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Dear Positive/Negative Sounds human to me. Everyone’s confidence goes up and down, and everyone feels insecure at times. To strengthen your self-esteem, do things that make you proud. Deepen friendships, build skills, volunteer, be helpful, play sports, whatever you love to do. In the fall, get the best grades you can. And practice listening to the little voice that says, “Way to go!” rather than the one that says “That was lame.”
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 9/10/2011 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN puberty, life, dealing with depression, self-esteem, identity, bad habit, advice from Carol Weston
Everyone calls me negative or goth because Im supa quiet in class we wear uniforms and so my attire is very limited but people still call me goth how do I change their minds IM NOT NEGATIVE OR GOTH
by llamaglitz on 4/22/2012 5:58:30 PM
Mod! I need to lose weight, and i know most of my weight is muscle, which I think looks like crap, especially on me. I always feel like if I work out, I'll gain muscle. How do I lose weight and lose muscle?? Side note, I've been struggling with an eating disorder, so restricting my food intake is probably not a good idea. Also, eating too much is a bad idea because then I want to purge. I need to know how to lose weight while being healthy. Thanks! Hey babe, If you want to make your body leaner rather than build up chunky muscle, start focusing on cardio and stretching/yoga. Take a look here for food ideas:
http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/01/04/meal-makeovers.aspx
by ickiemickie3 on 4/21/2012 7:52:09 PM
by raven.y on 2/27/2012 3:56:54 AM
Hey Madistar<3, just be sure you're constantly surrounding yourself with positivity. Your friends sound supportive, so continue hanging with them. Watch tv and movies that make you happy and listen to music that makes you feel good. Start doing hobbies and activities that you like too. Hopefully these will help your attitude! Xoxo MOD MOD MOD!!!! I need help.Well, you see sometimes i feel like I'm free will, and love everything about life. Other days im not. Sometimes i feel im too fat, my friends tell me I'm not, and that i only wiegh 97 lbs, and that that is little for a 13 year old, but still sometimes i get "bad thoughts" about me, and i want them to stop but i don't know how! PLZ HELP ME Lynae P.
by Madistar<3 on 1/6/2012 4:39:01 PM
Oh well, everyone is negative sometimes chica Please visit my Advice Queen page! I really like to give advice to peeps just post a question and i will answer it on your profile as soon as i see it.
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