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I have three best friends. I’m closer to one than the others. Sometimes she and I talk about the other two. But she and one of the others always ride bikes to school and hang out at each other’s houses. And I’m worried that they talk about me, too.

 

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They probably do. But, oh well, you can’t have it both ways. And while they may indeed gossip, I doubt they’re vicious. Don’t worry. As Oscar Wilde said, “There is only one thing in the world worse than being talked about, and that is not being talked about.”
 
 

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MOD. Mod. There is a problem am having with a person on my basketball team. The coach is her aunt and she gets to start every game. Her Aunt never takes her out and she doesn't even play the people she dosen't like. The girl on my team even corrects us whenever we are practicing like she is so perfect at the sport. I don't know what to do because the rest of the players on the team work twice as hard and some are a lot better than her. I don't want this season to turn out like the last one




Well it sounds like the coach is choosing favorites and theres not gonna be a whole lot you can do about that. However you could try to join a different league so that you can have more fun and get more play time. Its up to you. xoxo kerra 
Kerra S.

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by blondie15laine on 12/6/2011 6:13:26 PM

 
 

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Bad Case of Procrastination?
I always get distracted when I actually TRY to focus on hw, etc...Any tips for procrastination?




Hey girl! Trust me I know exactly how you feel, I am the queen of procrastination. I have found that listening to music is the best way to keep me focused because it blocks out all other noises and just becomes routine. 
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by sready on 12/6/2011 1:11:11 AM

 
 

ok so this doesn't exactly pretain to this subject but all my "friends" copy me and follow me i've told them like i can go somewhere by myselfim just fine by myself and its so annoying they copy everything i wear to i've gotten so sick of it i've started wearing sweatpants tshirts and tennies everywhere and surprise surprise..so have they:p people tell me to take it as a compliment but i don't i hate it and i go to a small private school with a class of 16 and half of them try to look just like me the only different thing is that im alowed to dye my hair unlike the rest of them so i dyed it red like cherry red so yeah i've tried telling them to stop and they act like i'm causing the problem. what do i do?????

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by belieberinbieber on 11/19/2011 10:34:15 PM

 
 

Well This has happend to me alot too but I always remember this verse my grandma tells me your lies will always be found out about so yea.....also im new here so can u add ppl as friends or what all can yhu do can yhu chat??

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by Camo Country Chick on 11/19/2011 9:51:55 PM

 
 



Mod MOD!!!!!! please answer
My friend is SO mean to me. Like we were doing a class project where we had to cut these slips of paper up and sort them. She rolled her eyes and said," I'm just gonna let you cut them." and turned around to talk to my bff Olivia. When I had two left I asked her if she could do the rest. She sighed really loud and took it. Then, the teacher told us to sort them. I did, but she was too busy talking. I gently shook her shoulder to tell her to do It but she pinches my hand and shakes it off! I tried again and she rolled her yes and turned around and said " what?" in a really bratty tone. Then I told her she had to do the assignment and she goes," maddi, y don't u just do it" and when I told her I did she throws the leftover paper on my desk and starts. She does stuff like this all the time and then always acts like it's ok. Sorry this is so long!!! Thanks!!!




Hey girl,

Whoa... this is SUPER witchy (with a B...). Who says she has the right to treat you like this? Who says she is entitled to making you do all the work? You deserve WAY more respect than this! Personally, I'd probably stop talking to her so much and, instead, hang out with my other friends a lot more. She'll probably notice the fact that you've become less available...and then you can tell her straight: you want to spend time with friends who respect you, don't walk all over you, and are nice people. (Vary that up depending on the situation - you don't want to go down to her level and be totally mean, but you want to get your point across.) Be strong here and stand up for what you deserve! <3
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