,

If you feel like you're ready, and he feels like he's ready, then nobody else's opinion matters! Your friends will always have opinions about this or that in your life, but what matters is how you feel about them. As you said, you've known him for a long time and this has been building over time. If it feels right for your first kiss and he goes for it, enjoy it and don't worry about what everyone else has said <3 
Lauren C.

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by *MusicGirl16* on 9/9/2011 9:05:25 PM

 
 

I think you can be in love at 13, I think the issue is if its smart to be in love at 13. And I think a lot of the times we think its love it isnt so I would try to hold out if you can. You can really care for someone and you can be physically attracted to a guy and our hormones can make us think we are in love but a lot of the times I just dont think its love.

Plus look at guys, the younger ones arent even very mature and a lot of the older ones have issues to.

My cousin thought she was in love at 13. Got on birth control pills and now she is on her 3rd or 4th bf, I cant even keep up anymore. So your heart can be dangerous.

by luckykel on 9/9/2011 4:34:08 PM

 
 

I disagree. I'm in love, and I'm 15.

by misfitsfreaks on 9/9/2011 12:46:41 AM

 
 

MODMODMOD
There was this person that I liked, and they were one of my best friends. I told them I liked them, and things became awkward. I tried fixing the situation with them, but the awkwardness got in the way. Many months later, I still wonder what would have happened if we were still friends. Is it worth it to try talking to them one more time?

 

Hey girl,

Why not? You've wisely let some time pass, so try texting them and just saying "hey, listen...i know i made things awkward before and i am so sorry i messed things up. i don't feel that way anymore and really miss being friends. any chance we could catch up sometime?" Just see what happens. There's no guarantee they'll say yes, but it's worth a try to get things back to normal <3

Lauren C.

by pamina9 on 9/8/2011 4:25:39 PM

 
 

Most of the time what girls are feeling is NOT love. I've had many crushes that I have said I "loved". But love is more than that, it's when you can't go a day without thinking about them, it's when you can't imagine life without them, it's when you remember everything about them and never want to let go. It's when you know that you would die for this person. You will feel different about him than any other crush, and he can make you forget the problems, just by smiling. You can talk to eachother for hours and never get bored, that is what love is. Yes I am 13, yes I am in love, and no it's not fake.

by skf97 on 9/8/2011 4:17:24 PM

 
 

I think they mean if you've only known them a couple of months and just text him or chat, you don't really love him. I have a friend who would post on her BF's wall and say I love you and she was 15, he would say I love you baby forever, one time he told her that and six hours later they broke up and she wasn't even sad. But I can see dating and actually spending time to truly get to know them, I can see someone falling in love then. I don't want to date until i'm at least 18. I don't want to be so obsessed with a guy that I ditch my family, friends, and just be "heart broken" when he breaks up with me.

by graciecab on 9/7/2011 10:21:22 PM

 
 

My first boy friend was in the fourth grade and we went out for 7 months. when your in love you know it!

by koolkatmn on 9/7/2011 10:17:49 PM

 
 

When i was thirteen (last year) i dated a guy for 6 months and i definitely loved him. Lot's of my friends actually loved the people they dated. There isn't a certain age for love. but if you've only talked to the guy once or twice i don't think you love him. One thing that bothers me is when people are going out for a day and say i love you cause they probably don't mean it. MY OPINION.

by cgirl751 on 9/7/2011 9:00:52 PM

 
 

I disagree. I didn't know just because of your 13 doesn't mean you don't know what you're feeling.

by purpleputty on 9/7/2011 8:47:04 PM

 
 

I used to think that teenage love was stupid. But now that I'm in love, I realize that it sometimes is real. A lot of people declare it just so they can claim to be in love. I was reluctant at first, not wanting to be a teenager in love. But I had to admit it. I think that being in love depends on the person, the relationship. Not the age.

by wolfgirl13 on 9/7/2011 8:46:06 PM

 
 

hey Im in 6th grade and i have a crush who likes me back Im scared that he will ask me to our school dance this friday! i don't want to hurt his feelings when i say no because my parents don't want me to go to the dance with anyone. how should I say no?

by mthurman on 9/7/2011 8:43:06 PM

 
 

MOD! I have a problem. I've liked this guy for more than a year, and we've been able to talk when not at school and he flirts with me all the time, but we both get a little tongue-tied, especially him. He seems to be distracted and sometimes doesn't even see me or acts like it, I don't know. All we can do is say hi and not much else. He might be nervous, or shy, or maybe he just doesn't want to talk to me. What's his deal?

