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I have three best friends. I’m closer to one than the others. Sometimes she and I talk about the other two. But she and one of the others always ride bikes to school and hang out at each other’s houses. And I’m worried that they talk about me, too.

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dear carol,
i have been having trouble with my bff and my frenemy. My bff maricruz and i have been friends for a long time and this year when we started 6th grade this new girl came and she has been trying to tear me and maricruz apart!i already talked to maricruz about it and she agreed with me but now she is hanging out with her again and my frenemy is still trying to tear us apart. what should i do?

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by fantagegirl on 1/11/2012 12:28:02 AM

Hey blackcrow1314, mhmm well in that case, I think you guys should just slowly cut her off and if she asks why tell her what you just told me. Hope this helps! Xoxo

MOD (Lynae P.)
Thanks for the advice, but the girl is very sensitive and might get mad at us if we do try to tell her nicely.She always threatens to take us to the principal's office and I feel like if we talk to her we will end up getting in trouble. Lynae P.

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by blackcrow1314 on 1/7/2012 8:02:54 PM

Hey blackcrow1314, maybe you guys should sit her down and talk to her. She may not be aware that she's acting the way she is. All of you should get together and explain to her that she has been paranoid and a little annoying. If she doesn't change, then you guys will just have to slowly cut her off. You don't have to be mean, but don't call her as much or invite her to everything. Hope this helps! Xoxo

MOD MOD.
Ok so i have a group of friends and there are five of us. But four of us are starting to become annoyed with the fifth girl and let's call her Natalie. Lately Natalie has become very paranoid about people and us talking about her. And it wasnt bad at first but now she is unbearable and we dont want to be friends with her anymore. How can we stop being her friend without being mean? Lynae P.

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by blackcrow1314 on 1/7/2012 3:40:06 PM

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I have an old friend. Lets call her Leah. She was at my friend Lisas house and she picked up the phone.She preteneded to be crying and sobbing on the phone and told me my friend Leah died I cried for hours because Lisa does have MS. Later I found out it was a prank! I dont know what to do now.What should I do?

Hey Girl! It's not funny to pull a prank that a close friend has died! Calmly explain to your friend Lisa that you do not find those kind of jokes funny and that it is not appropriate to do. Explain that you care a lot about Leah so that is unfair to you.

Maddie B.

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by mickyabc on 1/6/2012 2:42:34 PM

MOD MOD MOD (Meghan D. ) You have to go to the washroom with someone the teachers wont let us by ourselves and its not like showers

its just a regular washroom i was just gonna use the sink to clean my pants off as much as i could . Its not like u think.

Hey girl,

Next time, then, why not explain to your friends that you'd like to get cleaned up and could use their help? If worst comes to worst, you could just ask a teacher and explain the situation if you can't find a buddy.

Meghan D.

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by mozilla10 on 12/31/2011 10:15:22 AM