 

Hey chicky, aww it just seems like he gets really nervous when talking to you. Him getting tongue-tied just shows that he's trying to say the right thing to you but can't get the right words. Give him a chance girl! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by coconutkittycat on 9/7/2011 8:38:17 PM

 
 

My mom met the man she married when she was 13. I met the man I plan on marrying when I was 15. There is no minimum age to fall in love. Some people may just be mature enough to handle true love before others are. Two of my best friends are engaged (he's 18 and she's 17) they're getting married sometime after she turns 18 in January. They've been together since they were 15, and they are more in love than any older couple I've ever seen. One of my other best friends wears a promise ring her boyfriend gave her, and they plan on getting married/engaged sometime after she's done with high school. It really just depends on the person. I wear a promise ring my boyfriend gave me. We're not engaged, but it's a promise to ourselves that we will do anything for our love and each other. He's made me a better person, and I'm in love with him.

by rockinlishy on 9/7/2011 8:26:47 PM

 
 

Mod Mod Mod Today my Best friend invited me and her other 2 friends to hang out and walk around the "Down Town" area on Friday where there's a bunch of stores and thats where everyone goes on the weekend to hang out. I told my mom but she's a little uneasy about me going because I'm only 12 and in 7th grade. Last year my mom said i could go in 7th grade. It's close to my school and my friends house and our town isn't that big but i really want to go.My brother went in 7th grade and he was fine. How can i convince her to let me go?

 

Hey chica, maybe you should have your friend's parents call your mom to assure her that you guys will be safe. After she hears where you guys will be and what you'll be doing from an adult, she should be okay with her. Also be sure to keep your phone on so your mom can call or text whenever she feels she needs to. Hope this helps ya!! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by teamjacob3236 on 9/7/2011 7:56:06 PM

 
 

lol Juliet was 13 when she fell in love with romeo in the book...

by decklandog on 9/7/2011 7:50:29 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I kind of like my boyfriends best friend and he said he kind of likes me to. But, my BFF said that breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend isn't really a good choice. Is she right? I like my boyfriends best friend more then I like my boyfriend I think. I'm so confused! What should I do? I'm going crazy! Please help! Briana

 

Hey chica, yeah I think your BFF is right. Just think about how much you would hurt your boyfriend's feelings if you dumped him for his best friend. I think you should break things off with your boyfriend, if you can't control your feelings for his bestfriend. You wouldn't want anyone to do that to you right? So it might be best to distance yourself from him. Hope this helps ya! Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by JBfan97 on 9/7/2011 7:37:24 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Ok say i have 2 things. 1. I agree that 13 is way too young to say the words "I love you" to a guy. Trust me guys are not really worth it! And 2. I like my BGF but I'm not sure if he likes me back. Well we talk to each other 24/7, he stares at me, we flirt with each, etc. But the problem is he's supposed to date this other girl this year. Please help I don't know if I should ask him out or just stay friends? thx! Smile

 

Hey chica, I agree with you on your first point. I think maybe you guys should stay friends for now. It seems like you guys have such a good friendship going and you wouldn't want to ruin it with romance. And he also likes another girl, so maybe you could wait until he's done with her. How does this sound? Let me know!! Smile

Lynae P.

by Jackie98 on 9/7/2011 7:19:56 PM

 
 

modmodmod- i've liked my crush for about 4 years now and i wanna ask him out but i don't trust people and i take things (like rejection) hard (because i'm depressed) and i'm afraid of what would happen if he said no and i'm really shy so i don't even know how/what to say... my friends think he MIGHT like me. please help!

 

Hey chica, I know rejection can defintely be hard to accept sometimes. But you have to remember EVERYONE gets rejected, I'm sure your crush has even been rejected. I think you should try talking to him. Holding conversations can give you an idea of how he feels about you. During your conversation see if he flirts at all, this will help you know. Hope this helps!!! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by SuperSquirrel on 9/7/2011 6:55:49 PM

 
 

MOD MOD so i'm finally over my ex (YAY!) and have moved on. i now like the guy, he's in 3 of my classes plus lunch and we talk a lot. he'll steal my drink (normally it's a bottle of juice) my gum or poke me and all of this isn't in a mean way. he calls me kenny, which is one of my nicknames from a while ago, too. however, he's a past fling from last summer, and this summer when he said he liked me a little i turned him down because i still liked my ex. what do i do? i really am starting to like him..but what signs do you think he's sending? thanks in advance!<3

 

Hey chicky, he obviously likes you! I think you should make a move! Smile Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by mckenna1234 on 9/7/2011 6:55:38 PM

 
 

fyi i think around 11 or 12 is when you really start to have serious feelings about someone according to the comments on this article (myself included) most seem to be 11 or 12

by loveTC247 on 9/7/2011 6:28:47 PM

 
 

What gives them the right to tell us when we can and can't be in love? @pinkandlime i TOTALLY agree with u Smile
P.S. if this were a video on youtube there would be a huge dislike bar

by loveTC247 on 9/7/2011 6:27:36 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD I really like a guy at school. I have 1st && 2nd period with him, my friend said he was staring at me in class..he's been looking at me for a while now, do u think he likes me? pls helpSmile

 

Hey chica, I think he might! If your friend knows him get them to introduce you to him! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by rawrhannah10 on 9/7/2011 6:19:51 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD Im in middle school, and alot of my bffs have bfs, and like all they do is hug and hold hands and stuff (the most serious thing that ever happened was one of my bffs got a kiss on the cheek at study hall). a guy asked me out, and i really like him, but i still hav doubts if i am old enogh 2 hav a bf. What do u think? plz plz plz answer!!!

 

Hey girly, I think it's ok to have a bf in middle school, especially if you guys aren't serious. He'd be more like a guy you really really like than a serious boyfriend. Let me know what you think! Smile

Lynae P.

by fashionfairy on 9/7/2011 6:12:12 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD I have a crush on a guy and he talks to me a lot, makes me laugh, and is in 4 of my classes!!(: (and I sit next to him in 2 of them.) Anyway, I asked my friend to ask him if I asked him out, what he would say and he said no. But I'm really confused about if he likes me or not :\ What do you think I should do? Thanks Mod. Much love <3

 

Hey chicky, aww I think this guy just likes you as a friend. Which is good! Think about it like this: guys will always have girlfriends, that come in and out of their lives, but their friends will always be there. So you'll always be in his life! Hope this helps ya!! Smile Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by birdgirly11 on 9/7/2011 6:01:42 PM

 
 

i definitely think its possible to be in love at a young age. my grandpa fell in love with my grandma when he was thirteen and now they've been married for 50 years! i dont think im in love with anyone right now ( im 13 ) but i do think i have a really really big crush on someone right now

by tswiftluver13 on 9/7/2011 5:30:45 PM

 
 

Love is probably possible at every age, but I don't think you can love your crush, or a boy you haven't been with for AT LEAST 6 months. I am 16 and I love someone very special. We've dated for over 2 years now and I am very blessed. We were each other's first date (best night ever), first kiss (which was in the rain), first dance, etc. My advice to all the girls would be to wait till high school to date, and save yourself for someone very special.

by sailingintothesun on 9/7/2011 5:18:20 PM

 
 

Mod mod mod I'm super confused!!! Matt was sitting with me in studyhall and asked me what I was doing for the Halloween dance. I said I was going with my friends and he was like okay. Well let's talk on myspace later. I talked with him over myspace and asked him what we we're gonna do for the Halloween dance. He was like um what do u mean we? Then I was like are ya gonna go in jo's group and I'm going in kirsten's? I'm soo confused and embarrassed I thought that when he asked me that we were going together but maybe I was wrong? What do you think? Thank you!!!! Confused in conneticut! East coast rules!!!!!!! :<}

 

Hey girlfriend, I have defintely been here before. Guys can be soo confusing at times. I would've been thinking the same thing if I were you. Mhmm maybe he just wanted to know how or where you were celebrating Halloween. Don't be embarassed, you just got a little confused no biggie. Smile Smile Smile

 

Lynae P.

by Callie646 on 9/7/2011 5:10:53 PM

 
 

MOD *Please Reply* Ok so I know that 13 is a little young to be "in love", but how young would you say is too young to have a BF. Nothing serious or anything, just holding hands and stuff. Maybe a hug or two. That's about it though. So what do you think? PLZ ANSWER!!!

 

Hey chica, yea I think that's okay. There's nothing wrong with hanging around a guy you like. As long as you guys aren't getting too serious you're cool. Smile Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by xXMissBehavedXx on 9/7/2011 5:08:50 PM

 
 

I disagree. I think any age is old enough to be in love... maybe some people have different views on what love actually is, but as I always say.. Age is just a number

by icecreamsandwich13 on 9/7/2011 4:50:30 PM

 
 

Possible? Yes. Likely? No. If your friends are anything like mine were back in middle school, it is SO not love, lol.

But i think there's different types of love. You can like someone sooo much that you kinda do love them and you list off all the things about them you love and think they're so perfect (or maybe perfect for you). Then I think there's another type of love, and this one is more real to me. You feel something totally different from anything else about this person, and you might not realize it at first. You'd do anything for this person (not just say it) and their friendship is really important to you, like if a relationship doesn't work out you'd still care and want to be there for them. You really care about them and notice all the small things about them, and things like that....now i'm not saying I've ever been in love, but from what I know, well, this is what I know, lol...and I think I'm falling into some sort of itSmile

by pinkandlime on 9/7/2011 4:49:45 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD ok so i have a little guy issue. so there this guy in both my french and p.e. class and hes been acting kinda strange wen ever i c him. like wen im walking w/ my friends and i pass him and his friends in the hall he seems to stop talking and jst gives me this look and seem kinda dazed. he will also touch his face, ear, and itch his neck(at 1st i thought he really did have an itch-now im not so sure)flip his hair and straighten his shirt in french wen ever i look at him. i will also catch him giving me quick glances and he'll sometimes smile at me (he doesnt really smile. only wen he w/ his buds) and kindaturn red. ive kinda had a crush on him for the past 3 yrs now and he is pretty cute. my bffs say hes prob intrested but im not so sure. do u think he is, and if so how should i respond?! thnxx! Smile

 

Hey missy, HE IS DEFINTELY INTERESTED IN YOU!!!!  Just think, he always stares at you, fixes his clothes, and gets nervouse and akward. If you like him you should try flirting and starting a conversation with him. I'm pretty sure he'd like that lol. Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by erynn14 on 9/7/2011 4:45:21 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD**************PLEASE ANSWER Ok me and my boyfriend have been together a little over 3 months and he's kissed me a few times. The thing is...I don't really like kissing him...I mean, I want to kiss him but it's almost as if one of us is a bad kisser. I don't know who it is, but I don't like it. I do really want to kiss him but I want to like kissing him. I don't know what to do. And yes, I'm 13 and I love my boyfriend and I don't want anyone telling me I can't because you can't set an age for being in love like you do for driver's liscences and voting. Anyway, can you please help me? Thanks! Smile

 

Hey chicky, kissing can be a mature and tricky thing. You're soo young so that's why it's a little akward. Maybe if you guys take a break from kissing, and come back to it, you both will be more comfortable and it will get better. Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by nobody25 on 9/7/2011 4:22:25 PM

 
 

I thought this was the perfect page to write this: Even though you barely know me....... I LOVE YOU DALTON! hopefully he never gets on this website.....

by softballismyBFF on 9/7/2011 4:04:58 PM

 
 

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by xXMissBehavedXx on 9/7/2011 3:58:37 PM

 
 

MODMODMOD so I really really like this guy in my class and have for a couple years. He asked me out and is currently waiting for a response. He's a total sweetheart, funny, caring, and smart. The only problem is that he's an athiest and I'm a Christian. We never had a fight or conversation about it but it does kind of bother me. My last ex-boyfriend was an athiest too and we'd fight about it all the time. I want to say yes soo bad but its holding me back because I'm afraid it will turn out the same way my last relationship did or give me problems down ther road. Is it harder to date someone that doesn't share your same beliefs? Should I not date him? Help!

 

Hey chica, religious beliefs can become an issue in a relationship. It can be avoided, but if it's really important to to each person than it can start to be a problem. However I still think you should give this guy a chance. Every boy is different, so your religious views may not be a problem with him. You'll never know if you don't try! Smile Smile Smile

Lynae P.

by incognitogirl95 on 9/7/2011 3:55:08 PM

 
 

@smileitsjulia

I totally agree with you. There is no age.

by Meeshmeesh on 9/7/2011 3:54:42 PM

 
 

i disagree. i think its okay to love someone just as long as you dont do anything crazy for him or change yourself to be with him. if you love him then get him to notice you for you and as long as he loves you for you and you love him for him nothing can go wrong.

by FairyKari on 9/7/2011 3:52:55 PM

 
 

I disagree. I've never gone out with the boy I love. I've know him for..jeez... 8 years now. I LOVE him. I don't a crush on him, I don't like like him, I LOVE HIM. I LOVE PATRICK. I'm 12. And you might say I'm an exception for knowing for so long, but its not like were BFFs, we've actually been "enemies" since kindergarten. So, your wrong. There is no age minimum on love. I know what I want to do, and where I want to go to college. And I'm in love. Age is but a number.

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by facebooker1240 on 9/7/2011 2:05:50 PM

 
 

I think 13's to young. I have a BF and were not in love we really like each other. My BFF was dating this total player and he said to her he loved her 2 days after they became BF/GF. she broke up with Him right there. The worst part is he told me he has told all his GF's he's loves them!

by Deedles1621 on 9/7/2011 10:56:10 AM

 
 

I disagree..i think that it doesn't matter how old you are, i say "love" all the time but most of the time im just playing around when im talking to my friends (i'll be like "I loveeee *name*)and one of my friends is like "you shouldn't be saying love at your age"! im 11 and shes 12. i still think if i love someone people shouldn't say its not true just because my age only I know if i love someone.

by NeverSayNeverGirl on 9/7/2011 9:16:42 AM

 
 

Then how old do you have to be to fall in love?

by kewauneegal on 9/7/2011 7:52:48 AM

 
 

thats how i make my heart with my hands!

by artsgurl983 on 9/7/2011 7:31:17 AM

 
 

to me, 13 is wayyyyy too young to say that. u may luv some1, but ur not in luv with them. it annoys me wen my friends say that. they'r just not mature enuff rite now

by artsgurl983 on 9/7/2011 7:30:54 AM

 
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